07/06/2026
Good evening y'all.....this one's for my dear parents
Love matters and when I say love I don't mean the normal l love my kid kinda normal thing. I mean the love the exceeds the natural, that child needs to feel loved to the extent that every other unnatural love that comes from outside would not be new under the sun. It's from love that they feel that they can talk to you and that brings to.....
Communication... This is one vital most parents find challenging especially our 90s parents, communication is key, you cant always be right when dealing with your children but out of respect they just wave it off and not talk bk. If you are always stern, moody, judgemental trust me they will find it hard to talk to you at all thereby leading them to hoarding secrets of their own. But an open space, a free mind can make them tell you even the most underlying secrets of theirs at least 70% of it which would mk you know half of your child.
Attention- Knowing your child is important because these parents tend to put their work over their children. You are always busy and at the end of the day, you will end up not loving nor communicating properly with ya child, you will know nothing about him or her. If he or she is going through a particular thing you have no idea because you are busy. That's why you end up hearing he r***d me, he drugged me, am pregnant mom, why are you doing drugs or p**n but these incidents could have been avoided if only you looked closer to ya kids.
Understanding your God given children has never been an easy task but as a parent trust you are placed to the guide, the protector to them.
Correct with love
Allow them make some mistakes especially if minor
Help keep their dreams alive
Connect them to God
Inspire cares ❤️