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It's possible project- Ipp Royalty I'm nurse Chi-Chris Nwanguma, I help u be the best in marriage, relationships, parenting, motherhood and in teenage period. Get it right! It's possible.

Ur health my priority, I am dedicated to sharing my work and life experiences from my diary with u.

08/04/2025

I Fired a Single Mom for Being Late, then Found Out Why and Begged for Forgiveness...

2 weeks ago

For nearly six years, I’ve been a manager, always convinced that I was fair - strict, yes, but fair.

Rules are there for a reason, and if I start making exceptions, where would it end?

That’s the reasoning I used when I let Celia go last week.

She was late again - her third time this month. Our policy was clear: three strikes, and you’re out.

When I called her into my office, she didn’t argue.

She just nodded quietly, grabbed her bag, and left without a word.

Later that day, I overheard two coworkers talking.

"Did you hear about Celia’s son?” one of them asked.

“Yeah,” the other responded. “She’s been sleeping in her car with him.”

That’s when I learned the truth. Celia had been evicted weeks ago.

Her ex-husband was long gone - no child support, no family to turn to.

She and her six-year-old son had been living in their car.

The reason she’d been late? Every morning, she had to drive across town to a church where they could shower before taking him to school.

I was overwhelmed by guilt.

I hadn’t just fired someone for being irresponsible - I had punished someone who was struggling to survive.

The next day, I tried calling her.

No answer. I texted her. Nothing.

Determined to make things right, I began searching - calling shelters, food banks, any place that might have helped her.

Most places couldn’t share information, but one woman at a downtown church hesitated when I mentioned Celia’s name.

“She was here two nights ago,” she said. “Picked up some food and blankets.”

Just when I was about to give up, I spotted an old sedan in a grocery store parking lot.

The windows were fogged, and from beneath a blanket in the back seat, a small face peeked out.

I knocked softly on the window.

A moment later, Celia sat up in the driver’s seat, her expression guarded. When she recognized me, her face went blank.

“I’m so sorry,” I said quickly. “Please, let me help.”

I offered her the job back, no conditions attached.

More than that, I wanted to help her rebuild.

My cousin managed an apartment complex, and there was a vacant unit.

No deposit was needed, and I knew of programs that could help with food and childcare.

She glanced at her son, then back at me. Her shoulders trembled.

“Okay,” she whispered.

The weeks that followed were a blur.

My cousin got her into the apartment.

The company approved a small pay increase for her, and I did everything I could to connect her with assistance programs.

It wasn’t a perfect fix, but it was a start.

One afternoon, she walked into my office.

“I just wanted to say thank you,” she said. “Not just for the job - for seeing me.”

She smiled, and for the first time, it truly reached her eyes.

That night, I sat in my car, reflecting on how close I had come to making an unforgivable mistake.

It’s easy to get caught up in rules and forget that people aren’t just names on a spreadsheet.

Everyone has a story, and sometimes all they need is someone to listen.

If there’s one thing I’ve learned, it’s that kindness shouldn’t come with conditions.

And sometimes, the right thing to do means breaking the rules.

**By the way...This is a true story....

Worth Sharing...✍️✍️

30/03/2025

Please let's keep sharing and save our people.

28/03/2025

BASELESS SUPERSTITION KILLS

FROM THE PERSPECTIVE OF A NURSE "Whatever you do, please don’t die."As a nurse, I hear this plea in various forms almost...
26/03/2025

FROM THE PERSPECTIVE OF A NURSE

"Whatever you do, please don’t die."

As a nurse, I hear this plea in various forms almost every day—whether it's from a family member, advising a relative who is living a careless and unhealthy life, or from a family member gripping the hand of the sick relative with tearful eyes, also from patients themselves, fragile but filled with determination, pleading, don't let me die.

It’s a simple request, yet it carries the weight of an entire lifetime’s worth of love, fear, and hope. And when I hear these words, I don’t just hear them; I feel them deep within me. Personally, I have felt the pain of losing a loved one, and believe me, it's the most painful experience.

In my years of caring for others, I have witnessed the fragility of life in ways that many people can’t begin to understand. Every day, I see patients walk the delicate line between life and death. I hold the hands of people who are afraid, people who are desperate for hope, people who fight with everything they have to stay with us. As such moments the truism in what the wise man said in ECCLESIASTES 8:8 becomes obvious " No man has power to retain the spirit, or power over the day of death..."

And in these moments, when someone says, "Please don't die or please don't let me die," it's not just a request. It’s a cry for time. A cry for more moments, more laughter, more memories.

