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12/08/2026

You want to encourage mummies out there,and this is all you got.

Mums, let's be honest: what is the hardest part of this journey—financial pressure, therapy, sleepless nights, people's ...
12/08/2026

Mums, let's be honest: what is the hardest part of this journey—financial pressure, therapy, sleepless nights, people's judgment, or emotional stress?

When People Stare, Let Them See Strength ❤️One day, I took my child outside, and I noticed the way people were looking a...
12/08/2026

When People Stare, Let Them See Strength ❤️
One day, I took my child outside, and I noticed the way people were looking at us.
Some stared for too long.
Some whispered to themselves.
Some looked at my child with pity.
And some looked at me as if they were wondering how I could keep going.
For a moment, it hurt.
Then I looked at my child and reminded myself: “We are not a family that needs pity. We are a family that deserves respect, love and celebration.”
Dear special needs mum, I know those looks can hurt. I know sometimes you wish people would stop staring and start understanding.
But please don't allow people's opinions to make you feel ashamed of your child.
Your child is not a burden.
Your child is not an embarrassment.
Your child is not less valuable because their journey looks different.
When people see your child trying, let them see courage.
When they see you carrying your child through therapy, let them see strength.
When they see you celebrating the smallest milestone, let them see a mother who refuses to give up.
We don't want pity.
We want people to celebrate every little victory with us. ❤️
So the next time someone looks at you and your child, lift your head.
Let them see a mother who kept believing.
Let them see a child who keeps fighting.
Let them see a family turning challenges into testimonies.
And one day, those same people who once looked at us with pity may look at us with admiration and say:
“Wow… look how far they have come!” 🙏❤️
Special needs mums, don't hide your child because of people's opinions. Keep loving, supporting, encouraging and celebrating them.
Our children don't need pity. They need acceptance. And we deserve to be praised for the strength it takes to keep showing up every single day.
If you are a special needs mum, comment “I AM PROUD OF MY CHILD” ❤️👇

12/08/2026

Oyin feeling excited with mummy

12/08/2026

Why are you awake 😠?
Voice out.

11/08/2026

I never believed my only daughter will experience this challenges😭

l used to worry every time I saw the saliva running down my daughter mouth…” 🥺❤️There was a time I would constantly wipe...
11/08/2026

l used to worry every time I saw the saliva running down my daughter mouth…” 🥺❤️
There was a time I would constantly wipe my child’s mouth because of drooling. Sometimes her clothes would get wet, her chin would become irritated, and I would wonder, “When will this stop?”
I felt worried because I knew she wasn't doing it intentionally. She was simply struggling to control her saliva and swallow it properly.
Instead of getting angry or making her feel uncomfortable, I started giving her more love and patience. I kept her face clean, changed her bib whenever it became wet, protected her skin, and continued with her therapy and activities.
I also learned that drooling can happen when a child has difficulty controlling the lips, tongue, or swallowing—not necessarily because the child is producing too much saliva.
So, dear special needs mum, please don't be ashamed of your child's drooling. Don't compare your child with another child. ❤️
Keep caring. Keep encouraging. Keep attending therapy when recommended, and speak with your child's doctor or speech/swallowing therapist if the drooling is severe or comes with choking or swallowing difficulties.
One day, you may look back and realize that the little things you were doing every day were part of your child's progress.
Mama, don't give up. That child is still learning, and you are doing your best. Keep loving, keep caring, and keep believing. ❤️🙏
Have you experienced excessive drooling with your child? What has helped your child the most? Let's learn from one another in the comments. 👇

11/08/2026

Sometimes it comes like this when we are not expecting it, this is one of our challenges

11/08/2026

Me trying to check how strong her legs is

11/08/2026

See the cassava that exhausted daddy oyin strength to uproot

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