Big-Sammo

15/05/2025

MOST WOMEN LEARN THESE LESSONS VERY LATE AFTER DESTROYING THEIR LIVES BY THEMSELVES 🦻✍️..PART 2

6. Being a Single Mother Is Not a Badge of Honor you thought it made you strong? It made life 10x harder. Now no high-value man wants to sign up for a ready-made burden.

7. Hypergamy Has a Deadline You wanted a richer man, a more exciting man. Now you realize the pool you thought was full is actually shallow.

8. Attention Is Not the Same as Respect You may still get likes and DMs. But no one respects you anymore. You’re entertainment, not investment.

9. Peace is Priceless, and You Threw It Away He wasn’t perfect, but he gave you peace. Now your world is chaos, drama, and anxiety. And you caused it.

10. The Internet Doesn’t Care About Your Regret. You followed strangers online, now you’re suffering offline. And guess what? They’ve moved on. You’re the one paying the price.

This is the reality of modern women who traded submission for rebellion, family for fantasy, and wisdom for TikTok advice.
Let this be a warning: not all that glitters is gold. Don’t forget to give me a follow🙏🙏🙏

15/05/2025

MOST WOMEN LEARN THESE LESSONS VERY LATE AFTER DESTROYING THEIR LIVES BY THEMSELVES 🦻✍️

They thought they were upgrading. They thought leaving their husbands for “freedom” and “independence” would give them peace, happiness, and self-discovery. Now they’re out here with tears behind their makeup, regrets hiding behind motivational captions, and loneliness haunting their nights.Why? Because they listened to bitter, man-hating feminists online who’ve never built a home, who despise structure, and who thrive on chaos. Here are 10 painful realities women only realize after destroying themselves, after it’s too late:🫣

1. No One Else Will Tolerate What Their Husband Did That man they dumped was patient, loving, and forgiving. But outside? No man is willing to deal with your entitled, combative behavior.

2. Feminism Doesn’t Pay Rent Online feminists will hype you up, but when you’re broke, lonely, and falling apart, they won’t offer a dime or a shoulder.

3. Séx̌uäl Market Value Drops with Age You’re not 24 anymore. You’re older, more baggage, less patience. The options shrink. The demands increase. And most men now want younger, feminine, peaceful women.

4. “Freedom” Is Just Loneliness in disguise You thought you were escaping a “boring marriage,” now you’re eating dinner alone, faking happiness on Instagram, and battling depression in silence.

5. Your Kids Suffer the Most you broke a family to chase trends. Now the children grow up emotionally fractured. No father. No stability. No structure.

Continued.........

14/11/2024

Listen up, Men! If you’re serious about getting rich, it’s time to stop playing games and face the brutal truth. Too many young Nigerian men are stuck in a cycle of poverty, and most of it is their own damn fault. Here’s why you might never be rich:

You’re Lazy as Hell
Let’s be real: sitting around all day, hoping for a miracle isn’t going to make you rich. You want the big bucks? You’ve got to hustle. The world doesn’t owe you anything, and no one’s going to hand you a fortune while you lounge on your bed scrolling through social media or watching TV. Get up, grind, and put in the work.

You’re Chasing Quick Money
Betting, scams, Yahoo Yahoo, Ponzi schemes—if that’s your plan to get rich, you’ve already failed. Sure, it might work for a lucky few, but most of you will end up broke, in jail, or worse. Real wealth comes from building something solid over time, not chasing the latest get-rich-quick scam. Those dreams of making it big overnight are a fantasy; reality requires consistent, hard work.

You Surround Yourself with Losers
Your boys are dragging you down. If your circle is full of broke, negative, lazy dudes who spend more time drinking and partying than hustling, guess what? You’ll be just like them. Birds of a feather flock together. If you want to be rich, you need to roll with people who are hungry for success and are grinding just as hard as you. You can’t expect to soar like an eagle if you’re hanging out with chickens........to be continued!

01/11/2024

*Urgent Distress Sales*
14 plots of dry land in a good environment.
Good for hotel, Estate, school campus, company etc.
Location: Eleran Igbe, Ibeju Lekki
Price: 30 Million
Title: Survey Blue Print + Family Documents

Note: The owner wants to sell everything outrightly.
THANKS

23/01/2024

It's 100% real and legit

16/12/2023

CHEATING IS A CHOICE, STAYING FAITHFUL IS ALSO A CHOICE...✍🏾

You will always meet ladies who are more attractive than your woman, you will meet ladies with more vibes, you will meet more informed women, and you will meet women who act as though they care more than your woman.

Also as a woman, you will meet men who are far richer than your man, you will meet men with more attractive bodies than your man, you will meet men with more vibes, you will meet men who act more caring than your spouse, you will meet men who talks better than your man;

I mean men who know how to say sweet words, and crack jokes. Etc.
Note. People must always be better than others in some areas of life.

And sometimes the people we see as being better than our spouses may not even be what we feel they are. Note. People show you what they want you to see and most of the time it is not their true self they reveal outside.

Learn to appreciate your partner
Love your partner without any reservations.
Whenever you feel unsatisfied regarding any aspect your partner is not doing well, be willing enough to open up to him/her.

Be satisfied, please.
It takes commitment, self-control and discipline to stay faithful and believe me it is achievable.

Love is never enough, self-discipline and relentless commitment is very essential when it comes to relationship/marriage.
Stay Faithful.

One Woman Is Enough!
One Man Is Enough!

12/12/2023

07/12/2023

SEXUAL SECRETS OF WOMEN THAT WANT TO SN**CH YOUR HUSBAND WHICH YOUR RELIGIOUS LIFE HAS NOT ALLOWED YOU TO DO.

