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One faithful day, my mother in law tempted me and made me have s£x with her.Initially,  I've gone to visit my girlfriend...
09/09/2024

One faithful day, my mother in law tempted me and made me have s£x with her.
Initially, I've gone to visit my girlfriend Deborah at her parents house to spend the day because it was on Saturday which was my day off from work.
When I arrived there, no one was in the yard neither my girlfriënd.
Her father had gone to work.
Only my girlfriend's mother was in the compound.
As I knocked the front door, she responded from inside, but when I got to the sitting room, I realised she was in the bathroom in her room.
"Hello, who is there?" she questioned from the bathroom that is in her room.
"It's me Roland." I replied.
"Oh, Roland, you can wait in the sitting room, I'll be out soon." She instructed me.
Since everyone is used to me in this house, it felt almost like my own parents house.
So I had privilege to almost everything in the house.
Everyone treated me with respect most especially her mother.
The mother even treated me like her first son.
While I was in the sitting room, I picked up the TV remote, turned on the news and started watching it.
It was not long when my mother-in-law came out of her room, heading straight to the sitting room.
She was only wearing towel, she didn't even cover herself very well.
This lady seems to be around her 49th but she still looked so young and beautiful at such age.
She greeted with a smile and I responded calmly.
I felt so embarrassed.
So for that I kept my faced so glued to the TV as if my life depends on it.
Immediately she walked straight to the direction of the TV and was busy tiptoeing and searching for something behind the TV.
I can say that she was now blocking my view.
"I Placed my purse here last night but I can't find it." She said while she was busy searching.
I pretended I didn’t hear her.
I was so embarrassed because of the exposure of her body.
"Why Don't this lady just go and wear better cloths before coming over here to search for her purse?" I questioned myself in my mind.She was busy tiptoeing till the towel on her

HOW MONEY AFFECTS YOUR S*X LIFE...✍🏾1. Couples that are struggling financially tend to have pathetic s*x lives. Their ma...
01/09/2024

HOW MONEY AFFECTS YOUR S*X LIFE...✍🏾

1. Couples that are struggling financially tend to have pathetic s*x lives. Their marriage tends to have arguments about the lack of money and the misuse of money. It is difficult to desire or even enjoy s*x yet you don't even know where food for the children or rent money is coming from. In case you two are struggling financially, understand when your spouse says they are not in the mood for s*x. Channel that energy towards finding real financial solutions.

2. Some couples however have alot of s*x when facing financial problems because the or***ms give them relief, after the relief, they get up and look for solutions.

3. Most men who are struggling financially tend to be very insecure and they think their women will leave them and go sleep with a rich man. This insecurity makes them attack their wives, call them pr******te for no reason and dictate where the wife goes and does.

4. Women struggle to make love to a husband who is not putting effort in providing financially and is just lazy. A hard working husband turns on a woman

5. Men struggle to make love to a wife who is ungrateful about his financial effort and who takes advantage of him financially.

6. Alot of people because of their financial woes turn to po*******hy and ma********on as an escape. Sadly this addiction gives no lasting solutions and often wastes time.

7. Some, because of their financial problems turn to pr******tes and alcohol. They will find money to pay a pr******te or buy alcohol yet rent is not being paid, kids have no school fees and no food on the table. This is wasteful and will lead you to feeling useless.

8. Some people just to get ahead in life financially give their bodies for s*xual favours. Anyone who has s*x with you to give you success ends up owning you. It is a miserable kind of success

9. The wealthier some people get, the more s*xually irresponsible they become. They cheat on their spouses, play multiple people,

Have you ever felt like you're stuck in a relationship where you're constantly insulted, abused, body-shamed, feeling dr...
31/08/2024

Have you ever felt like you're stuck in a relationship where you're constantly insulted, abused, body-shamed, feeling drained, or making excuses for bad behavior? That's a red flag for a toxic relationship.

If you're often walking on eggshells or feeling less than you deserve, it might be time to rethink your situation.

Listen, leaving a toxic partner isn't about giving up; it's about giving yourself the chance to heal and thrive.

Remember, you're not obligated to stay in a relationship that harms your well-being. Your peace of mind and self-respect should always come first.

Trust yourself sometimes, the bravest thing you can do is to walk away from what's hurting you. The right person must surely come.

