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FOCUS 21 – LEAVING PRIDE AND EMBRACING HUMILITY“Pride builds walls where marriage needs doors.” – Stella EriamiatoeMany ...
21/10/2025

FOCUS 21 – LEAVING PRIDE AND EMBRACING HUMILITY

“Pride builds walls where marriage needs doors.” – Stella Eriamiatoe

Many couples fail to cleave because pride keeps them from vulnerability.
Pride refuses to apologize, fears asking for help, and demands to always be right. Yet love grows only in humble hearts. Philippians 2:3 urges us to value others above ourselves.

In one of our family moment episodes, “Love or Submission: which should come first?” Mrs. Mary said something very profound: “LOVE IN MARRIAGE, IS GIVING UP THE RIGHT TO BE RIGHT”
While pride creates distance, humility draws hearts close. A spouse who refuses to admit wrong or acknowledge weakness sends a silent message: “I don’t need you.” Over time, this erodes trust and warmth. Pride makes true connection impossible.

Humility doesn’t mean weakness. Its strength under control, choosing to listen, learn, and admit fault when necessary. Couples who practice humility repair faster after conflict and create safety for emotional honesty and bonding.

Make humility practical: offer an unprompted apology this week, ask for your spouse’s perspective first, and acknowledge one area where you need their help. Doors open where pride once locked them.

In what area of your marriage have you let pride stop you from admitting faults or listening? Choose one way to show humility this week.





21/10/2025

MORNING SURGE: 21/10/2025



FOCUS 20 – LEAVING ISOLATION AND EMBRACING PARTNERSHIP “Marriage isn’t two people living side by side; it’s two hearts m...
20/10/2025

FOCUS 20 – LEAVING ISOLATION AND EMBRACING PARTNERSHIP

“Marriage isn’t two people living side by side; it’s two hearts moving forward as one.” – Stella Eriamiatoe

Some couples coexist but do not partner. They run separate schedules, goals, and finances. This isolation often comes from fear or past wounds, a way to avoid vulnerability. Yet marriage was designed for a shared life and purpose.

Ecclesiastes 4:9 says, “Two are better than one, because they have a good reward for their labor.” Partnership means dreaming, praying, and planning together. When one remains self-contained, the other feels unnecessary and lonely.

Leaving isolation involves inviting your spouse into your inner world. Share struggles, goals, and decisions. Learn to rely on and support each other. Cleaving is not losing yourself; it’s building a richer self through unity.

Always ask periodically: What’s hard? Where do we need each other? What can we do better? Partnerships are formed in small, consistent steps.

If there are areas where you’ve stayed self-contained to avoid disappointment, share one dream or struggle with your spouse this week.





20/10/2025

MORNING SURGE: 20/10/2025



FOCUS 19 – LEAVING THE NEED FOR CONSTANT EXTERNAL VALIDATION“True marital growth begins the day your worth stops dependi...
19/10/2025

FOCUS 19 – LEAVING THE NEED FOR CONSTANT EXTERNAL VALIDATION

“True marital growth begins the day your worth stops depending on who claps for you.” – Stella Eriamiatoe

Some struggle to cleave because they crave affirmation from friends, followers, or colleagues more than from their spouse. Social media can amplify this hunger. When your identity rests outside your marriage, you may neglect or undervalue your partner’s support, and your love may become a stage act, not a heart bond.

Psychologists have affirmed that self-compassion, not external praise, builds stability. Partners who seek constant validation elsewhere may flirt with emotional affairs or compare their spouses unfairly. True marital strength is built on internal assurance: knowing who you are and what you share, even when no one is watching or applauding.

Leaving this need, means building internal worth and honoring your spouse’s voice. Compliments from the world feel nice, but your deepest validation should come from God, self-respect, and the one you vowed to walk with. It is not about how loud others cheer for you, but how deeply you and your partner cheer for each other in private moments.

