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It's possible project- Ipp Royalty, 159 tetlow Road, Owerri (2025)

27/06/2025

SAY YES TO LIFE AND SHUN DRUGS !!!

June 26: International Day Against Drug Abuse and Illicit Trafficking.

I was planning to write a piece yesterday as it's always my manner on such days, but my day was too busy and I forgot.

June 26, is a day set aside globally to reflect on the devastating impact of drug abuse. I have always known drugs to be a menace — a silent killer and a destroyer of destinies, especially among our youth.

But today, I had no option than to pen this script down after I witnessed something that shook me to my core.

I saw a man under the influence of a drug — I believe it’s this one they call Guzoro( because the man was actually acting out the name) His body was stiff, yet he twitched violently at times, almost as if he was having a seizure.
His face told a thousand stories: confusion, pain, and a haunting emptiness. I watched for just five minutes, but it felt like eternity. What I saw was not just a high — it was torment. A prison of the mind, a soul slowly being stripped of it's humanity.

And I asked myself: Why?
Why would anyone willingly do this to himself or herself?

This is not fun. This is not freedom.
This is self-destruction.

AGAIN I SAY TO OUR YOUTHS:

Drugs are never an escape route. They may numb your pain for a moment, but they steal your future in the process. Every time you say “yes” to drugs, you're saying “no” to your dreams, your potential, and your purpose.

You are worth more. Your life has meaning. Your future is bright — if only you choose to protect it.

Say no to drugs. Say yes to life.

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14/06/2025

TO THE ONE BEING FALSELY JUDGED:

Don't lose yourself over the lies of others. When people believe rumors without hearing your side, it reveals more about them than it does about you.

Stay grounded in your truth. Time exposes character—yours and theirs. Let your actions speak louder than their words, and protect your peace.

Not every battle needs your response; sometimes silence and integrity are your greatest defense.

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14/06/2025

IT'S WORLD BLOOD DONOR DAY!
IPP- APPRECIATES ALL UNPAID DONORS, THANK YOU FOR SAVING THAT LIFE!!!!

06/06/2025

BE INTENTIONAL WITH YOUR IMAGE – IT SPEAKS LOUDER THAN YOU THINK.

Today, I want to share a real moment that turned into an important life lesson—one that I believe every young man and woman should take seriously.

My son recently visited the state where he attended secondary school. Naturally, his friends were excited to see him again after so long, and they decided to hang out and relive old memories. During their outing, they enjoyed food and drinks, specifically Radler drinks—which, although mild, contains some alcohol. My son, who isn’t good with alcohol, took just a cup.

But then came the part that raised a red flag for me as a parent: he posted a picture of the bottles they consumed with a caption that read, “these boys sef.”

Now, on the surface, it may seem harmless—a playful post, even. But the truth is, what we put out on social media speaks for us louder than we realize. I had a serious conversation with him. I explained that even if he didn't drink much, or even at all, posting that kind of image gives the impression that he did. People see, assume, and judge—because no one is a mind reader. And in a world where perception is powerful, it’s crucial to be intentional about the image you project.

I reminded him that as a child of God, you carry not just your name, but the name of the One you belong to. The way you live, talk, act, and yes—even what you post—should reflect that identity. It’s not just about avoiding sin, but also about avoiding appearances that can mislead others and harm your reputation.

So here's the advice I want to give you, dear young person:

Be aware of the company you keep. You are often seen as a reflection of your friends.

Be mindful of what you post online. Once it's out there, it tells a story about you—true or not.

Remember who you are and whose you are. You’re not just representing yourself but also your family, your values, and your God.

Seek wisdom. Your parents and elders may seem old-fashioned, but their eyes are seasoned, and their warnings are from experience, not control.

Thank God, my son understood where I was coming from. And I hope you do too. Because in the long run, what people think of you does matter—especially when opportunities, trust, and your future are involved.

Choose your image wisely. It might speak for you in rooms you haven't even entered yet.

Yes you can - It's possible!!!

05/06/2025

DEAR WOMAN, KNOW YOUR WORTH: "He Doesn’t Deserve You Just Because You Want Him"

More than twenty years ago, I had a friend with stars in her eyes and dreams of marrying a lawyer. Young, hopeful, and drunk on fairy tales love, she believed she had found “the one.” He was a student like her—bold, handsome arrogant, and always boasting with money that wasn’t his but his uncle's.
The type of man who was admired for his flash and feared for his temper.

