08/12/2024
Women let me tell you a secret about men.
Men don't joke with their mothers; the love and respect men have for their mothers can not be quantified and qualified.
The best way into a man's heart in totality is to be a very good daughter-in-law to his mother, whether you are a potential wife-to-be or you are already a wife.
Be good to his mother, respect her, care for her like you will do for your mother, and don't be harsh on her.
Don't be that daughter-in-law that wants to compete with her over his son. The idea of owning his son and shifting his son's focus away from her makes her scared and insecure.
You must understand that no woman will want to suffer and raise his son to become the man you love, and at the point where she's supposed to be enjoying him, another woman who knows nothing about how much suffering she has been through will want to take him away from her.
You will argue with me now until when you become a mother and be in her shoes; it's only then that you will understand.
The only way you don't want to turn your home into a war ground is to simply make your mother-in-law feel safe; you need to make her feel that you don't want to steal his son from him; you are there to support her in taking care of his son.
Be wise.
She's the only woman that can easily talk to her son and he will listen when he starts misbehaving.
Men love their mother, if you lose the love of his mother, you will lose him..
Be wise.