09/04/2026
'I'm tired of begging my wife meanwhile she started the issues we're going through now yet she's acting the victim when I'm the one who's supposed to be angry
We've been married for 3 years. In the beginning, everything was fine. I try my best to satisfy my wife. When I do it 3 times a week, she complains. I pushed myself to 4 times, but she still said I am not trying at all. 3 weeks ago, at night, she tried to move close to me, I was too tired and then she got so angry & told me to my face that I am not a man, that what I have between my legs is just for fashion & has no use. I felt so annoyed & ashamed. How can a woman say that to her husband?
Because I was hurt, I shouted back at her. I only shouted, I'll never raise my hand on any woman especially my own wife, I'll never. No matter how angry i get. I only told her that maybe her womb is also for fashion, since she hasn't been able to carry a baby despite all my hard work for the past 6 years we've known each other... I told her she is just an empty vessel then i immediately turn to the other side of the bed.. then i heard her crying,i didn't even turn to look at her cuz i was also annoyed. She took her pillow, dragged-off the blanket from my body and left to sleep in the guessroom
Since that day, peace ran away from our home. She cried and said I showed her my true colors. Next day, She packed her bags and left. It's been 3 months now, I am the one begging every day, but she said she can never forgive that insult.
Please, who is wrong here? I am the head of the house, yet she insulted my manhood first. Now I am the one begging and it is making me feel more annoyed. How do I get her to come back? I don’t want to lose my marriage, but I am confused. She annoyed me first deep down I'm just apologize cuz i want peace to reign"