Love Gem

20/09/2025

These days, most relationships are not built on love
They’re built on what can I get from you and how can you benefit me.
That’s why loyalty is rare."
A lot of people don’t marry for love anymore.
They marry for money, status, or pressure from society.
That’s why true love now looks like a fairy tale.

20/09/2025

DONT DO THESE IF YOU DONT WANT TO LOOK CHEAP AS A WOMAN TO YOUR MAN

There are many things women do that really makes them look cheap which they might be doing ignorantly or intentionally.

Okay,lets look at them

1. Narrating all your family problems to a guy you just met.This makes you look cheap.
For instance,you just met a guy, the next thing you start telling him,that your grandma swallowed scissors and she needs immediate hospital attention, that your uncle fell down from a tree, and he needs medical attention..
Maybe you saw that the guy has money. So you now want to carry all your family problems to him. This makes you look cheap.

2. Ordering food and eatung like you have not seen food before on your first date with a guy.
Imagine on a first date, you are ordering food and eating like you ve not seen food in your life before. It makes you look cheap.
Allow the guy to order the food. Just tell him what you want to eat. Don’t go over the counter and start making demands without even knowing how much he has.
Some girls go out on a first date and eat almost their yearly house rent. Some even tell the guy that they need take away and in your mind you think that you are smart,my dear,you are not! Rather you are a cheap girl.

3. Exposing your body so much to draw guys attention.
Yes dressing up with all your b***s outside, your ni**le pointing to people. Some ladies this days don’t wear pants and bra anymore.

Mostly in our Universities now. the high rate of indecent dressing is quite alarming. My dear if you are among this category.. you are cheap. Real men doesn’t eat uncovered food. it’s only boys that do that!
Decency is the best! Have your morals intact! Carry your self esteem high. that makes you a real woman not dressing naked, it only makes you cheap.

4. Another thing that makes you look cheap is urgent 2k..
A lady that keeps demanding for urgent 2k is cheap! Every time your gas has finished,every time you are stranded in one location. You need urgent 1k.
There’s no time you dont reply that you have not eaten since morning. This actually makes you look cheap!

Work for your money! add value to your self.. learn a skill,go to school if you can.
Get a shop if you like business.,don’t fold your hands inside and be looking for a man to devour or dig your gold.
Be the main gold!

Ladies learn to add values to yourself. Hustle for your own money.

I didn’t say that it’s wrong for a man to give a woman money, NO!
But the giving should be out of his own decision.. not you begging every time. or him giving you out of pity or not you compelling him to do so. the giving should be from his mind.

17/09/2025

Any woman can be replaced,
but a woman who stood by you when you had nothing, a woman who supported and encouraged you at your lowest, a woman who chose you over men who could offer her the world. that kind of woman is irreplaceable

17/09/2025

Commitment in a relationship is like tending a garden;you don’t just plant it and walk away.
You keep watering, pulling out the weeds, and protecting it from storms.
It’s the daily decision to stay, work through the rough patches, and grow together, even when it would be easier to give up

17/09/2025

If you truly love someone,
you love them twice.
Once for who they appear to be.
And once again, more deeply, for who they really are.
The first love is easy. Their smile, their charm, the way they make you feel.
Then the layers come off. You see the mess, the moods, the history, the differences.
And if you can still love them there, raw and unfiltered, without needing to fix or change them That isn't infatuation. That's understanding.
The kind of love that stays.
The kind that grows.

17/09/2025

Most of you have suffered in relationships more than the Israelites suffered in Egypt...😎

16/09/2025

WHAT TO DO WHEN SOMEONE IS NOT READY TO BE WITH YOU?

You walk away. Love yourself enough to walk away from anyone who doesn't know your worth. Believe me, one day you will meet someone who will drink up every ounce of your magnificence, making you wonder what you were doing wasting your time with someone who had no idea what you truly deserved.
Walk away from anyone who is unsure about you, no matter how right you think it feels. Because at the end of it, if they were so right for you then you wouldn't be losing sleep over why you both aren't together.

16/09/2025

The purpose of dating is to find someone you can spend the rest of your life with. That's it. You don't date to waste other people's time.
You don't date to have someone feed your ego.
You don't date to temporarily fill a void emotionally or physically.
You date to find that one person who you feel like you can spend the rest of your life with.

16/09/2025

WHEN IS THE BEST TIME TO INVOLVE YOUR PARENTS IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP?

16/09/2025

How do you know when a man is truly right for you?

Deep down, you’ll just feel it. You’ll see it in his mannerisms, in the way he looks at you, listens to you, and pays attention to the little things. It will show in his laughter, in the atmosphere he creates when he’s around. He will inspire you to be a better woman, a better sister, a better daughter, and one day, a nurturing mother.

You’ll recognize he’s the one when he strengthens you—emotionally, physically, and mentally. He will uplift you, guide you closer to your faith, and help you see the best in yourself. With him, you’ll discover self-love. He will become the missing piece of your heart, your teacher, your confidant, and your soulmate. You’ll know he’s right for you when his love teaches you to embrace yourself—and when the moment he enters your life, your heart finally finds peace.

16/09/2025

16/09/2025

When you have something good, you don't play with it. You don't take chances losing it. You don't neglect it. When you have something good, you pour into it. You appreciate it... because when you take care of something good, that good thing takes care of you too.