15/02/2026
Your environment prohibits your healing or helps your healing process is what am learning in this season.
There is a certain type of isolation you need for your healing process to grow and gain wings and weight and fortify itself in your core.
Everybody on social media talks about how you need people and you need to be around community and how you need to attach yourself to be mentored and things...not all advice is for you.
Sometimes the simple advice you need that is essential for your growth, is jesus, your own place to Stay in and your secret place with God. Thats it.
And from there healing grows long enough and fortifies itself long enough and then you begin to navigate through few people that you need. Emphasis on FEW PEOPLE.
But you see that vital isolation, people need isolation for healing. There is certain kind of detachment you need. From people, from monitoring, from rebuke, criticism, too many chaos , what is essential is just you, your place to stay and your secret place without outside influence.
So in essence what am saying is, people around you can stunt your healing process, people you are living with, people you hang around, people you associate with, Sometimes even the people you call "family, friends or helpers ".
Sometimes healing requires you to completely severe the cord from people around you and get a fresh identity rooted in isolation and jesus alone.
We are too attached to what is familiar alot of times that's why we struggle with our thoughts versus what people perceive of us and we plunge into "people pleasing and self preservation' that we loose ourselves in the process and we fail to heal.
Am learning alot in this season. What is familiar sometimes can be the very thing stunting your growth.
