06/06/2025
BE INTENTIONAL WITH YOUR IMAGE – IT SPEAKS LOUDER THAN YOU THINK.
Today, I want to share a real moment that turned into an important life lesson—one that I believe every young man and woman should take seriously.
My son recently visited the state where he attended secondary school. Naturally, his friends were excited to see him again after so long, and they decided to hang out and relive old memories. During their outing, they enjoyed food and drinks, specifically Radler drinks—which, although mild, contains some alcohol. My son, who isn’t good with alcohol, took just a cup.
But then came the part that raised a red flag for me as a parent: he posted a picture of the bottles they consumed with a caption that read, “these boys sef.”
Now, on the surface, it may seem harmless—a playful post, even. But the truth is, what we put out on social media speaks for us louder than we realize. I had a serious conversation with him. I explained that even if he didn't drink much, or even at all, posting that kind of image gives the impression that he did. People see, assume, and judge—because no one is a mind reader. And in a world where perception is powerful, it’s crucial to be intentional about the image you project.
I reminded him that as a child of God, you carry not just your name, but the name of the One you belong to. The way you live, talk, act, and yes—even what you post—should reflect that identity. It’s not just about avoiding sin, but also about avoiding appearances that can mislead others and harm your reputation.
So here's the advice I want to give you, dear young person:
Be aware of the company you keep. You are often seen as a reflection of your friends.
Be mindful of what you post online. Once it's out there, it tells a story about you—true or not.
Remember who you are and whose you are. You’re not just representing yourself but also your family, your values, and your God.
Seek wisdom. Your parents and elders may seem old-fashioned, but their eyes are seasoned, and their warnings are from experience, not control.
Thank God, my son understood where I was coming from. And I hope you do too. Because in the long run, what people think of you does matter—especially when opportunities, trust, and your future are involved.
Choose your image wisely. It might speak for you in rooms you haven't even entered yet.
Yes you can - It's possible!!!