AVOID THESE TYPES OF MEN1. THE NARCISSIST:A narcissist has an inflated sense of self-importance, a deep need for excessi...
31/08/2024

AVOID THESE TYPES OF MEN

1. THE NARCISSIST:
A narcissist has an inflated sense of self-importance, a deep need for excessive attention and admiration, and a lack of empathy for others. He is manipulative, exploitative, entitled, and lacks genuine empathy. Don’t marry him.

2. THE COMMITMENT-PHOBIC:
If he consistently avoids discussions about the future or commitment, it’s a sign he’s not ready for a serious relationship.

3. THE MAMA'S BOY:
If he is overly dependent on his mother and seeks her approval in everything, it can create tension in your relationship. If he’s still tied to his mother’s apron strings, let him be.

4. THE CONTROL FREAK:
This man may try to control every aspect of your life, from what you wear to who you see and where you go. Someone who always needs to be in control can make it difficult to maintain a healthy, balanced partnership.

5. THE SERIAL CHEATER:
Trust is the foundation of any successful marriage, and someone with a history of infidelity may not be capable of building or maintaining that trust. Don’t give what is holy to a dog.

6. THE PERPETUAL ADOLESCENT:
While a sense of fun and playfulness is important, someone who refuses to take on adult responsibilities or make mature decisions may not be ready for marriage. He is a baby husband in the making.

7. THE ABUSER:
Whether it's physical, emotional, or psychological abuse, any form of mistreatment should be a clear red flag.

8. THE ADDICT:
Whether it's drugs, alcohol, gambling, or any other addiction, being in a relationship with a man struggling with addiction can be challenging and stressful. Don’t inherit a liability.

9. THE UNRESOLVED BAGGAGE HOLDER:
"Unresolved baggage" refers to emotional issues or traumas from the past that have not been adequately addressed or processed. This includes childhood trauma, low self-esteem, identity crises, and negative belief patterns.

10. THE FINANCIALLY IRRESPONSIBLE:
If a man is unable to manage his finances or constantly relies on others

*ATTENTION!!!**Whenever you want to date. Date someone mature enough to say,* *"babe calm down lets settle this, am not ...
31/08/2024

*ATTENTION!!!*

*Whenever you want to date. Date someone mature enough to say,* *"babe calm down lets settle this, am not ready to loose you.*
*Honestly l don't like what you did and l will appreciate if you stop it, because it hurts me.*

*Not someone who will go out there acting childishly, lgnoring you and dragging issues from Lagos to kogi !🙆‍♂️*
*If you are matured enough you will realized that relationship is not all about dating someone beautiful, handsome or dating your type*
*It's all about dating someone who really loves you, cares about you and the relationship.*

*So, date someone who is ready to build with you.*
*Never build relationship to impress friends, such relationship will fail.*
*Relationship needs a loving heart and unbreakable trust!*

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Stop wasting your time trying to convince yourself that someone who doesn't call, text or communicate with you, loves yo...
31/08/2024

Stop wasting your time trying to convince yourself that someone who doesn't call, text or communicate with you, loves you...

When that one person loves you, they will always be moved to hear from you:

They will always be moved to know if you are doing well.

They will show you they care, They will call you regularly, no matter how busy they are.

If they don't show you they care because they claim to be busy, it means you are clean and clear, not important.

Stop killing yourself over people who don't even remember that you are alive.

Stop killing yourself over people who don't care about how you feel.

When people don't care, it simply means you ain't valuable to them.

Nobody ignores what and who they love and cherish so do this one thing and save honour and dignity:
Arrange yourself and start doing without them.👑❤️

THE ADVANTAGES OF SPOONINGSpooning is when a couple lays in bed the way that two spoons may be positioned side by side, ...
30/08/2024

THE ADVANTAGES OF SPOONING

Spooning is when a couple lays in bed the way that two spoons may be positioned side by side, with bowls aligned.