But being a nurse also means facing the inevitable truth that life isn’t always in our control. No matter how much we want to hold on to someone, no matter how hard we try, we don’t always have the power to prevent death. That doesn't mean we don’t give everything we have to try; we do, but every nurse knows that our role isn’t just only about extending life; it’s also about preserving dignity in the final moments and offering comfort when there are no more medical miracles to work.

When I stand by a patient’s side in those quiet moments, it becomes clear that life is not about how long you live, but how deeply you’ve connected with others. It’s about the love and compassion you give, the care you offer, and the difference you make, even in small, seemingly insignificant ways.
Whether it's through holding someone's hand as they pass through their pain, offering a kind word when they are afraid, or making sure they know they are not alone.
I have seen people die, with no relatives, friends or even foe to care or ask about them.
I have also seen many others die, surrounded with lots of loved ones, whose tears could not stop the departure of their loved ones.

So when I hear someone say, "Please don’t die or don't let me die," I don’t just hear desperation. I hear love. I hear a deep, unspoken bond that has been formed in the delicate moments of life. And I desire as a nurse that, I will do everything in my power to make sure that those under my care feel cared for, valued, and supported till their recovery or their last breath.

Life is precious. And though I can’t promise that we can keep death at bay forever, I can promise that we will do everything in our power to give you the best care, the best comfort, and the best chance to hold onto the life you cherish.

Because no matter what, we care. And that, in the end, is all we can offer.

But there's that you can do for yourself. Try not to die.

As a nurse, I encourage you to prioritize your health by adopting simple but effective habits. Eat a balanced diet, avoid junks and unhealthy foods, exercise regularly, get enough sleep, and stay hydrated. Avoid smoking, excessive alcohol, hard drugs and psycho tropic substances. manage your stress by listening to your body. Regular check-ups in the hospital can help catch issues early. Remember, small positive changes in habit today can lead to a healthier tomorrow, preventing untimely health problems and death, also improving your quality of life.

WHAT EVER YOU DO, DO NOT DIE, TILL IT'S YOUR GOD GIVEN TIME.

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23/03/2025

MOTHERS LISTEN! DO NOT DIE

22/03/2025

Trying to impact life, spiritually and health wise, Even in this remote place. O lord receive your praise 🙏

22/03/2025
PARENTING AND CHARACTER DEVELOPMENT (5)MODELLING LOVE 💕Modeling love in children is a vital and impactful aspect of pare...
21/03/2025

PARENTING AND CHARACTER DEVELOPMENT (5)

MODELLING LOVE 💕

Modeling love in children is a vital and impactful aspect of parenting, teaching, and caregiving. Our actions, gestures, and interactions provide the foundation for how they will understand and express love throughout their lives. You can always know children that come from homes where there is love.💕
And children who give love even when they grow are those that experienced love in their childhood 💕

Remember,
Children are highly observant, and they learn how to treat others by watching how adults behave.

Modeling kindness and empathy through small daily actions helps children understand how to express love. For example, when a parent or caregiver notices that someone is feeling down, they might offer comforting words or a gentle hug. This teaches the child that love is shown not just through grand gestures, but through small, thoughtful actions that acknowledge others' feelings.

Practical Example: If your child falls and hurts themselves, instead of just telling them it's okay, show empathy by kneeling beside them, offering comfort, and asking if they’re okay. This shows that love involves caring for others' pain and offering support when needed.

Physical affection, like hugs, kisses, and even holding hands, can convey love more effectively than words alone. Children often mimic the way we express affection in our own relationships. For instance, when parents hug each other, smile at each other, holds hand, children see love as a physical connection. Similarly, expressing love to your child through regular hugs, words of affirmation, or simply holding their hand when walking helps them understand the warmth and security love provides. Always tell them I love you and let them always hear you tell same to your spouse.

Practical Example: Make time to give your child a hug when they come home from school, before bed, or when they're feeling upset. These actions create a consistent sense of security and emotional closeness that teaches love as a nurturing force.

Again, Love isn't only about affection; it’s also about respect. Teaching children to communicate respectfully with others, including using polite words like “please” and “thank you,” helps them build relationships based on mutual care. Parents who listen carefully and speak respectfully to their spouses and children demonstrate love by valuing other people's opinions and feelings. Likewise, when disagreements arise, resolving conflicts respectfully—without yelling ,blaming and fighting—models that love means handling conflicts calmly and with understanding.

