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14/07/2025

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13/07/2025

“I didn’t leave my husband because I stopped loving him. I left because I was starting to forget how to love myself.
People assume divôrce means failure. No! sometimes, it’s survival.

For years, I kept quiet, smiling for the camera, wearing my ring like everything was okay. But behind the scenes, I was disappearing, emotionally, mentally.

I gave the best of me to a man who eventually stopped seeing me. Conversations turned to silence. Respect turned to tension. And the home I tried so hard to build started to feel like a place I didn’t belong.

Walking away wasn’t easy. It wasn’t dramatic. It was silent, deliberate. I didn’t need to announce it, I just started choosing myself again.

I stopped posting “Chioma Akpotha” and went back to being “Chioma Chukwuka” not because I hate my past, but because I’m reclaiming my name, my peace, and my power.
I didn’t lose a marriage. I found myself.”

— Chioma Chukwuka

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13/07/2025

What no one told me about marriage before I enter that I want to tell you.

This is for those planning to marry or those who just got married.
If you are open-minded, you can still read.
Nobody knows it all.

1. Immediately you get married, even before having a baby, go and register your family for health insurance.
NHIS is one of the common ones and the most available in hospitals.
It will save you a lot.
There are some things the rich won’t tell you.
With NHIS, you can walk into any hospital and get treated cheap depending on the package.
A friend of mine once did an operation and all he paid was ₦10k something that would have cost ₦400k.

2. Have a family doctor very very important.
See, no church will tell you this.
Even if you don’t have money for a family doctor, have someone you can call in case of emergency.
Especially a pediatrician when you start having kids.

3. Also, have a family lawyer.
Recently, our family lawyer saved us over ₦500k in rent that I wanted to forfeit.
But because she stepped in and did her job, money was refunded seamlessly.

4. If you can afford it, have at least one domestic staff.
Someone that can at least help ease the work in the house for you and madam.
My brother, ejiro kwa afufu anya isi.
Get help if you can.

5. Buy things in bulk.
The reason I live like a wealthy man today is because I buy everything I need down to toothpaste in bulk.
You spend more buying in bits than when you buy in bulk.
That’s one of the reasons I created my sharing platform to enable family men and women with common goals.
There is nothing we don’t share. Some of you reading this are in that group.

6. Pay your children’s school fees before school resumes.
As I’m talking to you now, I’ve already sent SGM the kids’ school fees that’ll be paid in September.
I don’t have to worry about it again.
It helps me plan myself.
Do everything possible to pay school fees before resumption. You won’t know what you’re doing until money goes on leave from your side.

7. Strive to have passive income.
Something that can generate at least ₦3-5k every day.
No matter what try and get something like that.
It will save you from a lot of stress.

8. See the friends and circle your kids will have tomorrow everything depends on the school they attend.
This one is very, very important.
Even if you don’t have money, find a way to send your children to one of the best schools.
You won’t realise what you’re doing until they come of age.

9.I learnt this one from my dad always have family meetings.
You, your wife, and your kids no matter how small they are.
Discuss problems, solutions, and way forward.
Allow the kids air their opinions.

Ask the kids:
🔹Is there something mummy and daddy are doing that they don’t like?

Same thing with your wife.
Talk about what you both can do to have a stable and loving family.
This helps in uniting the family.

Every month is fine or even every 6 months.
Just make it a habit and a culture.
It’ll become a memory that sticks for the kids, and for you and madam too.

Everyone’s opinion in the family matters.
And as the man, it’s your job to hear everybody’s opinion and choose the best way to run the family.

This isn’t just for the man alone madam can initiate it too. There’s no perfect formula, yes. But this one I listed? It works every time.
I repeat if you try it, you’ll save yourself a lot of unnecessary headache and stress.
You can add yours
Good morning and enjoy your weekend.

written by Kelvin Onovo

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13/07/2025

HAPPY SUNDAY FAMILY AND FRIENDS

11/07/2025

"Look at me now a child that was abandoned by her own mom when she was just 7 months old...
I was raised by my grandmother but at age 7, unfortunately we lost grandma. Then dad took me in. I was happy to finally be at my daddy's house at last. But i didn't know it was the beginning of my sorrow. My stepmother was mean. I endured all manner of maltreatments, Sometimes I went hungry for days. She would so starve me that I would be seeing darkness during the day. On one occasion, I was very hungry that, I had to eat our dog’s leftover food but unfortunately our neighbor’s son caught me & told his mother whom later that evening invited me to her house & asked me if what her son said was true. I was so terrified that I begged her not to tell my step ma, because she'll definitely do the worse if she found out that I, ate the dog’s leftover instead of throwing it away.
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The woman wept & promised to give me food everyday without my stepmother’s knowledge. This was a promise she kept till we left the compound. As if starving me was not enough punishment, my Stepmother included flogging, This woman will so have me fl0gged mercilessly until I would faint at times. She would also apply pepper in my private, eyes, armpit & neck, tie me up & abandon me in one of the toilets for hours without food. Sometimes I'll beg for even water to drink & she'll ask.me to make use of my excrete & urine. I shed tears each time i remember these things. I was in h3ll on earth 😭

