
09/07/2025
🚨💭 Real Talk: Ladies, Know Your Worth & Build Your Own Path 💪🏽👑💼❗❗❗
Earlier this week, I went to my regular customer’s shop where I buy food items like curry, rice, oil, etc. 🍚🛒🧴. Two sisters help their mom run the shop, and one of them had just returned from Delta State University 🎓 last Saturday.
We were chatting on Monday, and she shared how expensive things are over there 😩💸. She said even ₦20,000 monthly barely lasts 2 to 3 days 😳. What hit me the most was when she said some girls only survive by dating Yahoo boys💻💰—just to afford basic things.
There’s a growing mindset that a lady can’t survive without a man 😔—especially one with money. They depend on guys for hair 👩🏽🦱, phones 📱, clothes 👗, even food 🍽️. And many times, these relationships are toxic.
Some of these guys insult the girls and compare themselves to their fathers 😤. But the girls stay silent because of what they’re receiving 💵. It’s not right.
💥Ladies, you have worth.
You can hustle 🤝🏽, learn a skill 🧵🧑🏽🍳, start a business 📦—and God will bless your efforts 🙏🏽. You don't need to trade dignity for comfort.
📖 Bible Verses:
Proverbs 14:23 (NIV) – “All hard work brings a profit 💼, but mere talk leads only to poverty.”
- 2 Thessalonians 3:10 (NIV)– “The one who is unwilling to work shall not eat.” 🍽️
- Proverbs 31:25 (NIV)– “She is clothed with strength and dignity 💪🏽👗; she can laugh at the days to come.” 😄👑
💡 Advice:
Don’t chase free money. It comes with silent chains. Be a woman of value, purpose, and vision. Rise through grace and hard work. ✨🔥
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