Practical Example: During family discussions or disagreements, model respectful communication. Instead of raising your voice, or calling names when angry, talk with respect, that way your child sees that respectful dialogue is a key part of love.

Children need to know they are a priority in their caregivers' lives. Simply being present for them, without distractions, is a form of modeling love. This doesn’t always mean being physically available but showing emotional availability as well. When your child is speaking to you, make eye contact and listen attentively. Let them know their feelings are valid and that you are there to support them, no matter what. Children who experience this kind of unconditional attention are more likely to understand that love involves being present for others, both physically and emotionally.

Practical Example: Put away distractions like phones or work when your child wants to talk. Sit down and truly listen, offering full attention. This makes them feel loved and valued.

Make out time for them, sit and watch their favorite movie with them, discuss it with them, play games with them, sing with them, make them have a fun memory of love about you in their mind.

Practical example - I remember that school run time was a sing song time with my children as I drove them to school.

I also used to tell them stories ( folktales) in our local language when they were small and they always look forward to that time.
It created a lasting impact in their lives that can't be deleted or forgotten.

One of the most practical ways to model love again is through acts of service. This can be something as simple as making your child’s favorite meal, helping them with schoolwork, or doing something thoughtful for a family member. When children see us performing acts of kindness for others, they learn that love is often shown through thoughtful deeds, not just words. This also helps them understand that love involves sacrifice and giving without expecting anything in return.

Practical Example: Make time to help your child organize their room or assist them with a school project, do it with them. By doing so, you demonstrate that love is often shown through acts of service that make life easier or more pleasant for others. Let them also see you help your spouse both of you doing things together.

Love also involves forgiveness. Modeling the ability to forgive teaches children that love isn’t conditional. People make mistakes, but love means accepting those mistakes and moving forward. When children see that you are willing to forgive others and yourself, it instills a sense of emotional resilience and security.

Practical Example: Ensure that when children quarrel, you help them reconcile fast, tell them implications of what they did and ensure they hug each other and become friends again.

Finally, children must understand that love is not dependent on achievement or behavior. Unconditional love means loving someone no matter their mistakes or shortcomings. This is especially important to model when a child makes mistakes or behaves in a way that may be disappointing. encourage in love. When a parent or caregiver continues to express love during these times, the child learns that love doesn’t fluctuate based on their actions. Remeber love doesn't remove discipline. For who the lord loves, he chastens, and discipline shows your child is a bonafide child of your family.

Practical Example: If your child gets a poor grade in school and the other did better tell them you love them regardless of the situation. Offer encouragement and support to the one struggling with academics and never compare. This shows that your love doesn’t depend on their performance or behavior.

Conclusion

Modeling love in children is about creating a nurturing, respectful, and supportive environment. By showing empathy, providing affection, listening attentively, performing acts of service, and showing forgiveness, you teach children the true meaning of love. Through your everyday actions, you set the stage for them to carry these values into their own relationships and lives, providing them with a strong emotional foundation for the future. Where ever they go it will be felt and seen in them. Love indeed is contagious.
We can model it!
It's possible!!!

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PARENTING AND CHARACTER DEVELOPMENT (4)MODELLING INTEGRITY!!! Hello dear readers, I have come again today. Let's talk ab...
20/03/2025

PARENTING AND CHARACTER DEVELOPMENT (4)

MODELLING INTEGRITY!!!

Hello dear readers, I have come again today. Let's talk about PARENTING AND MODELLING INTEGRITY.

Integrity is a crucial elements in raising children.
I want to start by reminding us once again what integrity represents.

Integrity refers to the quality of being honest, having strong moral principles, and doing the right thing consistently, even when no one is watching, yes you heard me right, when no one is watching. It involves adhering to ethical standards, regardless of the situation. Integrity means being authentic, reliable, and fair in all actions and decisions, and it is a key foundation for building trust and respect in relationships and communities.

Integrity isn't just something parents can teach through lectures—it's something they need to model in their everyday actions.

when parents consistently demonstrate integrity, it sets a powerful example for their children to follow.

Here are practical, day-to-day examples of how parents can model integrity:

1. Honesty in Small and Big Matters.

Example: A parent might be given extra change after making a purchase at a store. Instead of keeping it, they return the change to the cashier,or owner of the goods, even though no one noticed the error. A parent at this point can point out to their child as a way of teaching to say “I noticed they gave me more change than I was supposed to get, so I returned it because it's the right thing to do.”

