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Oshimen, Lookman absent as Super Eagles Stunts Black Stars 2-1 in London By: Abdulmalik Abdulwahab The Nigeria men’s nat...
29/05/2025

Oshimen, Lookman absent as Super Eagles Stunts Black Stars 2-1 in London

By: Abdulmalik Abdulwahab

The Nigeria men’s national team—Super Eagles thrashes Black Stars of Ghana 2-1 during their debut in the Unity Cup semifinal on Wednesday night at the Gtech Community Stadium in London.

The missing of Galatasaray forward, Victor Osimhen and Atalanta winger, Ademola Lookman was not felt, as their backups stepped up to the ceremony. Meanwhile, the Super Eagles started brightly, putting early pressure on the Black Stars in the opening minutes of the game.

Nigeria's attacking intent paid off when Remo Stars’ Sodiq Ismaila delivered a cross from the right, finding Cyriel Dessers, the Rangers goalscorer and the SPFL Golden Boot winner, who controls the ball on his chest after which he slotted with his right foot from the middle of the area and puts the ball past stranded Ghana shot stopper, Benjamin Asare.

The striker controls the ball on his chest after a cross, hits it with his right foot from the middle of the area and puts the ball past goalkeeper Asare.

Five minutes later, Nigeria’s advantage was extended by Ghana’s Razak Simpson who accidentally turned the ball into his net, after a free kick from the right side by Samuel Chukwueze is deflected and lifted in to the box by Oluwasemilogo Ajayi gifting the Super Eagles a crucial double goal.

The Super Eagles and the Chippa United Goalkeeper, Stanley Nwabali made an expensive error in the 30th minute but redeemed himself with a crucial save that resulted in a corner kick. Eric Chelle’s men nearly scored a third goal in the 40th minute when Frank Onyeka’s long-range effort was deflected, only to be saved by goalkeeper Benjamin Asare.

Nigeria continued to cause all manner of problems in the Ghana defence and first the Black Stars goalkeeper was forced to produce a reflex save to prevent an own, before the Ghanaian defender cleared to safety on the goalline another defensive mix-up—they struggled to respond, meanwhile, failing to record a single shot on target in the opening 45 minutes.

The Malian-Super Eagles coach, Eric Chelle brought on Kano Pillars captain, Ahmed Musa and Kelechi Iheanacho for Samuel Chukwueze and Papa Daniel in the 61st minute.

The Black Stars of Ghana pulled one back in the 71st minute through a first-time strike from Ghanaian substitute, Brandon Asante-Thomas, who receives a low cross from the left side of the box, finishes with his left foot and put the ball past goalkeeper Stanley Nwabali.

Five minutes later, Jordan Ayew plays the pivot inside the box and passes to Abu Francis in depth, number 27 shoots low and goalkeeper Nwabali makes a good save before the end of the match. Nigeria's goalkeeper secures the victory for the visiting team, making the super eagles of Nigeria

LAWSAN-UDUS Organized Online Webinar for UDUS Law Students Shehu Uthman reports The Law Students Association of Nigeria(...
29/05/2025

LAWSAN-UDUS Organized Online Webinar for UDUS Law Students

Shehu Uthman reports

The Law Students Association of Nigeria(LAWSAN), Usmanu Danfodiyo University Sokoto (UDUS) chapter, organized an online webinar for UDUS law students.

The webinar, was held by 8:30pm on Tuesday, 27th via Google Meet. It was facilitated by UDUS Alumnus, Sani Sa'ad Bunza Esq, who gave out educational insight on the topic given 'The life of law students after graduation.'

In an interview with the LAWSAN-UDUS President, Yusuf Moriki, a 500L law student, felt excited about the program and observed the concluded webinar as an eye-opening for law students.

His words: "The webinar was quite insightful! The speaker emphasized the importance of being mentally and academically prepared. Law school is intense, so it's important to build strong reading habits, understand the structure of the Nigerian Law School, and start early with revision of core subjects."

He added, “I learnt that after graduation, the transition can be challenging. He advised us to remain focused, stay disciplined, and build a strong support system. He also encouraged networking with practicing lawyers and taking internships seriously to gain practical exposure."

Also, speaking with Murtala Idris, a 200L law student, took an invaluable knowledge from the webinar.

“In fact, the webinar is a great insight. The Speaker advised both the law students and lawyers to respect one another and talk to one another in the best manner, in order to give room for networking as much as possible."

“All law students ought to join law firms, whether they will be paid or not, as this will help a lot especially for those that want to practice."

Speaking further with Sumaiya Yusuf, a 300L law student, shared an insightful knowledge she gained from the concluded webinar. The webinar exposed her on how to scale through from academic stress with good Cumulative Grade Point Average (CGPA).

“ I learnt that having a good relationship with the Creator, Allah, relying on Him in every step to be taken in academic pursuit and life as a whole, is part of the game to be played, to become quite successful."

"I further got to understand that, it's quite all right to read like there is no tomorrow at least in the interest of graduating with a good class of degree during undergraduate academic pursuit, to generate good CGPA, as it matters a lot in the labour market."

