02/12/2022
WE NEED TO TEACH OUR DAUGHTERS TO DISTINGUISH BETWEEN:
Men who flatter their mind and men who genuinely compliment them. Men who take time to see beneath the curves and looks.
Men who admire the mind when they engage. Men who push them to dream, to soar and to become.
I have dated women, I pride in the fact that I leave them with "something!"
We need to teach our young women to be able to distinguish between a man who spends money on her in exchange of a good time in between her legs and men who invests in them by sparing funds for businesses, opening them up to frontiers that adds to their brand and growth. Seeing them more than just s*xual object.
When a young woman understand this things, she will selectively engage with men who aren't there for the right reasons. Let's teach our daughters to be able to distinguish between a man who views her as property to be owned and a man who views her properly as a woman deserving respect.
My father didn't respect my mother and the consequences was overwhelming. Unfortunately, I lost her to death. It was one of the many lessons I underscored as a young child growing up.
Let's educate our young women to clearly distinguish a man who lusts after her and a man who loves her. I know we all want to f!. But after he f!you, what next! Does he want to grow you in any capacity that makes you a better version of yourself?
Personally, I think beyond s*x. S*x is sweet. S*x is delicious but when I come down from that v!, I ask myself. Have I added to her or taken away from her? If she think about me tomorrow... What comes to the mind?
Let's educate our women to distinguish clearly between a man who believes he's a gift to women and a man who believes she's a gift to his life.
