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my children have disrespected my grandmother’s legacy!the first picture was me preparing their akpu (fufu) the way my gr...
12/10/2026

my children have disrespected my grandmother’s legacy!

the first picture was me preparing their akpu (fufu) the way my grandma used to do it. i was using my hands to pound and mix it properly so it would be soft, smooth, and yummy.

my children saw me doing this for the FIRST TIME and immediately shouted:

“mummy! ewwww! what are you doing? are you playing with our food?”

PLAYING WITH YOUR FOOD?

i said, “no, mummy is trying to make your akpu soft so you can enjoy it.”

but these children refused to understand. they looked at me like i was doing something wrong in my own kitchen.

so, i brought out a knife and started cutting the akpu into pieces. i gave them the one i had not properly pounded with my hands.

they ate it and started complaining.

“mummy, why is this one not soft?”

i just looked at them.

then i brought out the one in the second picture, the one i had already pounded and moulded with my hands.

they tasted it and suddenly became happy !

“mummy, THIS ONE IS SOFT AND NICE! please keep using your hands!”

SORRY, WHAT?

so, when i was using my hands, it was disgusting. now that you have tasted the result, you want me to continue?

these children nearly made me abandon my grandmother’s method, only to come back and beg me to continue the same thing they called YUCK!

i just looked at them and shook my head.

children will insult your process and praise your results without even apologising.

have your children ever rejected something you did, only to come back and ask you to do it again?

I’m getting ready for the Xmas holiday, let me buy bone straight wig! Na you dey find wig of 500k here na 3500
12/10/2026

I’m getting ready for the Xmas holiday, let me buy bone straight wig! Na you dey find wig of 500k here na 3500

I was in the kitchen my daughter brought her home work that she’s done but I k ow who actually did it 😁 . But today I do...
12/10/2026

I was in the kitchen my daughter brought her home work that she’s done but I k ow who actually did it 😁 . But today I don’t have the strength to shout I just swallowed my saliva 😁

12/10/2026

Who want some ? If you’re a noodles lover and want to stop consuming excessive noodles you can stock up more plantain and won’t even have the need for noodles

After today’s work I branched to the market to buy some more plantain .

Why is it at when you buy this kind of meat and keep it it will start melting like chocolate?
12/10/2026

Why is it at when you buy this kind of meat and keep it it will start melting like chocolate?

Please, my people, let’s talk about something important!When buying achi, usu, or any soup thickener from the market, do...
12/10/2026

Please, my people, let’s talk about something important!
When buying achi, usu, or any soup thickener from the market, do you really know what the seller added to it?

Some sellers may add other things to increase the quantity or make it look like you’re getting more for your money. But the big question is: What exactly are they adding, and how sure are we that it is safe for our health?

Honestly, I believe it’s better to buy the original ingredients and grind them yourself whenever possible. At least, you have more control over what goes into your food and what you serve your family.

I know grinding everything yourself can be stressful, and buying already-ground ingredients is more convenient. But when it comes to what we eat, shouldn’t we be a little more careful?

Now, I want to hear your honest opinion.

Do you prefer buying your achi, usu, and other soup thickeners already ground from the market, or do you prefer buying them whole and grinding them yourself?

My neighbor asked me, “Why do you stress yourself by going to the gym every day? Are you not wasting your precious time?...
12/10/2026

My neighbor asked me, “Why do you stress yourself by going to the gym every day? Are you not wasting your precious time?”

I looked at her and said, “Madam, no problem. Let’s do a small challenge!”

I brought out two bunches of plantain and said, “Can you lift these two bunches over your head and hold them for 30 seconds? Or carry them and jump twice?”

She quickly said, “I prefer the jumping one! Besides, all those things you lift in the gym, I can lift them too. In fact, I can do more than you. You’re just wasting your time!”

I said, “Okay o, let’s see!”

My people, see me in this picture! Who would believe that ordinary plantain would turn into a fitness test? I would’ve posted her but she didn’t consent to it 😁.

The same woman who said I was wasting my time couldn’t even lift the two bunches over her head at the same time!

Suddenly, she started asking me, “Abeg, where do you get this strength from?”

I looked at her and said, “Madam, na the same gym you said I was wasting my time on!”

Now tell me, who is wasting whose time?

The truth is, strength doesn’t come by magic. It comes with practice, consistency, and hard work. The more you train, the stronger you become. What seems difficult today can become easy tomorrow if you keep practising.

Another day of saying NO to bread and tea for breakfast! 🙌🏽It’s 6:30am This morning, we’re having ripe plantain with veg...
12/10/2026

Another day of saying NO to bread and tea for breakfast! 🙌🏽

It’s 6:30am This morning, we’re having ripe plantain with vegetables and onions.

Ever since we stopped taking tea and bread for breakfast, no more unnecessary vomiting! Thank God for small wins.

My people, abeg, who else is tired of bread and tea every morning?

What did you eat for breakfast today? Hope it’s not bread and tea!

I saw a video on Odogwu Kiwi’s page where a woman shared her painful story of being in an abusive marriage for 7 years. ...
11/10/2026

I saw a video on Odogwu Kiwi’s page where a woman shared her painful story of being in an abusive marriage for 7 years. 😭

For 7 whole years, this woman struggled and built with her husband, thinking they were building a future together. Little did she know that the same man had another family elsewhere, and that relationship had already produced 2 children. The most painful part? The first child was the same age as her own first child! 💔

To make matters worse, she said her husband gave her several STIs and left her with health challenges.

But what makes this story even more painful is that her husband’s family knew about the other woman and the children. The woman he married outside his marriage even attended a burial ceremony at their village home!

Just imagine that! While the first wife was struggling, suffering, and trying to make her marriage work, another woman who had children for her husband was showing up at family events, and his family knew about everything. Yet, the wife continued living her life, trusting the man she had spent 7 years building with. 😭

Honestly, this story makes me sad and angry at the same time. What exactly do some men really want? Why marry a woman, let her struggle with you, and make her believe you are building a future together when you are busy building another family behind her back?

And what about the family members who knew? How could they watch this woman without telling her the truth?

Sometimes, I really ask myself, WHAT DO SOME MEN ACTUALLY WANT? Must a woman give up her happiness, peace, and even her health just to prove that she is an understanding wife?

Seven years of her life, and this is what she got in return. 💔

Nobody deserves this kind of betrayal.

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