The advantages are

1. It keeps both warm

2. With the man being behind, the woman feels wrapped around with care and the man feels like a protector

3. When it is the woman behind, the man feels he's with a woman confident enough to love, the woman feels he safe to be vulnerable with her

4. It can make great pillow talks as your faces are so close to each other. Make sure your teeth are brushed not to repel each other with bad breath

5. It positions you so close, ideal for fondling and stroking. With you two close, you touch up each other

6. It turns on the woman. Some women get aroused when they feel the p***s knocking on the butt and the man breathing near her

7. It turns on a man. Some men get aroused when their p***s presses on the woman's butt

8. It keeps you at a good distance to rub your spouse's ni***es, especially if he/she has sensitive ni***es

9. It can make a great s*x position as the man makes love to the woman, penetrating her from behind. If he wants to get creative, he can lift up her upper leg for a newer view and sensations

10. When he is making love to her on this position, he can kiss and nibble on her neck and ears if those are some of her erogenous spots

11. It can be a nice position to hold each other till you fall asleep in each other's arms.

STRICTLY FOR THE MARRIED AND MATURE SINGLESTHE TRUTH ABOUT S*X MEN DON'T WANT YOU TO KNOWBecause they know you will cond...
30/08/2024

STRICTLY FOR THE MARRIED AND MATURE SINGLES
THE TRUTH ABOUT S*X MEN DON'T WANT YOU TO KNOW

Because they know you will condemn them, see them as s*x freaks, call them dogs and give them unprintable names but that does not stop a man from being a man or do you wanna marry a woman?

To have a full blast, blissful relationship with a man, you must understand what makes him a red blooded male! If you do, your man will not only love you but go crazy for you every single day of his life.

1. Men are very s*xual.

2. Men are are very visual. An average man thinks s*x at least 8 times daily. That is the least. Men are bombarded with s*xual images all day from bill boards adverts to pictures on social media to sc****ly clad ladies in church. Because they are visual and s*xual, they take in images that create s*xual pressure seeking a form of release.

3. Men are excited about female body parts.

4. Breasts and buttocks get men turned on.Tight fitting clothes around the chest region and bosom region can drive a man crazy!

5. Men's ego in marriage is boosted when their wives respond to their s*xual advances. Rejecting a man s*xually is rejecting him.

6. When a wife pursues her husband s*xually, she boosts his self esteem by 50%.

7. A woman who moans during s*x gives her husband 80% ego boost on his s*xual performance.

8. S*x is not food to a man, it is the air he breathes. He can't live long without it.

9. Beauty is useless to a man if it is not available for s*x.

10. A s*xually hot woman is very beautiful to a man no matter how unattractive or shapeless others see her. To the man, she is his Madonna, the queen of his s*x kingdom, the one who rules, dominates and controls his entire universe.

11. A tight va**na does wonders on the p***s than any man will tell you.

12. Men love s*xual adventure.

13. It is not the size and shape of breasts that matter but how they are packaged and presented to the man.

14. Men love to suck breasts. Carrying the breasts away

LISTEN TO ME ■S*x is beyond the act of pe*******on. It needs passion, patience and discipline. A lot of women define s*x...
30/08/2024

LISTEN TO ME

■S*x is beyond the act of pe*******on. It needs passion, patience and discipline. A lot of women define s*x as an incomplete project because men fail to help them cum.

●Here are the few basic simple steps you'll need to master in order to satisfy your women.

▪︎Take your time and explore foreplay. The longer you take kissing, caressing and touching is the quicker she will cum. A delayed pernatration also delay your cm as a man.

•A foreplay is not complete without oral s*x. Likin the c**t _ don't clean the temple. It's ok for her to cm

• Take your time to study her body. Her body language will tell you where to touch her. Most women hold themselves where they want to be touched. She'll either hold her breast, or she play with her clirit. Her body will direct you.

• Don't be to quick to put it in. It's Okey to frustrate your p***s while you romance her. Even if you cm is ok. Prepare yourself for the game ahead.

• When she is ready, she will put it in herself. They normally put it to right spot. The very spot that you need to focus on.

•Her movement will tell you if she want it hard or gentle. Or she will shout; "harder!! Harder!!" While you hit it harder...

▪︎ Focus on the G spot not the A spot. That depth pe*******on hit the A spot not the G spot. The G spot is on the walls not in the liver lol.

▪︎ For her to experience multiple or**sm you need to hit the walls that's where she finds more stimulation.

▪︎Avoid the A Spot, it will end the Game before time. S*x Positions like the butterfly position, can help hit the G spot and still be able to access her c**t, rubbing her c**t while penetrating does magic but do not rub it too much.

