10/10/2025
Truth about Men,
Ladies, please pay attention!
Men typically have two main reasons for being with women: SEX and LOVE. However, when it comes to marriage, most men don’t marry for these reasons. They marry for STABILITY.
What I mean by that is:
A man can love you and still not marry you. He might be with you sexually for years without proposing. But once he meets someone who brings stability into his life, he will marry her.
By "stability," I mean "Peace of Mind." Men often say, "I love this woman, but I don’t think I can spend my life with her." When men think about marriage, they’re not focused on things like wedding dresses or bridesmaids, like many women are. Instead, they think, “Can this woman create a home with me? Can she take care of our children and me? Will she give me peace and comfort?”
Men seek peace. They avoid women who bring stress into their lives. This is why a man might stay with one woman for years but marry someone else after a shorter time.
For men, it’s not just about sex or love; it’s about RESPECT, because respect brings STABILITY.
So as a lady preparing to get married please ask yourself, Can I bring stability to this man's life?
Can I be his peace of mind ?
Can I bring comfort to his soul, spirit and body?
OR
Am I getting married to him because it's high time I get married as my mates are all married?
Did I accept him because he is rich and can take care of me, what will happen if anything happens to the money?
Do I love him enough to tolerate or understand him when the need arises?
If you can ask yourself these questions and answer them sincerely then you will know whether to continue with that man or quit to save your future cuz a wrong marriage will push you to do evil and people will condem you without knowing what you have endured and how it has messed up your mental health, it's better to leave when you are still young and vibrant enough to find real love than when you've had kids and doesn't know how to start all over with them.
NOTE: please don't marry a nonchalant partner cuz it might cost you your life.
Example; when you are seriously ill and needs to go to the hospital and your nonchalant partner tells you to take paracetamol and some painkillers that you will be fine, even when you know within you that you are dieing
Please guys whom you marry determines how far you go in life, choose wisely
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