Lots of women are losing their husbands to strange women out there and most women are yet to know what these men see in these women that make them get glued to them even though they know that these women are more expensive and most are full of s*xually transmitted diseases.

Hi wives, you need to know the s*xual secrets of these faceless women, sorry they are better than you in the bed, you need to step up to match up with them and beat them in their dirty games. Take your time to read this and get your husband back, these are their secrets:

1) THEY UNDERSTAND THE SEXUAL WEAKNESS OF MEN: They understand that one of the weaknesses of most men is s*x and they make good use of this. Wives are careless about this, instead of using s*x to create intimacy with their husbands; they use it to create animosity, anger, and bitterness between them and their husbands.

WHAT TO DO: Use s*x as a tool of love to create intimacy in your marriage, don’t use s*x to destroy your marriage, use it to build it.

2) THEY KISS LIKE MAD: In a report, most married men reported that their wives hate kissing; they said it is difficult to get a decent kiss from their wives. Strange women are experts in this area they use kissing as a weapon.

WHAT TO DO: Don’t turn kissing into wrestling in your marriage, stop being local. Kiss your husband even when he is not expecting it.

3) THEY USE KILLER UNDERWEAR: A man said he hates to see his wife in panties because according to him, she always looks like a wrestler. Lots of wives are like this, they are fond of wearing pants whose colors are different from their bras, looking like a rainbow, dirty pants, outdated underwear, a bra that looks like tarpaulin, wearing boxers that are meant for men, wearing knickers and tying of wrapper to bed. Strange women are creative in this regard they are fond of using neat, s*xy panties and bras. Cont'd...

21/11/2023

THE POTENTIAL KILLERS OF MEN

● Children school fees
● house rents
● Electricity bills
● Medical bills
● Generator fuel & repairs
● Car fuel and repairs
● Feeding of family
● Clothes for children
● Sallah or Christmas and New year bills
● Furniture & House maintenance
● In-laws wahala/demand
● His own aged parents
● His siblings most times
● His wife's demands
● Vigilante bills
● Erecting Building
● Religious demands
● Family social bills
● Electronics bills
● Recharge cards
● Extended family bills
● Community demands


On top of the above, he also faces the followings :

● Wife stress
● Boss stress at work
● Police stress on the way
● Area boys stress
● Kidnappers fear
● Friends stress
● Economy stress
● Fear of job loss
● Unemployment pains
● Armed Robbery stress
● Children misbehaviour
● Neighbours stress
● Bank loan payment stress
● Enemies stress
● Demonic attack stress
● S*x stress

..and so on! OMG!!

Are these reasons not enough for all African Wives to understand and give their husbands peace at home ?

Are men not trying ? How can an African man with these kind of loads be romantic like an American man ?

Women, please give your husbands peace at home.

Encourage your husbands.

Stop being sarcastic to them. Except if you like to join the widows club early!
Note:That club is not funny. Ask members. Help your husband. Contribute to the family.

Be a helper. Be submissive. Stop nagging.

Build your home and marriage. It is not greener outside there. Don't be deceived!!

Help your men to live longer like you.

16/11/2023

20-* Have joy for being old, be proud of yourself and who you are.

*21-* Have a house where everyone wants to go and not stay away. That just depends on you. Be a welcoming person always.

*22-* Use age and good memories as a bridge to the future and never a ladder to the past.

*23-* Remember: it's better to leave good memories than regrets.

*24-* Have fun. Smile and make others smile. A smile makes anyone's day better.

*Finally* ,
*25-* Don't leave what pleases you for tomorrow, it might be too late! Let your yes be yes always, be trustworthy always.

*BE HAPPY! DONT GET ANGRY OR USE ANGRY WORDS*

*HUGS!*
🤔 Above all be at peace with yourself your family, your children and all around you.

👉 Forward to another elderly person or group of them.

God bless us all.💕

16/11/2023

*25 RULES TO OBSERVE AT OLD AGE AND BE HAPPY**

*01-* Don't get involved in your children's lives too much unless they invite you.

*02-* Do not interfere with the education of grandchildren unless your children ask of your opinion.

*03-* Love or at least tolerate your son-in-law and daughter-in-law, it was your son or daughter’s choice.

*04-* Never take sides or give your opinion on their marriage unless issues are brought before you and be fair to both sides.

*05-* Don't make yourself an elderly complainer.

*06-* Don't be an elderly person feeling sorry for yourself.

*07-* Don't complain or insult anyone around you. Exhaust all avenues to correct wrongdoing in your home.

*08-* Have plans for the future. But don’t stress yourself too much, sleep well. Drink a lot of water during the day.

*09-* Don't talk about illnesses. By complaining always. Rest assured, nobody wants to know. But you will be fine at all cost.

*10-* No matter how much you earn, save a portion every month.

*11-* Don't procrastinate, the elderly don't deserve this. Attend to important family issues promptly and urgently.

*12-* Have a health plan or save money for medical expenses.

*13-* Save money for urgent needs it’s not worth bothering others with borrowing money.

*14-* Don't leave "problems" for your children. Like lands litigation or lawsuits or debts.

*15-* Don't stay too connected to the news of politics, *after all, you won't solve anything anyway*.

*16-* Watch TV for fun or education not to be stressed. Listen to music and songs to uplift your spirit.

*17-* If you like, have a pet to keep you occupied.

*18-* When you get up: walk, cook, sew, garden, but don't stand still and wait for death.

*19-* ​​Be as clean and smelling good old man/woman. Put on nice clothes if you’re appearing in public.

Cont'd........**""