●I repeat, In all shots avoid the A Spot, it will end the Game before time. One reason why most men cm quickly is because they do straight hit or angle hit instead of spin hit . Spin hit delays the ej*******on.

15 THINGS YOU NEED TO KNOW ABOUT SAYING "SORRY"1. Saying sorry doesn't make you weak or less of a man or woman, it actua...
30/08/2024

15 THINGS YOU NEED TO KNOW ABOUT SAYING "SORRY"

1. Saying sorry doesn't make you weak or less of a man or woman, it actually brings you honour

2. Saying sorry shows that you care about your partner's feelings. Choosing not to do so makes your partner defensive and withdrawn

3. Most adults don't want to accept responsibility and they keep blaming others thus destroying valuable relationships

4. If you are obsessed about being right then you are not ready to love

5. Don't wait until it's too late or things become complicated to apologise. Apologise to your partner as soon as you are aware you have hurt him/her

6. When you justify your reasons why you hurt your partner, you deepen the wound. Own up

7. Even when you think you have done no wrong, as long as your partner feels offended by you, an apology is needed. Don't belittle your partner's feelings

8. Don't throw money and gifts at problems. Be brave enough to attend to your partner's feelings instead of covering up

9. Don't keep repeating what you apologise for. It shows insincerity

10. Don't hide behind s*x. Just because in the middle of an issue you and your spouse have great s*x doesn't mean an apology is no longer needed

11. Don't over apologise. If you have said sorry and your partner has forgiven you, stop feeling sorry and dwelling on the issue. You will drain your love for each other. Move on to loving better

12. Sometimes all that is needed to save your relationship/marriage is "I am sorry"

13. Don't be so easy to apologise to your boss, friends, pastor, clients yet find it difficult to apologise to your partner. Your life partner should matter the most

14. Teach your children to say sorry by apologising to them when you treat them unfairly, harshly or fail to do as promised

15. Remember that love covers a multitude of sins. Your partner doesn't expect you to be perfect, he/she expects your effort to be better

HOW TO GET PEOPLE ATTRACTED TO YOU 1. Be mysterious. It develops attraction towards you.2. Be least available. Scarce th...
30/08/2024

HOW TO GET PEOPLE ATTRACTED TO YOU

1. Be mysterious. It develops attraction towards you.
2. Be least available. Scarce things are always attractive to the people.
3. Be confident. It shows you are capable of doing things in a better way.
4. Be well dressed. Your great dressing sense attracts the attention of others.
5. Smell good. Use powerful perfume and deo to catch other's attention.
6. Your body language should be open. It shows you are frank and carefree.
7. Be least responsive to attract other people. This will draw their attention towards you and will increase your demand.
8. Don't sell yourself so easily to the people. Let them make efforts to win you because people don't value the things which they get easily.
9. Don't express yourself much on social media. This kills the attraction.
10. Don't care what other people think about you.
11. Don't be desperate while talking or texting to someone.
12. Don't be needy. The more needy you become, the least attention you get. Learn to say NO.
12. Be yourself. Don't change yourself to win someone. Change yourself to improve.
13.Don't reveal everything about yourself. Revealing everything about yourself makes you 'least attractive' person.
14. Don't get affected if someone is not giving you importance you want or deserve.
Always be the one to end the conversation.
15. Don't show too much interest in anyone.
16. Don't be too nice to the people. People will take you granted for it and you are destined to loose all the attractions. Strong sense of humour increases the attraction because it's also one of the signs of an intelligent personality.
17. Show priority to your goal and not any other people (expect your family members).
18. During conversation, make eye-contact with the other person and smile slightly.
19. Love yourself and never be afraid to stand up for what you believe. Be opinionated and up to date about trendy topics and other social issues.
20. Be adventurous. Travel to amazing places and have someamazing

DEAR HUSBAND...1. If you want your wife to make love to you often, then take care of her heart. You cannot mistreat your...
30/08/2024

DEAR HUSBAND...

