14/07/2025
Honestly, Iād rather talk about Amu (prĆØĆØk) and Ćtu (t0t0) or single relationships every single second than talk about marriage (married people). And personally, hereās why:
Many married people today walked into marriage with their eyes wide open and still made terrible mistakes. Now theyāre in it, and the same issues they refused to confront before marriage are the ones tearing them apart today. Instead of enduring and working things out, they run out of the marriage, forgetting that children are now involved,children who need both a mother and a father figure in their lives.
Letās be real: many parents today are selfish. A good percentage donāt even care about the emotional and psychological impact their decisions have on the children they brought into this world. And this, I believe, is one of the reasons why so many people have become toxic passing down brokenness and dysfunctional mindsets from generation to generation.
Many of those planning to leave their marriages or those already out saw the red flags from the beginning. But they ignored them out of selfishness or desperation. If I were to advise relationship counselors, Iād tell them to focus more on single people guiding them to figure out reds signs on time, talk about each and every of them,build healthy relationships before marriage. As for those already married, Iād say: do everything possible to avoid divorce. Do it for the sake of your children and the life youāve already built together.
If youāre single, you've probably seen whatās happening in marriages around you. So when your time comes, donāt walk blindly into it. Donāt wait to learn your lesson the hard way. There are major things you must look out for before saying āI do.ā If those things are missing,run! Yes, people can change, but donāt bank your future on hoping they will. Most of the time, the red flags you ignore early on are the very reasons for your pain later.
And if you're already in a difficult marriage, my advice is this: find every possible way to make it work. Think of your children. Think of the love you once shared. Examine yourself too,look at the habits or behaviors that might be pushing your partner away. Donāt be quick to divorce. Rebuild trust. With time, healing can come.
Gifto