What I didn’t know then—but later learned through another friend—was that he beats her. Not once, not twice. Repeatedly. He treated her like a toy, not a treasure. Like property, not a person. And do you know what hurt the most? She stayed, never complained but defended him.

When I confronted her in anger and disbelief, asking how she could endure such pain just as a girlfriend, and what will happen when they eventually marry, she looked me straight in the eye and said something I will never forget:

“I am not that kind of woman that loves petting.”

I laughed. Not because it was funny—but because I couldn’t believe what I was hearing. What kind of woman doesn't want to be loved gently, treated like a queen, and respected as a partner?

But today, I see that mindset again and again. Girls clinging to men who don’t love them. Men who beat them, belittle them, cheat on them, and then throw money or gifts to “apologize.” And still, they stay. All because he has money muscles or status. Or maybe just because they are afraid no one else will want them.

Let me say this loud and clear:

Staying with a man who abuses you—emotionally, physically, or mentally—just to keep the title of “wife” or “girlfriend” is not strength. It is self-abandonment

Girls! your value is not in a man choosing you. It’s in you choosing yourself first.

You are not a punching bag.

You are not a project to fix him.

You are not a charity case for his pity.

You are not proof of his success.

A man who truly loves you will never make you cry yourself to sleep, hide your bruises behind makeup, or make you question your worth. Love is not meant to feel like war.

So why stay with someone who only remembers your value when you're about to leave? Just like the psychopath asked when it became clear to him that my friend has become sensible and is living, he asked " why can't people allow others to posses their possession 🤣 " Possession indeed!
Thank God she left for good and is happily married now.

Please, listen: You do not have to earn love through pain. You do not have to prove your worth through suffering. You do not have to stay where you are not celebrated.

Being single and safe is better than being married and miserable. Stop confusing lust for love. Stop mistaking manipulation for attention. And stop thinking you can change a man who does not want to change himself.

I say this not from judgment, but from love. Because I have seen what happens when a woman trades self-worth for status. It doesn’t end in happiness—it ends in regret.

So today, to every young woman reading this:

🎊Know your worth. 🎊 Don’t settle for less than you deserve. 🎊 Choose peace over drama. 🎊 Choose love over lust. 🎊 Choose you.

You are enough. As you are. Always.

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30/05/2025

UNDERSTANDING THE EXAGGERATION OF PARENTS (3).

Message to the Parents:

As parents, your heart is in the right place—you're trying to protect, guide, and prepare your children. But when your care is mistaken for criticism or exaggeration, it can be discouraging.

Let's help ourselves here -

your voice is powerful, and how you speak can build a bridge or a barrier. Teenagers today are navigating a very different world from what you knew. Their struggles are often silent, their emotions complex, and their need for connection deep.

Your wisdom matters—but so does your tone, timing, and tenderness.
Try to Reach Their Hearts:
1. Lead with love, not just lessons. Start conversations with affirmation before correction.

2. Listen deeply. Sometimes what they need most is not advice, but understanding, which will help you know how best to advice them.

3. Explain the “why.” When they understand your intention, they’re less likely to misread your instruction.

4. Pray for their heart and your words. Ask the Holy Spirit to soften their hearts and season your speech, and make it sound loudest than whatever words they hear from elsewhere.

Don’t stop speaking truth—but keep adjusting how you say it. Your voice may be firm, but let your love be louder. Even when they roll their eyes or resist your concern, know that the seed is being planted—and in time, it will bear fruit.

You are not failing because they don’t fully understand you now. You are faithfully parenting—and heaven sees that.

29/05/2025

UNDERSTANDING THE EXAGGERATION OF PARENTS (2)

Message to the Teens:

You might think your parents "overreact" or "make a big deal out of nothing.
But here's the truth: they see danger from a distance that you may not see yet. What looks small to you may be something they’ve seen grow into pain, regret, or missed opportunities—in their own lives or that of others they know.

Parents don’t exaggerate because they want to control you; they emphasize things because they care enough to see the bigger picture.

That curfew? It's not just about bedtime—it’s about safety.

That talk about your friends? It's about influence.