Practice a daily exchange of encouragement at home. When your spouse speaks, let their voice weigh more than the crowd’s, and let your own self-respect anchor your heart.

Do you rely more on likes or external praise than on your spouse’s affirmation? Commit to valuing their encouragement and building self-worth from within.




Your marriage isn’t a competition — it’s a covenant uniquely crafted between you and your spouse. Grow at your own pace,...
19/10/2025

Your marriage isn’t a competition — it’s a covenant uniquely crafted between you and your spouse.

Grow at your own pace, build with intention, and cherish the journey together


19/10/2025

MORNING SURGE: 19/10/2025



FOCUS 18 – LEAVING UNFORGIVEN ESS BEHIND“You can’t hold grudges and hold your spouse close at the same time.” – Stella E...
18/10/2025

FOCUS 18 – LEAVING UNFORGIVEN ESS BEHIND

“You can’t hold grudges and hold your spouse close at the same time.” – Stella Eriamiatoe

Resentment ties you to the past. Some couples stay married but live emotionally separate because of unhealed offenses. Anger creates silent walls, making cleaving impossible. Dr. Gary Chapman says, “Forgiveness is the oil that keeps the relationship moving.”

Holding on to pain feels protective, but it poisons intimacy. When bitterness lingers, trust erodes, and every conflict is magnified by old wounds. The past becomes a third person in the marriage; if left, can grow to become a dictator in the marriage.

Leaving unforgiveness means choosing healing through conversation, counseling, prayer, or therapy. It’s not forgetting but refusing to let the past control today. Forgiveness frees love to flow again.

Adopt a simple peacemaking pattern: name the hurt, name the need, and name the next step. It must be understood that forgiveness is a process; it is not automatic. You can grieve over the hurt if you have to. It is not out of place to digest the facts; it is part of the process because mercy doesn’t erase truth; it empowers it to heal. In all, you must be ready to seek closure.

Is there an unresolved hurt you’ve carried silently? Plan a calm conversation or consider counseling to seek closure and rebuild closeness.




Shout out to our newest followers! Excited to have you onboard! Adeyemo Oluwasamuel Oluwaseyi, Anointing Ohaji, Abiodun ...
18/10/2025

Shout out to our newest followers! Excited to have you onboard! Adeyemo Oluwasamuel Oluwaseyi, Anointing Ohaji, Abiodun Gbenga, Adebiyi Adedayo Olorunosetemiti, Arrent Charles, Moses Uchechukwu, Bello Lamidi, Muhammed Sharubutu, Ndubuisi Onyemaechi, Junior Kasanda, Achenyo Grace Godwin, Unique Eunice

18/10/2025

MORNING SURGE: 18/10/2025



FOCUS 17 – LEAVING UNHEALTHY LOYALTY TO EXTENDED FAMILY “Loyalty without boundaries turns love into captivity.” – Stella...
17/10/2025

FOCUS 17 – LEAVING UNHEALTHY LOYALTY TO EXTENDED FAMILY

“Loyalty without boundaries turns love into captivity.” – Stella Eriamiatoe

Extended family is a blessing, but blind loyalty can choke a marriage. Some feel obligated to meet every sibling or cousin's demand, even at the expense of their spouse. Others let family conflicts dictate their home atmosphere.

Scripture teaches balance: “If anyone does not provide for his household… "He has denied the faith” (1 Timothy 5:8). Marriage forms a new primary family. Over-involvement robs time, finances, and focus meant for your spouse and children.

Leaving unhealthy loyalty doesn’t mean neglecting relatives; it means prioritizing wisely. Discuss obligations together, give united answers, and set financial or emotional limits. Unity grows when you and your spouse face extended family as a team.

Choose a family decision-making rule: “We discuss first, decide together, and respond as one.” This simple unity stance defuses most external pressures.

Do family obligations often override your marital plans? Identify one area to establish a united boundary.




17/10/2025

MORNING SURGE: 17/10/2025



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