1. If you want your wife to make love to you often, then take care of her heart. You cannot mistreat your wife and hurt her then expect great and frequent s*x

2. If you want your wife to respect you, then you have to do respectable and admirable things. You cannot dishonour her and shame her then expect her to excuse your gross misbehavior with a blanket respect. She can't submit to torture

3. If you want your wife to feel safe with you and open up to you, then you have to stop emotionally and physically abusing her. You cannot instil fear and wonder why she protects herself from you

4. If you want your wife to enjoy intimacy with you, then you have to maintain oral and body hygiene. You cannot expect your wife to enjoy kissing you and playing with your p***s yet you smell of sweat, you don't shower, don't brush your teeth and smell of miraa, w**d or alcohol

5. If you want your wife to stop complaining, then you need to stop repeating the same wrongs. She complains because she has to call you out when you do wrong since she believes you can be better

6. If you want your wife to be financially transparent with you and to stop making financial decisions behind your back, then you need to start showing financial responsibility. As long as you keep being reckless, she will save and invest without your knowledge to protect her future and that of the children

7. If you want your wife to brag about you to people, then do things that make her proud. She cannot pretend that you are a great man yet you are not

8. If you want your wife to stop nagging and being moody, then you need to make time to spend with her and make her feel special. A woman nags and becomes grumpy when she feels neglected. A loved up wife glows

9. If you want your wife to stop fighting your friends, then you need to stop surrounding yourself with the wrong friends and allowing your friends to pull you away from your family. You wife is just protecting you

7 SECRETS TO A JOYFUL RELATIONSHIP:1. LET GO OF THE PASTAvoid contact with exes and former partners. Holding onto the pa...
29/08/2024

7 SECRETS TO A JOYFUL RELATIONSHIP:

1. LET GO OF THE PAST
Avoid contact with exes and former partners. Holding onto the past can plant seeds of doubt and insecurity in your current relationship. Instead, pour your energy into nurturing the bond you share now.

2. FOSTER A TRUE FRIENDSHIP
Be the best of friends, not just partners. A strong friendship lays the foundation for trust and deepens your connection, making your relationship more resilient.

3. SHARE YOUR WORLD WITH ENTHUSIASM
Eagerly share the details of your day, making time for both career and connection. Understanding and appreciating each other’s daily experiences weaves your lives closer together.

4. CHERISH HONESTY
Honesty is the cornerstone of any relationship. Even the smallest lies can erode trust over time. Transparency strengthens your bond and ensures a solid foundation.

5. KEEP ROMANCE ALIVE
Romance is more than just physical closeness. Embrace long drives, movie nights, surprise gestures, cuddles, and kisses. These small moments keep the spark burning brightly.

6. CONNECT THROUGH CONVERSATION
Make time for regular communication. Daily meaningful conversations are the lifeblood of a thriving relationship. A lack of communication often signals a relationship drifting apart.

7. PRACTICE LOYALTY AND SELF-CONTROL
In a world full of temptations, staying committed means understanding your boundaries and maintaining self-control. True loyalty is a choice made daily.

A relationship flourishes when cherished every day, approached with joy, and never treated as a chore. Remember, your relationship should be a source of comfort and happiness, not stress and strain.


Young lady, when you are of a marriageable age becareful of any young man you do not have a defined relationship with fl...
26/08/2024

Young lady, when you are of a marriageable age becareful of any young man you do not have a defined relationship with flocking around you like a sheep without a shepherd.

Disconnect from every cloudiness and unnecessary bugging giving false appearance that you’re taken to single young men admiring you from afar.

Stopeeet, to those of you whose bestie is a male, stopeeet, immediately you step into your marital season and timing. Else, many young men around will be thinking you’re engaged or taken.

Don’t think every promising young men will have that fortitude to be asking questions around if you’re actually single or not.

And to every young man creating false and wrong impression that you’re taken whereas you’re not, keep confusing yourself ooh, keep damaging your chances of getting the right person made for you.

There’s a way you can be too familiar with too many good ladies and you’ll end up being confused for so many years of not knowing who is now right for you or not, stop that nonsense today.

Stay off and clear off when you’ve nothing serious to do with that lady.

If you’re single and open for a relationship, make it known and not hide it: it’s better that way than to create false impressions till good persons walk you past assuming you’re taken.

And this doesn’t mean you’ll lower your standards, you still have the right to reject and accept who is absolutely right for you.

It’s better you’re known single than to confuse everyone with wrong impressions — yet dying in the silence asking God that silent questions: Am I a spoon or a wooden chairs.

You’re the one confusing the singles! 🤷
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