True Relationship & Luv Tips - Godly principles

28/10/2025

How Men Express their Love
1. Men show love by being very protective.

If you are traveling alone or going out with friends, your man asks you to call him after you have reached your destination.

2. He stays close to you physically.

Physical contact, even when "innocent". Sends non-verbal messages that are worth paying attention to.

3. He notices the small things and he compliments you.

If you get you hair done, he'll notice and he'll always make you feel good about yourself.

4. He is never annoyed at you.

Your man is busy and you are teasing him. If he doesn't get annoyed at you, he clearly loves you.

5. He can't stay angry at you.

No matter what the reason is or how big a mistake you've made, he can't stay mad at you for long.

6. He really listens to you.

A man who really cares for you will listen intently and do his best to absorb all of the details that he can. It is his way of showing you that he values you and what you have to say.

7. He always makes you feel safe.

Men are naturally protective. A man who loves and cares for you will make you feel safe in all areas of life. The real ones who loves you will make you feel it in his own ways.

02/10/2025

HOW TO KNOW IF THE LOVE IS REAL

When someone loves you, you know and you will feel it. There will be evidences to attest to it.

Below are some of the evidences...

✅ ATTENTION

When someone loves you, he or she will give you attention. We give attention to the things that we love.

✅ CARE

When someone loves you, they will care about your well-being. Anyone that doesn't care about your welfare does not love you.

✅ COMMUNICATION

When someone loves you, they will communicate often with you as much as possible. Hearing the voice of whom you love is a delight.

✅ GIVING

The natural outflow of love is giving. When someone loves you, they will give. It doesn't necessarily has to be money but there will be giving.

✅ SPENDING TIME TOGETHER

When someone loves you, they will desire and long to spend time with you. When you love someone, you will desire the presence of the person. Anyone that doesn't like spending time with you, may not love you.

✅ SACRIFICE

The ultimate prove of love is sacrifice. Love is not self-seeking. Love always spends itself at the expense of the beloved. Someone that is not going out of his way once in a while to make you feel good, may not love you. Love is sacrificial.

✅ PATIENCE

When someone loves you, they will patient with you. They will be patient with in your weaknesses, down time, etc.

✅ PROTECTION

When someone loves you, they will try to protect you from harm, they will ensure that you are safe.

✅ KINDNESS

When someone loves you, they will be kind to you. Love is kind. Harshness is a sign of hatred, resentment or anger not a sign of love.

✅ VULNERABILITY

When someone loves you, they will vulnerable to you. They will loose their guard, put down their defence, they will dismantle the barricade and they will show you the weak side of them hoping you don't hurt them.

✅ SUPPORT

When someone loves you, they will support you in whatever capacity they can. They will support your dreams

28/09/2025

Girlfriend & wife Difference....

Men are often surprised to think why their girlfriend is so sweet and wife is so grumpy?

I will tell you because I have become a wife from a girlfriend........

No one has more patience than a wife, but men are often surprised to think why their girlfriend is so sweet and wife is so grumpy.

Actually, this difference is the result of their own behavior.

Firstly, when the girlfriend is with them, they take her on a long drive in the rain even by borrowing a bike and asking for money. On the other hand, as soon as the wife comes, despite being rich, they put her on the duty of making tea and pakodas in the rain.

Secondly, men do not hesitate in pleading to convince their girlfriend, but if the wife says “no”, they spoil their mood till the morning and make it an issue of ego.

Thirdly, every special place is for the girlfriend - places like garden, restaurant, resort, whereas the wife remembers to take her to mundan, janeu, marriage or to take care of a sick relative.

Fourthly, the husband who praises his girlfriend for every small and big thing, starts nagging his wife if she delays in getting ready.

Fifthly, even the girlfriend's twenty four phone calls seem like care, but the wife calling twice a day also seems like an "inquiry".

Last and the most important thing, men who stay away from their family responsibilities, expect their wife to serve their entire family 24 hours a day.

This is the difference which gives different experiences to the wife and girlfriend. The truth is that the wife supports in every situation, but forgetting to appreciate her contribution is the biggest problem.

This is the only difference ....❤️❤️❤️

26/09/2025

How to avoid Emotional Affair

Even if you are married to the best spouse in the whole world, if you do not guard your heart, you may end up "falling in love" with someone aside your spouse and eventually ruin your marriage.

No one gets married and plan to have affair but lots of married men and women are into affairs today because they slept when they should have been wide awake with their five senses alert.