WHY IT MATTERS: This shows the child that honesty is important always even in situations where there might be no immediate consequence for dishonesty.

2. Admitting Mistakes

Example: If a parent makes a mistake, even in the home, let the children hear you, apologize sincerely to who ever you wronged.
it could be your spouse, your child, neighbor, relatives, let them hear you apologize.”

WHY IT MATTERS: Children will learn that everyone makes mistakes, but the key is to own up to them and strive to improve. This fosters accountability and resilience.

3. Keeping Promises

Example: A parent might promise to take their child to the park after finishing work or on a particular weekend. If something unexpected happens and they can’t keep the promise, the parent should explain why and offer an alternative, like rescheduling the visit. If you promise you will offer help to someone, ensure you keep to that your promise. It is wrong for them to always hear you tell people, I'm sorry, I can't do what I promised you. It's a shame and embarrassing.

WHY IT MATTERS: Children learn the importance of following through on commitments and can see that integrity involves making promises only when you can keep them.

4. Respecting Other people's Property

Example: If a parent borrows something from a neighbor, they should return it in the same condition or even better. If they accidentally damage something, they should be upfront and apologize, offering to repair or replace it.

WHY IT MATTERS: By showing respect for other People's' belongings, parents teach children that integrity involves treating others' property with care and responsibility.

5. Doing the Right Thing Even When It’s Hard

Example: If a parent finds a wallet on the ground, they should take it to the relevant authority ll or try to contact the owner. explain to them , “the importance of doing the right thing, even when no one is watching. We want to help the person who lost his belongings.”

WHY IT MATTERS: This example teaches children that integrity involves making the right choices, even when there’s no one around to see it.

6. Adhering to Family Rules Consistently

Example: Parents should follow the same rules they set for their children. For instance, if there’s a family rule about no late home coming, model coming home early, unless in situation that is out of control, but you must call and explain why.

WHY IT MATTERS: Children see that rules are meant to be followed by everyone, and that integrity means living consistently according to shared values and expectations.

7. Avoiding Gossip and Negative Talk

Example: let your children not hear you sit with others, gossiping or speaking poorly about someone. Let them hear you stop others calmly when they gossip about others. let them see through you that everyone deserves respect.”

WHY IT MATTERS: This teaches children the value of speaking truthfully and also respectfully, avoiding unnecessary harm to other people's reputations.

8. Making Fair Decisions

Example: If a parent is responsible for making a decision that affects multiple people, like sharing home chores for siblings, be fair and transparent and ensure everyone gets an equal turn.”

WHY IT MATTERS: Children learn that integrity involves fairness and making decisions that treat others equitably, not based on favoritism or convenience.

9. Respecting Commitments at Work and in Social Settings

Example: A parent might be juggling work and social commitments, let the children see that you prioritize and honor both responsibilities, ensuring you are always on time or inform colleagues if a situation arises. “If you make a promise to help someone, If something changes, please call the person and explain, don't just keep quiet .”

WHY IT MATTERS: By modeling respect for commitments in both professional and personal settings, children learn that integrity is about being reliable and responsible in all areas of life.

10. Teaching Gratitude and Humility

Example: When receiving compliments or gifts, parents can model humility by expressing gratitude instead of boasting. You can say “Thank you for your kind words; I appreciate it.”Always appreciate kind gestures no matter how small.

WHY IT MATTERS: Integrity includes being humble and not inflating one’s accomplishments. Parents can show that true integrity involves accepting praise with gratitude, without arrogance.

Dear parents and parents to be, by consistently demonstrating integrity in your daily lives, you set a positive example for your children, showing them that integrity isn't just about big decisions, but about making honest, moral choices every day.
Yes we can do it, it's possible!!

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PARENTING AND CHARACTER DEVELOPMENT (3)  RESPECT IN PARENTING # Respect is a crucial aspect of character development for...
19/03/2025

PARENTING AND CHARACTER DEVELOPMENT (3)

RESPECT IN PARENTING #

Respect is a crucial aspect of character development for children. As parents, the way we interact with others—whether it's our partner( husband or wife), children, relatives, colleagues or even strangers—sets the tone for how children learn to engage with the world.

When we model respect, we teach our children that all individuals deserve dignity and kindness, and this can have a profound impact on their social and emotional development.

Let us look at few key ways parents can model respect:

1. Respectful Communication

This can be achieved through Active listening: Show your children that their opinions and feelings matter, by giving them your full attention when they speak. This is a means of reinforcing that every voice deserves to be heard. Let them also watch and see you give your spouse or any other that come across you listening ears. Avoid walking and answering someone who need your help and begged to be excused. Dear parents at that moment stop, listen and answer politely before continuing your walk.

