01/06/2026
“Why are you single? Don’t you have guys coming your way, or are you just too choosy?” chakam!!
I am not single entirely because I want to be. Part of me truly desires to be with someone, but I want a relationship with a man who understands that love alone is not enough to sustain a relationship. I want someone who will stand strong for us even after misunderstandings and disagreements, not someone who gives up after one or two quarrels and says, “We can’t do this anymore.” I often ask myself, don’t he and his siblings quarrel too? Relationships require patience, commitment, and understanding.
I want someone who will proudly say, “You are my woman,” and truly mean it both physically and spiritually. Jiri gi na eko😊. Someone intentional about love, loyalty, and building a future together.
Yes, I have met men who were interested in me, and some I liked too, but many of them only wanted "ka ha dina m". Especially the ones who invite you to a hotel room for a first meeting. What happened to simple places like restaurants, bars, or even a public place where two people can sit, talk, and get to know each other? Some would say they do not have money for restaurants. I even told one that I could buy my own bottle of water; we could simply sit somewhere and gist. Yet, he still insisted on his house.
I had to ask him, “Are you not security conscious at all? Do you even know whether I am human or ghost? You just invite people carelessly.”
Maybe i will change my profile picture. One will say that i behave like grandma that i should be doing like my mates. Oh chim! Is like i will change my DP 🤨
Another thing I always say is this: if both of us are struggling financially, then let’s keep grinding and see where life takes us. Two broke people should not rush into bringing another life into the world only to start begging for survival. At least one person should be stable enough to support the other, or both individuals should be working toward something meaningful before starting a family.
To me, relationships are deeper than attraction. They require responsibility, intentionality, maturity, and the willingness to grow together through every stage of life. Be a finished man and i will become your rest in peace, it's for good not of the bad one Biko😂.
Respect each other's boundaries, everyone is has flaws, accept it and let go of it.
Don't ki*** anyhow, diseases are everywhere, be health wise. Love Doctor Decrypting Hub 2 hope you understand now...