1. Don't be too friendly with the opposite s*x. This is where lots of married people land in trouble. Over spirituality and pride will destroy your marriage! You can't handle close friendship with the opposite s*x as a married person. Your heart is involved. Set boundaries. Be disciplined. Be cordial. Be respectful. Be godly. Be holy.

2. Don't share your personal problems with an opposite s*x friend. It will bond you together. Problems bond people.

3. Don't contact any opposite s*x you are fond of. If you secretly admire them, you are fond of them and their is a tingling in your heart at the mere thought of them, don't contact!

4. Avoid unnecessary eye contact that lingers with the opposite s*x.

5. Don't tell an opposite s*x you are romantic or s*xy, that private information is for your spouse only.

6. Avoid discussions with the opposite s*x when you are tired, very sad, depressed, sorrowful, drowsy, sleepy or very sick. This can cloud your judgment and make you say silly things. Talk to your husband/wife instead.

7. Avoid unnecessary compliment of the opposite s*x.

8. Stop saying "I love you" to the opposite s*x, for what?

9. Work on your marriage. Keep the fire of love and romance alive in your marriage!

10. Protect your family. Don't share your marital problem with your opposite s*x friend, it will bond you.

11.Never flirt with the opposite s*x.

12. Mind the pictures you post on the social media. Limit pictures that show your curves or portray you as s*xy.

13. Do not contact all your EX after marriage.

22/09/2025

This story was copied ,can we read & drop our comment on the comment section.

My wedding was supposed to held today .But was cancelled because of my mother in-law three weeks ago

What was my offense? I know you all would want to know .It's because I called my husband's niece (my husband's sister's daughter) by her name .She is 11 years old .While I'm 29 years .. She is just preparing for her Common entrance while I'm a master degree holder .

I called my husband's sister's daughter to please come and help me to zip down my cloth while i bent down to make it easier for her then my mother in-law came and said i was rude .I was shocked and i asked in total respect what I did.

She said why would I call Temilade by her name instead of "aunty Temilade "...I said "but ma , Temilade is not my aunty ,I can't address her by that" ..She said she is my small mother in-law and I must respect her .

But I didn't disrespect her in any way ..She then said I must be calling her Aunty Temilade.

I didn't say anything again because the whole thing was beginning to p**s me off ..And there comes one of my husband's nieces again. 15 years ,I told that one that it's good to see her (in Yoruba language).

My mother in-law said she can't tolerate any disrespect from me that why am I using O for her instead of E (Yoruba people will understand this)..... .....I had to voice out that mum I'm the first child of my parents and I have four siblings .The fourth one is 21 years old .And these girls are not even up to him .How come she wants me to be calling them aunty ?? When they are not even my aunty ...

She said if I can't address them as "aunty " I should forget about the marriage .I was shocked and I said no problem .

I called my husband- to -be and he joined us..She explained to him and my husband to be said I should address them as Aunty

I told him I'm so sorry,I can't be humiliated to such .I do not believe in that .This is 2025 ..

I am a peaceful person and very respectful.But can't be subjected to calling someone I am 18 years older than ,Aunty ..No ,it hurts my pride to do so

She then said from two years old the smallest to the eldest ,I must address them as Uncle ,brother ,sister ,aunty .I said I can't . There's no need for pretense about this .

She placed a call and told the head of the family that the marriage is canceled .My husband was there saying my PRIDE is killing me .I said PRIDE ? For refusing to address kids I'm 15,18,20 ,27 years older than aunty and uncle??? Noooo. I won't

She asked me to leave the house that the marriage is canceled.Thank God i haven't packed my loads from my previous place .I just called my sister to stop dismantling the room that I would still retain it .

My husband to be blocked me in all social media .And it makes more sense of what i never thought or expected

We all have where we are good at .But please blame me if you like .I won't subject myself to call someone I'm older than with 15 years or more Aunty ...If that means I'm rude .Please let it be

We can't be good at all areas . I'm not good at that

I will heal and move on
I have been a sweet and kind person .I have treated my mother in-law well .I am not a rude type at all .But not just seeing myself doing that .

This is not what they call prideness .You can't call me rude for calling children I'm older than by their names in this century.

It was easier for our mothers then in the very olden days because they marry early.Some married at the age of 15,16.18 with no purpose and self worth .

You can't compare to me that have achieved a master degree ,have a successful business that I run ,have a skill I used as a side hustle
,doing well financially to be subjected to calling someone who doesn't have A common entrance certificate Aunty...lol 😆 😆 😆 I won't be able to ...I can't even be that

People from poor background are really suffering.Imagine if I was Otedola's daughter or Adeleke . I'm sure they wouldn't have approached me with such .

I hustle till the stage I am and I will keep hustling till I get there .

