29/10/2025
A MENTAL HEALTH ISSUE.
Nigerian ladies need to know this.
You committed fornication with a guy, you became pregnant, the guy probably denied or started avoiding you for some reason best known to him at that moment.
You decided to render a curse on him.
If you are sure that he is father of the child in your womb, is it wise to curse him?
Do you know that such curse does not change a man’s destiny, if he is destined to be wealthy, or so great in life, your curse is a waste of time and energy and also a mental health hazard for you.
The irony of it is that when he becomes affluent, you will still be back to remind him that he has a child with you, forgetting all the curse you rendered on him (which failed to work).
What if he was doomed eventually (as you assume your curse worked) would you still meet him to present the child to him as his?
Wisdom is said to be profitable.
While it is highly condemnable for a man to deny such pregnancy when he knows he is responsible, it is very moronic, ineffective and senseless to curse the man.
The trauma is understandable but cursing the man is not a solution and does not offer a relief either.
Never forget that future is more important and it’s worth looking at.
It’s even more profitable to bless the guy than to curse him since he is actually the father of your child. Sooner or later, he may come to his senses or he may make it and would come back looking for the child.
When emotion strips off reality prevails.
So, never allow emotion ruin your future for any reason, always look beyond the present situation.
May God bless all ladies in such condition.
Men please, in such condition when you are sure you are responsible, running away of denying the pregnancy is an act of witchcraft and wickedness.
Accept and be humble enough to explain issues, never know what tomorrow brings.
Peace and love ✌️