Use Kind Words: Avoid using harsh or demeaning language, even in stressful situations, not only in the presence of your children but make it your way of life. Instead, use words that express empathy and understanding and teach same to your children.

Teach Conflict Resolution: Demonstrate to them as your way of life, how to handle disagreements with patience and respect, showing that differing opinions don’t have to lead to conflict or disrespect. Never quarrel in their presence with your spouse, let them see mutual respect and synergy between you and your spouse and I bet you, they will grow up to be exactly that way in their relationship.

2. Lead by Example in Behavior.

Treat Others Kindly: Whether it's a family member, a friend, or even a cashier at the store, wheel barrow pusher, show your children how to treat everyone with kindness and courtesy.

Apologize When Necessary: If you make a mistake, own it and apologize. This teaches children that respect involves acknowledging when we’ve wronged someone and working to make it right. Let them see you talk respectfully to both old and young.
Never allow your children to be part of any misunderstanding you have with anyone, let them know it's not their problem and that you will sort it out. Never ignore any unruly action of your child towards an elderly person even if they are provoked.

Teach them never to talk down on their mates for any reason even when they feel they are from more affluent home.

3. Show Respect for Boundaries

Just as you expect others to respect your personal space and boundaries, demonstrate this with your children. Teach them to ask before borrowing something or entering another person's room, by doing same to them and to others around you, and help them understand the importance of asking for permission.
Again, allow children to make age-appropriate decisions. This fosters a sense of independence and encourages self-respect.

4. Be Consistent in Discipline

Be Fair and Firm : While modeling respect, it's also essential to set clear expectations for behavior. Children learn respect when they understand there are consequences for disrespectful actions, but those consequences should always be fair and consistent.

Teach Respect through Discipline: When enforcing rules, parents can explain why a behavior is disrespectful and offer guidance on how to handle situations better in the future.

5. Empathy and Understanding.

Demonstrate understanding toward others’ feelings. When children witness empathy in their parents, they are more likely to develop the same sensitivity towards others.

Discuss Respect in Different Contexts with your children: Talk about what respect means in various relationships, whether with family members, spouse, friends, teachers, adults, mates or even strangers.

6. Teach Gratitude and Appreciation. Regularly express gratitude, both for the little things and the bigger ones. This helps children understand the value of recognizing and acknowledging other people's efforts.

Encourage greetings, Saying "Please", and"Thank You": From a young age, parents can help children develop good manners, which are fundamental expressions of respect in social interactions.
Teach your child how to greet elders cheerfully and make the greeting audible enough to show it comes from their heart.

Dear parents and parents to be, remember that Modeling respect in parenting is not just about teaching children to say "please" and "thank you." It's about instilling deep, lasting values of empathy, kindness, and dignity that will guide them through life.
By setting an example through our own words and actions, parents would provide children with the tools they need to become respectful, compassionate, and responsible individuals who can positively contribute to society.
Let's do it, it's possible!!!

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PARENTING AND CHARACTER DEVELOPMENT (2)  FORGIVENESS IN PARENTING #Hello my wonderful audience, today we shall talk abou...
18/03/2025

PARENTING AND CHARACTER DEVELOPMENT (2)

FORGIVENESS IN PARENTING #

Hello my wonderful audience, today we shall talk about another important virtue that our children should learn from us.

Forgiveness is an essential value that we, as parents, should model for our children. Teaching children to forgive doesn't just involve words; it’s about showing them through our actions.
Children we already know, learn more from what they observe in us than from what we tell them.

As parents, demonstrating forgiveness in real-life situations is one of the most powerful ways we can teach our kids this vital character trait. How??????

1. Acknowledging Your Mistakes

Children need to understand that making mistakes is a normal part of life, and that the important thing is how we respond. Modeling forgiveness starts with acknowledging our own errors and seeking forgiveness when we wrong others. This shows children that it’s okay to admit fault and take responsibility for our actions.

Example:
Let’s say you lose your temper and raise your voice at your child when you shouldn't have. Instead of brushing it off or pretending it didn’t happen, take the time to apologize. Acknowledge that mistake and say something like, “I’m really sorry for yelling earlier, I misunderstood you, I was angry, but that’s no excuse. I am so sorry my child .” By doing this, your child will learn that it’s okay to make mistakes and that we can always ask for forgiveness to make things right.

