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20/09/2026

Dear Young person 💗

Make the right choices now

Dear Teenager 💗Purity is more than avoiding sexual sin. It is about honouring God with your heart, mind, body, words, re...
08/09/2026

Dear Teenager 💗

Purity is more than avoiding sexual sin. It is about honouring God with your heart, mind, body, words, relationships and choices. It is choosing what pleases God even when nobody is watching.

God did not design purity to punish you or stop you from enjoying life.

Purity is protection, purpose and obedience.

Your worth is not determined by what someone wants from your body. You are valuable because God created you with purpose.

💛 The A–Z of Purity

A — Accountability: Have people you can trust and learn from.
B — Boundaries: Know your limits and don't be afraid to say NO.
C — Choices: Every choice has consequences; choose wisely.
D — Discipline: Learn to control your desires instead of allowing them to control you.
E — Environment: Be mindful of the places, people and content influencing you.
F — Faith: Keep trusting God when doing the right thing feels difficult.
G — Godliness: Let your lifestyle reflect your relationship with God.
H — Heart: Guard your heart carefully. ❤️
I — Integrity: Do what is right even when nobody is watching.
J — Jesus: Keep Jesus at the centre of your decisions.
K — Knowledge: Know God's Word and understand what He says about your life.
L — Love: True love respects boundaries; it doesn't pressure or manipulate.
M — Mind: Be careful about what you feed your mind.
N — No: Learn to say NO without feeling guilty.
O — Obedience: Purity requires choosing God's way over pressure.
P — Purpose: Remember that your life is bigger than temporary feelings.
Q — Questions: Ask trusted, godly adults when you are confused.
R — Respect: Respect yourself and respect other people's boundaries.
S — Self-control: Don't let emotions or attraction make every decision for you.
T — Truth: Don't allow social media or peer pressure to define what is right.
U — Understanding: Purity is about the whole person, not just appearance.
V — Values: Know what you stand for before pressure comes.
W — Wisdom: Think beyond today; consider where your choices are taking you.
X — eXamine: Regularly examine your choices, friendships and influences.
Y — Your identity: Your identity is not determined by attention, relationships or physical affection.
Z — Zeal: Pursue God wholeheartedly and don't be ashamed of your convictions.

To every teenager reading this:
You don't have to follow the crowd just because everyone seems to be doing something. You can choose differently. You can set boundaries. You can walk away from pressure. You can honour God with your life.

And remember, purity is not about being perfect. When you make a wrong choice, don't run away from God. Run back to Him. Seek forgiveness, learn, grow and keep moving forward.

“Flee from sexual immorality…” — 1 Corinthians 6:18

Your future is worth protecting.
Your purpose is worth protecting.
Your relationship with God is worth protecting. 💛

HavyTeens Talk Coach
Chinasa Hope Caleb

Dear Young Person 💗 A new song is out, everybody is singing it, merging pictures of their loved ones together and using ...
26/08/2026

Dear Young Person 💗

A new song is out, everybody is singing it, merging pictures of their loved ones together and using the song as a background song.

Nice beats and beautiful lyrics, deep and powerful promises too.

I love the song too and I may sing it to my husband on our 5yrs anniversary.

Still, i need you to know that alot of things can happen with this song, things you might regret later in the future.

As those who played "Hallelujah by simi and Johnny Drille" 6yrs ago, alot of babies were ab*rted because of the influence of that song, some lost their dignity as women.

Alot of guys too were lured to bed by a Lady who has been admiring them from afar, some lost their Mantle and spiritual covering and boldness to stand for Christ.

Some have recovered and reconciled with God
Some are still struggling to stand in faith

Now another one is here, Stay Alert!!!!!!

Listen to the song but don't let it cloud your decisions, don't make a mistake that you'll regret forever.

I talk to you as a big sister, Don't make mistakes, you'll forever regret oooo

And that your heaven Baby will not be there to comfort you when you start bearing the consequences of the mistakes.

I love you!

