15/10/2025
Bro, Donât Lose Yourself in a Relationship â You Still Have a Life. Let me tell you something that most men donât want to hear â
when many guys get into relationships, they fall asleep.
The same man who used to wake up early, go to the gym, work hard, create content, chase goalsâŚ
Now heâs indoors 24/7 saying âbabe, have you eaten?â every 20 minutesđ.
Bro, when did you retire from your own life?
Most of you get a woman and suddenly make her the centre of your universe.
You forget you had a purpose before you had a partner.
When you met her, you were interesting â you had ambition, you had plans.
Now? Youâve become her pet project.
Everything is âbabe, babe, babeâ â nothing about you.
And the irony is â
the same things that made her attracted to you are the same things you abandoned after getting her.
She liked you because you were focused.
She admired you because you were driven.
She respected you because you had goals.
Now youâve turned into a full-time âavailableâ man with zero edge.
Stop it.
Youâre not supposed to disappear into a relationship.
Youâre supposed to grow through it.
Keep going to the gym.
Keep creating.
Keep hustling.
Keep learning.
A relationship is meant to complement your mission â not replace it.
The moment you stop being you,
you stop being the man she respected.
So love her, yes. Be loyal, yes.
But donât forget â you still have a life.
You still have purpose.
And the world doesnât stop spinning because you found love.
Being in a relationship shouldnât make you weaker.
It should make you sharper. đŞđž