I'm single guys .Pray for me and wish me well

Adefemi Taiwo Damilola
Adeyeri Opeyemi Damilola Taiwo

20/09/2025

Perfect timing for me to read this. Thankyou so much.

Whenever you find yourself starting to miss someone you really loved…

But perhaps someone who just didn’t appreciate you.

Someone who just didn’t care about how you felt.

Someone who you loved so much, but someone who just treated you like an option.

Stop for a moment, and remember…

Remember the disrespect.

Remember all the times when your feelings didn’t matter and were invalidated.

Remember how your worth was completely disregarded.

Remember when your boundaries were ignored time and time again.

Remember what they deliberately and knowingly did to break your trust over and over again.

Remember all

20/09/2025

DON'T WASTE YOUR TIME

1. Don’t waste your time on someone who don't make time for you. No matter how busy someone is, no matter how hectic their days are, they will make time if they want to. They will make time if they care.

2. Don’t waste your texts on someone who reads and ignores them. Don’t waste them on someone who regularly forgets to return your calls.

3. Don’t waste your time on someone whose actions don’t match with their words. They sweet-talk you one day and act differently the next day. They make promises but never keep to them.

4. Don’t waste your time on someone who gives you mixed signals. Today they make you believe you're their last bus stop. The next day, they make you feel like dying. Love builds up; love does not cast down.

5. Don’t waste your time on someone who is not sure about you. They tell you they're not sure where the relationship will lead to. So why are you there?

6. Don’t waste your time on someone who doesn’t share their world with you. They only share their troubles with you but never share their breakthroughs and good things with you. Are you their burden bearer.

7. Don’t waste your time with someone who keeps you a secret from his friends and family. They keep saying don't worry, when the time comes, at the right time. The question is, when will the right time come?

8. Don’t waste your time on someone who is not sure about you. If they were sure, they would find the time. They would make an effort. They would text. All the excuses they are giving why they can't make time is because they are not sure you are the one.

9. Don't waste your time with someone who only talk about s*x, and nothing about the future. They are players.

10. Don't waste your time with someone whose phone is always off when you need their help. But their phones are on when they need your time. Be careful.

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19/09/2025

19/09/2025

How To Attract Someone Without Chasing.
1. Stop chasing.
2. Talk slowly and kindly.

3. Never shy away from eye contact.

4. Pay attention when other's are talking.

5. Never show fake actions till you make it.

6. Walk with confidence & assurance, put your phone on your bag.

7. Talk less about yourself, no one wants to hear too much.

8. Present a neat appearance, pay attention to how you look.

17/09/2025

30 Things Never to do in a Relationship.

1. Don't compare your partner to your ex.

2. Don't assume your partner will change.

3. Don't compare your relationship to others.

4. Don't be boring in the bedroom.

5. Don't complain about your partner to others.

6. Don't use passive-aggressive behavior.

7. Don't give up your own goals.

8. Don't act needy in your relationship.

9. Don't argue in public with your partner.

10. Don't act insecure.

11. Don't be irresponsible.

12. Don't be poor and start making enough money.

13. Don't be negative towards your relationship.

14. Don't complain always.

15. Don't talk about your ex.

16. Don't disrespect your partner.

17. Don't get angry towards him/her.

18. Don't argue with your partner.

19. Don't talk about your work problems.

20. Don't compete with your partner.

21. Don't be a liar.

22. Don't make hurtful comments.

23. Don't call your partner names.

24. Don't ignore your partner's red flags.

25. Don't let your partner down.

26. Avoid obsessive jealousy.

27. Don't ignore your needs for anything .

28. Don't forget your good friends.

29. Don't neglect any bedroom problems.

30. Don't neglect your physical health.

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16/09/2025

Love Should Be a Choice, Not a Force

Love is never about compulsion; it is always about choice. Forcing someone to love you simply because you love them will only leave you begging for attention and struggling to keep the relationship alive.

If it becomes clear that someone does not feel the same way about you, let them go. Don’t pressure them, don’t ask others to plead on your behalf, and don’t exhaust yourself trying to buy their affection with gifts, money, or desperate gestures. Such actions only make you appear needy, and even then, success is not guaranteed.

Understand this truth: love that is not freely given will never give you its best. A person who doesn’t truly love you will eventually use you, and when they are done, discard you. Remember, they already told you they didn’t love you—you simply ignored it and offered yourself anyway.

You are priceless. Your worth cannot be measured. Never settle for less by forcing yourself into anyone’s life. The right person will love you willingly, without manipulation, without conditions. Value yourself first, and only then will others recognize and respect your value.