20/10/2025
Rightly 👍 said Papa
I have a sculpture in my office that shines like gold, but it is not gold. It is gold-plated✨—beautiful on the outside, but not real gold. That’s exactly how polygamy is. There is no way you can package polygamy and turn it into gold.
Money and luxury do not sustain marriage. 💍 A polygamous marriage is like brass; it cannot be compared to God’s original plan. Polygamy, to a large extent, involves a narcissistic approach to life—it does not consider the emotions of the women in that relationship.
Polygamy often reflects the self-idolising appetite of the man for brand new wives—young, unpolluted—while he himself is a fairly used, maybe even an old car 🚗.
A man in my age bracket marrying a young girl means the two are mutually exploiting each other. The woman is exploiting for wealth, fame, comfort, and a future where her children can have a glorious inheritance. She operates with the psychology that it is better to weep in a Bentley or Lamborghini than to weep in a Volkswagen Beetle 🏎️😢.
Monogamous marriages are difficult; multiply that by six relationships in one house and it becomes warfare ⚔️.
⬩ For a young girl of 18 to enter a volleyball team of six with five mature, veteran players—disaster is inevitable.
⬩ Two is a company, while six is a large crowd. And in a large crowd, people must step on each other’s toes. There will be shoving, screaming, suffocation, and sometimes, someone might even be trampled upon 😣👣.
⬩ You can’t pretend to be asleep under observation 👀. There is no way you can display love on social media and convince people it is real.
⬩ What happened in the house of old layers will happen in the house of broilers one day 🐔. What made the man leave five other women to come for you will one day make him leave you for another.
⬩ Those who were there before you know him more than you. Six women contesting for one man’s affection, attention, and expenditure is a competition that cannot work 💔.
Marriage involves consecration. God is omniscient but also a jealous God. The reason I don’t commit adultery is because God expects the Church to be faithful to Christ. Also, I expect myself to be faithful to my wife and I just detest adultery because it is dirty and expensive. Marriage has a divine specification, and once you step outside it, you will suffer breakdown.
What happened in Morocco will happen in Nigeria 🇲🇦➡️🇳🇬. When you get addicted to a level of comfort, it’s difficult to walk away. The man who convinced you to marry him can always convince you to return—especially when he’s rich, powerful, and has nothing to lose.
So don’t be surprised if Regina goes back to her matrimonial home. It’s not easy out there. 💭
🎥 Highlights from “Regina Daniels and Her Marital Issues in Polygamy”
🔗 https://youtu.be/KtkqVW8I5sg