That concern about your phone or social media? It’s about what’s shaping your mind and future.

Their warnings are not weakness. Their urgency is not exaggeration. It’s experience speaking out of love.

Listen before you label their words as “too much.”

Ask questions instead of arguing. You’ll learn more than you think.

Understand that what feels like pressure might actually be protection.

One day, just one day, you’ll look back and realize they weren’t shouting—they were shielding. And their "exaggeration" was actually God's way of saving you through them.

Watch out for the part 3 of this write up: MY MESSAGE TO THE PARENTS.

28/05/2025

“WHEN CARE SOUNDS LIKE CRITICISM: Understanding the 'Exaggeration' of Parents”

Recently my teenager said and I quote" All parents like exaggerating issues"

While responding to this statement, I had to make some reflections. Do we actually exaggerate things???
There is this adage that says --- What an elder sees while sitting, a child cannot see even while standing.

Teenagers often complain that parents "exaggerate everything"—blowing issues out of proportion or overreacting to situations that, to them seem minor or manageable. But what lies beneath this common perception? Is it just nagging, or is there something deeper going on?

The Clash of Perspectives:
Adolescents live in the moment- confident in their independence and decisions. Parents, on the other hand, often speak from experience—sometimes painful or hard-earned experience.

What teens may see as exaggeration is usually parents' attempt to prevent a repeat of mistakes or to shield their children from consequences they can’t yet imagine.

It’s easy to assume parents are stuck in their ways, unwilling to evolve with changing times. But often, what appears as rigidity is actually concern borne out of parental responsibility.

A parent may worry that one misstep can lead to lasting impact, hence their warnings carry emotional weight and urgency.

Teenagers may feel that parents talk "just to talk," but many parents are genuinely trying to connect, guide, or understand. Unfortunately, the delivery often comes off as lecturing rather than conversation, which makes the message easier to dismiss. The intent is not always to control, but to communicate care—however most children we have in this generation are not easy to be handled.

If only teenagers can pause to consider the love behind a parent’s caution, and if parents can adapt their communication style to be less reactive and more reflective, the perceived exaggeration may turn into meaningful exchange.

What teens call exaggeration is often love wearing a cloak of fear.

If children can think of the intention behind that parent's insistence and exaggeration.
If Parents can learn to be more patient and find out the pattern of thinking of their children by listening attentively.

Then the perceived noise from both sides can become a dialogue. And in dialogue understanding is born.

Is it possible???

What out for the part 2 of this piece. MY MESSAGE TO THE TEENS.

27/05/2025

AS WE WATCH THEM GROW 🪴

This afternoon I saw a picture of my children taken 9 years ago, posted by my husband as he wished them happy celebration 🎊
As I watched the pictures 9 years ago and the recent one taken, it gave me a deep reason to reflect.

Today, on Children’s Day, we pause to celebrate the joy, wonder, and promise that children bring into our lives. But beyond the laughter and light they share with us daily, there is also a quiet, profound journey unfolding — one we witness with pride, hope, and sometimes, a touch of anxiety.

As we watch them grow, we are reminded that growth is not just physical. It is emotional, intellectual, and spiritual. From their first steps to their first words, from curious questions to bold dreams, each stage brings new wonders and new challenges.

With every year, they grow taller, but so do the decisions they must make and the pressures they must face. The innocence of early childhood gives way to the complexities of adolescence. Their worlds expand, and so does their exposure to both beauty, choices and hardship.

As parents, caregivers, teachers, and community members, we find ourselves stretched too, learning to guide and support.

The higher they grow, the greater the challenges — not just for them, but for us too.
We must equip them not only with knowledge, but with values; not only with comfort, but with resilience. We must listen more than we speak, and trust more than we fear.

And yet, amidst the growing pains and anxiety, there is deep reward.

Watching them become kind, thoughtful and creative individuals is one of life’s greatest privileges. Their growth reflects not only their potential, but also our effort, our love, and our belief in them.

So today, let us renew our commitment to raise children in an environment that nurtures their dreams and protects their innocence. Let us remember that while they grow in size and strength, they still need our guidance, our time, and our unwavering belief in their worth.

As we watch them grow, let us also grow in patience, wisdom, and love.

Happy Children’s Day to all the children out there, grow and rule your world 🌎.

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