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Someone in your profile might need this info

Bouncing back from Academic Failure 📝📚Dear Young Person 💗 I am writing this out of experience, I was a first class stude...
25/08/2026

Bouncing back from Academic Failure 📝📚

Dear Young Person 💗

I am writing this out of experience, I was a first class student but I got distracted in my Year Three in Uni.

My Cgpa dropped so drastically that I took God's grace for me to graduate with a good certificate, one that I can confidently work with.

Here is how I bounced back.

1. Cut off all the distractions : You know them, and if you think you don't, pick a pawn and paper and write out things you think about more often, things you do more often, things you spend time on. No matter how good those things are, if they're distracting your studies as a secondary school student or a university student, STOP IT!!!!!!

2. Make friends with people who are eager to pass by all means: Get closer to them and do what they're doing, as long as it is not malpractice. I know this might sound too desperate but that's just the only way to pass. I had friends like that in school then, they will always call me each time they want to go and read at night, some nights I will follow and read well, some nights I wont and some nights I'll go with them and sleep all through.

3. Copy your notes by yourself: One thing that helped me bounce back was that as I copied my notes, the words stick toy brain. Sometimes I would be in the Exam Hall and immediately I see a question, the answer appears, in fact I Begin to picture my note and see the words line by line.

I don't know if you have experienced that?

There are many more ways but these are the three most important for now.

If you know other ways, let hear your thoughts in the comment section.

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I'm rooting for you

Your Teens Coach
Mrs Havilah Caleb

14/08/2026

Having a praying mother is paramount.

Mother's reading this.......Be prayerful, the Lord hears your prayers.

Teenagers who are watching this, honour your mother because that is the only way she can pray for you wholeheartedly and her prayers will work for you.

I had one and she has been a shield till now!

God bless all the mothers and future mothers 🙏🏿

13/08/2026

Dear Young person 💗

Watch out for this red flags in Friends

13/08/2026

Dear young person 💗

Choose your friends wisely

I love you 💞

Dear Young Person 💗 You can handle PEER PRESSURE if you want to. YOU DON’T HAVE TO FOLLOW THE CROWDAs a Nigerian teenage...
13/08/2026

Dear Young Person 💗

You can handle PEER PRESSURE if you want to.

YOU DON’T HAVE TO FOLLOW THE CROWD

As a Nigerian teenager or young person, you may have heard things like, “Everybody is doing it,” “Don’t be a mummy’s boy/girl,” or “If you want to belong, you have to do this.”

But belonging should never cost you your values, peace, future or self-respect.

I am content, and that’s one thing that helped me overcome peer pressure. I learned that I don’t need to do what everyone else is doing just to feel accepted.

I am comfortable being myself, even when my choices are different from my friends’.

Here are a few ways to handle peer pressure:

1. Know your values and stand by them.

2. Learn to say NO without feeling guilty: this one eeeeehn, it's hard ooo but very very important
3. Choose friends who respect your boundaries not the ones who always see it as if you're doing too much for setting boundaries

4. Don’t be afraid to walk away from situations that make you uncomfortable, the bible even said fleeeeeee. Don't stay where you're uncomfortable just because you want to please a friend or because you don't want to look weak. Once the environment, relationship or friendship starts getting uncomfortable, WALK AWAY, FLEEEEE IF YOU MUST

5. Remember that you don’t have to prove yourself to anyone, not even your siblings. Live for God, do what makes him happy and what makes you happy too .

Your friends may influence you, but you are responsible for the direction your life takes.

Be confident enough to be different. Your future is worth protecting. ❤️

I am rooting for you

19/07/2026

Happy Graduation to you Ada Mummy C 🥳

Welcome to a new stage in life, right now, many are looking up to you and I pray that you won't disappoint them or God.

Do what makes you happy but most importantly, do what makes God happy 😁

I taught you as a child and I am a proud teacher because you're growing into a great, disciplined and obedient lady who loves God

Kudos to you Dear, I'll keep praying for you

Friends celebrate Ada 😍

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