However, Despite all these experiences, I was very bright academically & was loved & favored by God & several people. I knew that the only way to escape all these suffering was to achieve educational success. for that, I never joked with my education. So you see, I have every right to be hateful, bitter, jealous, arrogant, sad, negative & toxic but I chose not to.. For years now My step mom has been trying to reach me. But, if I'm all honest, I don't know if I'm ready for her. And as for my own mom, that choose to leave me & flee, her own daughter, her first fruit, just because she was having issues with Daddy, wherever you are momma. I want you to know that your daughter whom you abandoned 29yrs ago, has finally achieved her dreams even without the love of a father nor mother, she is now a great woman in society.. "
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11/07/2025

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11/07/2025

When I saw this post I was so shocked, knowing fully well that this woman lost his son in the year 2021, I say to myself, is this how life is? She only wanted to fight for his son as every other mother would have done.God may her soul rest in peace, and may we never bury any of our children, our children will bury us at good old age Amen.

06/07/2025

Happy Sunday families are friends.

05/07/2025

So, my landlady increased our rent from 250k to 300k.

I told her face-to-face that I'd been complaining to her about the earthing problem in my room.

Everything in my room is shócking including my bathroom wall so because of that I will continue paying 250k.

My landlady got angry that day. There's nothing she didn't say but I don't like long talks once I've said that one important thing any other thing you are saying I will never pay attention to it.

Later that day she came to my room to find out if the room was shócking or not but the guy woman seized her breath and nothing shócked her and that act alone still shócked me.

She served me quit notice to leave her house and let another person move in since I'm proven stûbbórn.

I know my landlady too well. If I agree to move out she will not refund me the money for the remaining months and she will still call the police for me because she loves arresting her tenants the way Atiku loves running an election every four years.

I begged her to let me stay till December when my rent will expire.

She agreed but she was carrying face for me.

I kept looking for what I would do to make her take me off her mind before I would sleep in my room one night and wake up in a police cell the next morning.

One day I was in my room and I heard her talking to my neighbor that she would be hosting her organization people in our compound and that she should borrow her freezer for a day to freeze drinks.

The neighbor said her freezer isn't big.

Immediately I heard it I rushed out of my room and I told my landlady to use mine that mine is big.

She was so happy...

I told her I wouldn't be around that day but I would leave my key with her but she should please be the only one that would enter my room because of how I arranged the room.

She swore she would be the only one who would enter my room that day to pack the drinks.

She gave me the drinks and I froze it for her.

The day her organization people will come... I took my bath and gave my landlady my room key then secretly entered one of my neighbor's rooms and lay down.

During the time for merriment, my landlady entered my room to pack her drinks.

She opened the freezer well then packed about four malts and turned to put them inside the container she came with to carry them.

Her bombom mistakenly touched the body of my freezer the freezer didn't show mercy oh it shócked my landlady turn-turn.

My landlady like that fell down and mistakenly leaned on my kitchen cabinet oooh that place is a no-go area. It was my kitchen cabinet that shócked trouble and wahala out of her body.

My landlady screamed! everybody in the compound including me who was hanging around like a wall géckó rushed to my room.

Come and see my landlady na!!! she was looking like one overused 1995 rag.

They wanted to take her to the hospital I told them No, that she would be fine they should lie her on my bed and give her enough chilled malt.

My landlady was the one who finished all the occasion malt just for her to get strength no other person tasted the malt.

The last time my kitchen cabinet shócked me. I finished my 7 malts and 4 thin milk I had in my room that day and when I got myself It pained me.

Her organization people all later left it was me and other tenants in my room waiting for her to wake.

My landlady woke at midnight the first thing she asked was: is today judgment day?

I asked her if she meant her punishment day. She slept off again.

Last Sunday she invited all of us to her church and she testified how the good Lord saved her life.

Her pastor advised her to call an electrician and fix the earthing problem and she did it.

Here I am this morning giving my own testimony that my landlady has finally fixed the earthing problem in my room. Nothing is shócking again in my room.

Glory be to God!!!!!

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