2. Forgiving Others in Front of Your Child

Children need to see forgiveness in action, particularly when they watch how we forgive others. Modeling this in our daily interactions gives them a framework for dealing with their own conflicts. This doesn’t mean that forgiveness is instant or unconditional (there may still need to be steps to reconciliation), let them see and know your efforts regarding that process, it shows them how to approach forgiveness with an open heart.

Example:
Imagine a situation where a friend or family member hurts your feelings or did something terrible to you, Instead of holding a grudge or harboring resentment, demonstrate forgiveness. You might say to your child, “I was upset at first, but I’m going to talk to them about how I feel and move forward. Holding onto anger doesn’t help anyone.” This teaches your child that forgiveness is a choice that helps us maintain peace in relationships. Again let your child also see that this ugly incident did not moderate your reaction when you see something good that is about to happen to such a one.

3. Forgiving Your Child’s Mistakes

As parents, we can be quick to forgive the little things our children do. However, the real challenge often comes when they make bigger mistakes and fall short of our expectations.
Modeling forgiveness when our children mess up helps them see that love isn’t conditional on perfection. Forgiveness is about growth, not punishment.

Example:
Say your child accidentally damages your phone. Instead of getting angry and punishing them harshly, model forgiveness by calmly addressing the issue. You might say, “I understand it was an accident, and I know you didn’t mean to break the phone. The did has been done, but Let’s talk about being more careful in the future, so it won't happen again.”
This approach teaches them that mistakes don’t define them and that forgiveness allows for learning and growth. This approach enhances self confidence in younger children and help build trust in parents by teenagers.

Again if you promise your child when he or she does something wrong that if they tell you the truth, you won't flog them. Please no matter how disappointing that action might be, don't flog. Choose another alternative to teach that child. But don't let that child lose confidence in you.

4. Teaching the Value of Letting Go

Part of modeling forgiveness is demonstrating the importance of letting go of past hurts. Holding onto grudges can poison our relationships and create unnecessary conflict. show your child how to let go of past wrongs, by dealing kindly with those that hurt you in your future dealings with them. Let them learn the importance of not holding onto negative emotions.

Example:
If a neighbor or friend has wronged you, instead of bringing up the issue every time you see them, show your child that you’ve moved on. Perhaps you could say, “I was upset when they did it to me, but time heals every wound, and I’ve decided to let it go. I can’t change the past, so I’m focusing on moving forward with kindness.” This helps your child understand that forgiveness doesn’t mean forgetting, but it means choosing to move forward and not allowing resentment to control their lives.

5. Using Storytelling as a Tool

Stories are powerful tools for teaching children complex concepts like forgiveness. Sharing stories of forgiveness, whether they’re from history, literature, or personal experiences, can provide children with a model on how to approach forgiveness in their own lives.

Personally, I am a fan of telling folktales and I tell them a lot to my children as it was handed over to me by my mother and big aunties in those days. I tell you, they are impactful.

Example:
You might share a story from your own life, such as how you forgave a sibling after a long-standing argument. Or, you could read a book like THE LION and the BEAR, which deal with forgiveness in relatable ways for children. Afterward, discuss the themes of the story and how they can apply them in real life.
This method works.

6. Encouraging Your Child to Forgive

Finally, it’s important to encourage your child to forgive others, even when it’s difficult. This doesn’t mean forcing them to forgive immediately, but gently guiding them through the process. Encourage empathy, understanding, and communication as tools to help them forgive.

Example
Sometime ago my last child was so upset with her immediate elder sister that I told her to go call her, she told me that she's angry with her and won't want to talk to her.
I was calm and I carefully and gracefully engaged her on a discussion that made her eventually confess with her mouth that her attitude was wrong. Her emotion and attitude changed immediately for the better and it didn't take up to five minutes when I saw her discussing happily with her sister.
That few minutes talk with her that day changed her approach till today.

Another example- if your child is upset because a friend took their toy without asking, you might say, “I know you’re hurt, but do you think your friend meant to upset you? Sometimes, people make mistakes. Do you think you can talk to them about it, or maybe even forgive them? It will make both of you feel better.” This teaches your child that forgiveness is not just about letting go of anger but also about fostering healthy relationships.

Dear Parents and parents to be,
by modeling forgiveness, you show your child that it is a powerful tool for emotional well-being, personal growth, and maintaining healthy relationships. Children who witness forgiveness in their parents are more likely to practice it themselves, building stronger, and more compassionate characters.

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