The Kanma Effect

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Random thought:Some days I feel like I’m one good decision away from peace.Other days, I’m one minor inconvenience away ...
29/12/2025

Random thought:
Some days I feel like I’m one good decision away from peace.
Other days, I’m one minor inconvenience away from madness.
Both versions live inside me.
We coexist.
Please tell me I’m not alone 😭

I noticed something small today.I don’t rush anymore like I used to.Not because life is perfect but because rushing didn...
28/12/2025

I noticed something small today.

I don’t rush anymore like I used to.
Not because life is perfect but because rushing didn’t save me either.

Now I move slower.
I think more.
I choose my energy carefully.

Maybe growth isn’t becoming faster.
Maybe it’s becoming more intentional.

I almost didn’t buy this.Not because I couldn’t afford it —but because a voice in my head said,“Wait until life is bette...
26/12/2025

I almost didn’t buy this.
Not because I couldn’t afford it —
but because a voice in my head said,
“Wait until life is better.”
Then I realized something:
If I keep waiting for the perfect season,
I’ll keep postponing joy.
So I bought it anyway.
Small moment. Big reminder.
What’s something you’ve been postponing for “later”?

24/12/2025

Today feels like one of those in-between days.
Not a breakthrough.
Not a breakdown.
Just… becoming.
And I’m learning that these days matter too.
If you’re in an in-between season, how are you holding up?

Today I bought a gele.Funny thing is, my life doesn’t look “celebration-ready” yet.But I’m learning not to wait for ever...
23/12/2025

Today I bought a gele.
Funny thing is, my life doesn’t look “celebration-ready” yet.
But I’m learning not to wait for everything to be perfect before honoring myself.
Growth sometimes looks like small acts of self-love.

No wedding invite yet…
But the gele is ready 😌
Because one thing about life — preparation meets opportunity.

Have you learned to celebrate yourself in little ways?

I don't really understand this my once in a blue moon posting🥺So much for wanting to document my process🙄🙄Its actually n...
23/12/2025

I don't really understand this my once in a blue moon posting🥺

So much for wanting to document my process🙄🙄

Its actually not really my fault, consistency isn't something that is easily achieved. You can't even motivate your way into it...

Starting something new from scratch isn't a child's play..

It takes lots of discipline. I mean, alot of DISCIPLINE.

To be disciplined self no easy.....

All this happens when you've tried and failed so many times, but it doesn't mean one should quit, does it?🥺🙄🙄

Today wasn't really a good day for me!Honestly it was terrible. I felt sad, unhappy and angry with God. But after doom s...
24/11/2025

Today wasn't really a good day for me!

Honestly it was terrible. I felt sad, unhappy and angry with God. But after doom scrolling for hours i decided to read the WORD

Just like magic, me that was angry became calm

E get magic wey dey for Bible honestly

I entered Keke on a very cool sunday evening to go see my brother and collect the gift he got for me (though i first of ...
23/11/2025

I entered Keke on a very cool sunday evening to go see my brother and collect the gift he got for me (though i first of all wanted to send him money for the items but he insisted on getting it for me as gift😊 he is so lovely, God bless him) back to what i was saying. On the way, two people previously inside the keke alighted and it was remaining just me.

The driver passed like two bus stops he would've gotten passengers and kept riding. We finally reached the third then on the fourth i asked this man to take passengers na and he said "ahhh madam i thought you go pay for drop"

Ahhhhhhhhh pay for drop as how, with which money like when??? I exclaimed and asked the man when we had such conversation that the ride should be a drop. Oga jejely go back if need be and pick passengers ohhhh cause the only money with me is tiri hundred naira. If you shake me up and down one naira no go come out, i said to the man

And he was like i should've told him naaaaaaa big girl like you

I look myself and was like big girl as how??🥺 maybe na the glass wey i wear confuse this man🙄

How can you impose drop on me like that when na only tiri hundred naira dey my hand

Keke riders be properly guided

06/10/2025

A day in my Life

As A Nigerian Girl trying to figure out a lotttt

Every night I tell myself “tomorrow I’ll wake up early and get my life together.”Tomorrow morning: me snoozing alarm lik...
22/09/2025

Every night I tell myself “tomorrow I’ll wake up early and get my life together.”

Tomorrow morning: me snoozing alarm like it’s my side hustle 😴😂.

Please, how many alarms do you people set before you finally wake up?

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