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THE DAY MY NO-CREDIT POLICY SAVED ME FROM ANOTHER HEADACHE 😂I have this regular customer who comes to the shop at least ...
13/08/2026

THE DAY MY NO-CREDIT POLICY SAVED ME FROM ANOTHER HEADACHE 😂

I have this regular customer who comes to the shop at least once a week to buy drugs for her birds.

She never asks for credit, probably because she knows our company policy: we don't do credit sales, no matter how small the amount is.

But one particular day, she ran short of cash.Because she was an old and trusted customer, I decided to make an exception and gave her the drugs, against company policy.

Fast-forward three weeks later, this woman came around again to buy drugs for her birds. After calculating her current purchase, I reminded her about her old debt so I could add it to the current bill.

Guess what?

This woman denied owing me! 😳

Na once my eye first blur. 😂

I couldn't believe what I was hearing.

She went on and on about how she doesn't like owing people, how she cuts her coat according to her cloth, and all the things people say when they are trying very hard to convince you—and perhaps themselves—that they don't owe you anything. 😂
I kept my cool, collected payment for her current purchase and allowed her to leave.

For the next two months, she continued coming to buy from me, and I never mentioned the old debt again.

Then came the beautiful day of reckoning. 😂

She came around once again and, as usual, ran short of cash. This time, she pleaded with me to give her the drugs and allow her to pay later.

Me? NO WAY!

I calmly told her that I don't do credit sales because it is against company policy.

She pleaded. I refused.

Then I told her: "I stopped giving people credit because some people deny their debts later and make me look like a fool—or even worse, like a fraud who is trying to collect money they don't deserve."
Guess what happened next?

This woman's voice suddenly became very soft. 😂
She looked at me and said, “Is it because of what happened the other day?”

Me: 👀
She continued, “Oya, I am very sorry. Please forgive me. I didn't have enough money that day and I would have paid you. I just had to lie to escape. Please, I am sorry.”

At least, finally, the truth came out. 🙌🏽😂

I told her, “Thank you for opening up. I had already forgiven you, but I have gone back strictly to my no-credit-sales policy. I am sorry, I can't change it.”
And that was it.
She left.

Lesson of the story?

Sometimes, a person doesn't need to be a bad person to teach you a very important lesson about boundaries.
I learnt mine that day: Never break a system that was created to protect you simply because you trust someone.

Policies may look harsh until the day someone gives you a reason to understand why they exist.
These days, if you don't have the money, no vex. 😂
Come back when you do. My company policy and I are now best friends. 🤝🏽😂

And please, let us all learn to say the truth even when it is uncomfortable. A temporary lie may help you escape an awkward situation today, but the truth has a way of coming back to collect its own interest. 😅

Ebbzibah_writes✍️
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ROOTED AND BLOOMING 🌱🌸Last Friday, I had such a wonderful time with the Anglican Girls’ Guild of Ikwerre Diocese at thei...
13/08/2026

ROOTED AND BLOOMING 🌱🌸

Last Friday, I had such a wonderful time with the Anglican Girls’ Guild of Ikwerre Diocese at their Diocesan Girls’ Guild Convention.

The theme was “ROOTED AND BLOOMING: Building Strong Spiritual Growth.”

Honestly, it felt like home.

Hearing the girls chant the AGG songs took me down memory lane and reminded me of my days with the Anglican Girls’ Guild in HTC, Obazu Mbieri Archdeaconry, and Owerri Diocese at large.

The memories came flooding back, and I couldn’t help but feel grateful for the privilege of being part of this gathering.

At the convention, and with the help of the Holy Spirit, we were able to establish the importance of being deeply rooted in Christ as a growing girl child.

A tree cannot bloom beautifully if its roots are weak. In the same way, a young girl cannot truly flourish in life if her spiritual foundation is not firmly established in Christ.

We talked about what it means to be rooted in Christ.
—knowing God, studying His Word, developing a consistent prayer life, making godly choices, surrounding ourselves with the right influences, and allowing the Holy Spirit to guide our lives.

We also explored what it takes to build strong spiritual growth and remain connected to Christ even as we navigate the pressures, distractions and challenges that come with growing up.

Being rooted is a prerequisite to blooming. 🌱
When the roots are deep, the tree can withstand the storms. When our foundation is Christ, we can stand firm, grow beautifully, and eventually produce fruits that glorify God.

My prayer for every girl who attended the convention is that she will not only hear the Word but will become deeply rooted in Christ, firmly established in faith, and beautifully blossoming into the woman God has created her to be.
Because to be rooted in Christ is to be prepared to bloom. 🌸

Ikwerre Diocesan AGG called, and yours truly answered! ❤️

What a beautiful time of fellowship, learning, laughter, and spiritual growth.

May God continue to bless the Anglican Girls’ Guild of Ikwerre Diocese and everyone working tirelessly to raise a generation of girls who are rooted in Christ and blooming for His glory. 🙏🏽🌱🌸

GIRLS GUILD! FUTURE CHRISTIAN MOTHERS, WORSHIP AND SERVICE.

03/08/2026

Born to win..

Born to lead...

Born to be great...

Born to rule ...

Born to fulfil destiny...

I am HEPHZIBAH and My God delights in me.

Happy new month beautiful people.

HEPHZIBAH!
03/08/2026

HEPHZIBAH!

31/07/2026

Money is what again.

The number of videos I've recorded in my head deserves an award. 😂 And the ones I've performed perfectly in front of my ...
31/07/2026

The number of videos I've recorded in my head deserves an award. 😂 And the ones I've performed perfectly in front of my mirror? Hollywood is missing out! 🤣

But the moment it's time to face my camera and hit "Record"... Uka agwụ! 😩 My confidence disappears like it owes somebody money.

Who else is in this WhatsApp group with me? 😂 Say hello! Let's make it a challenge and finally break this barrier together.

Someone please help. Doo nu!

31/07/2026
Recognizing the kindness of others and being thankful for the opportunities, experiences, and blessings we receive wethe...
31/07/2026

Recognizing the kindness of others and being thankful for the opportunities, experiences, and blessings we receive wether big or small. That is gratitude..

Practicing gratitude helps improve happiness, strengthens relationships, reduces stress, and encourages a positive outlook on life.

A grateful heart leads to greater contentment and emotional well-being. TGIF

ZIBAH!

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