08/08/2026
Marriage has turned me into a shadow of myself...
And I'm at the stage of losing myself and my self worth...
I got married at the age of 23 and this is our 15 years in marriage ...
All these while, I have remained faithful to my husband despite all the temptations that come...
To people outside, my marriage is worth emulated and my husband is seen as a very decent and loving husband...
But I'm the only one that knows what I'm passing through inside...
Sadlyy, the man people admire is completely different from the man I live with behind closed doors...
His doing well in his work place and being paid handsomely...
But all his money is going to the ladies outside...
My husband rubs his cheatiîng habit on my face and I couldn't do anything...
One day, he brought a young lady home saying she's stranded...
But I later found out that they were dating...
The day I finally had the courage to go through his phone, I almost lost my breath...
It was when I went through his phone that I found out that my husband is doing both married and singles...
Sometimes if I'm not around, he would bring them into our matrimonial bed and sleep with them there...
All these I found out through his phone...
Is it the videos of him and different ladies... Hmmmm I'm completely shatterëd....
At this stage in my life, I'm even afraid of myself... what if he infect me old day???
If I complain to my mother, she would advise I keep praying for him...
I have prayed, fasted and did all manners of prayers for him to change...
But it seems the more I pray, the more things are getting worse...
If you see me, you won't believe that I'm a mum of 4... And men always approach me whenever I go outside...
But I have chosed to keep the sanity of my marriage by not being involved in any relationship outside...
I had all the evidence of his chëating habits with me ..
And now I think I can't take it anymore. Especially when my health is at risk ..
I'm a working class lady and I thought I would sacrifice my happiness for my children...
But I can't anymore. I'm being choked seeing his videos and voice notes with other ladies...
I'm preparing my exit but my mother on the other hand is begging me not to leave...
I have confronted him for sometimes now and I refuse to confront him again...
He didn't know what I'm planning..
But am I not supposed to be happy as again as a human? I don't want to listen to my mother.
Please advise me 🙏🙏
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