Digest Editor, Alumnus, Reporters Selected for Empower Women in Media FellowshipShamsudeen Abubakar reports,The Centre f...
27/05/2025

Digest Editor, Alumnus, Reporters Selected for Empower Women in Media Fellowship

Shamsudeen Abubakar reports,

The Centre for Journalists Innovation and Development (CJID) has shortlisted Aisha Sulieman, Principal Editor of The News Digest Press, Digest Alumni, and three other Digest reporters for the 2025 Empower Women in Media Cohort (EWMC). The eight-weeks intensive training programme aims to empower 20 female Nigerian University Campus journalists.

Following the selection, the intermediate cohort aimed at empowering 20 women in Media training, while the advanced cohort will be a four-week intensive journalism training programme on Open Source Intelligence (OSINT).

The selected participants will benefit from story grants, hands-on learning and experience in investigative reporting, as well as mentorship from leading female journalists.

In an interview with The NEWS DIGEST PRESS, Aisha Sulaiman, a 400-level Linguistics student and News Digest Principal Editor, expressed her excitement over the selection, saying;

“I'm absolutely thrilled and incredibly honored to be selected for the CJID Empower Women in Media cohort. It's truly a moment of immense pride and gratitude for me. This recognition means a great deal,” she expressed. “It's a powerful validation of my commitment to journalism and the stories I aim to tell. It signals that my voice and perspective are valued.

Aisha added, “I'm eager to learn from seasoned professionals, connect with inspiring women journalists, and hone my skills.”

She promised to be very committed to the fellowship and advised fellow women in Journalism;

“Our voices matter most in journalism and that we should not feel inferior because of the big stories men are writing out there.” She said, adding that they ‘Women’ can do better than the men.

Other Selected Participants Share Their Thoughts

Raheem Hanifa, a final year student of the Educational Foundations Department, expressed her feelings toward the selection.

“I feel so happy,” she said joyfully, adding that she was motivated because it is strictly for women.” Her stories on sanitary pads and challenges women face in Journalism, published in The Nation, stood out for her selection.

She further added that she faced challenges in grammar and writing recommendation letters, but got a story idea from the NACJ President that helped her pitch.

Another participant selected is Rasheedat Abidiesin, a 100-level student of the Law department.

She expressed her enthusiasm, hoping to gain insight into great journalism and enhance her career. “I'm really glad about the selection and I must confess, it came to me as a surprise.” she exclaimed, hoping to utilize the platform in enhancing her journalism career.

“I will use the knowledge gained from the training in telling evidence and accountability based, and impactful stories that matter.” she emphasized.

Speaking with Meikudi Ashia, an Alumnus of UDUS, and the one time Deputy Editor-in-Chief of the News Digest Press told the News Digest that she didn't expect to be selected but would apply for opportunities beyond her reach.

“I applied with my belief and hope but didn't lay my mind on it. I'd even forgotten about it until I was messaged.”

She finally concluded by advising other aspiring women in journalism. “This cohort is one way forward to female encounters in journalism.

“With my little experience in the field of journalism, there's a wild space of gender imbalance in the field, but this kind of exploration will serve to bridge the gap and provide more room for gender inclusion.” she added.

The other two shortlisted candidates from UDUS are Abdulrasheed Aishah and Maryam Umar Ayomide.

History of Islam: The Prophet's Upringing—Part 1By: Abdulmalik Abdulwahab In the last column, l unveiled how the prophet...
26/05/2025

History of Islam: The Prophet's Upringing—Part 1

By: Abdulmalik Abdulwahab

In the last column, l unveiled how the prophet Muhammad (SAW) was born. Today, I will feed you how he was upbringing, immediately after his birth, the freed slave-girl of Abu Lahab bin AbdulMuttalib, named Thuwaibah suckled him for seven days. She also suckled Hamzah,
(uncle of the Prophet) and Masruh bin Thuwaibah (her son)—they were regarded as his foster brothers.

According to the custom of the Arab nobles, they would entrust their babies to bedouin women, so that they would become healthy and strong in the open and free climate of the desert—it would help develop eloquent speech because the language of the bedouin was more pure, graceful and eloquent than those living in urban areas.

On the eighth day, the Prophet was entrusted to a lady, Halimah of the Banu Sa'd to suckle, nurture and bring him up. She would come to Makkah twice in a year to show him to his mother and grandfather. Halimah suckled him for two years and he remained with her for four years altogether.

According to other narrations, he remained with Banu Sa'd for five years. He was five years of age and he was out grazing goats along with his foster brothers and sisters and other boys of the same age when the event of the opening up of his chest occurred.

According to the narration of Seerat ibn Hisham, Halimah bint Abu Dhuaib related the event in the following statement, " One day, both of my children came fearfully to me and said that two cleanly dressed persons seized our Quraishi brother and split open his chest. I went to the spot along with my husband—Harith bin Abdul-Uzza, and saw that he was sitting there with his face turned pale—found no trace of any injury or spot of blood Upon questioning, he stated that two cleanly dressed persons came to him, laid him down with his face up, took out his heart, and extracted something from it."

Halimah thought that he was affected by a jinn or something, so she took him to Makkah without loss of time and related the whole event to his mother. His mother, instead of being afraid, spoke with calm and confidence that her son would achieve a very distinctive place in the world and would surely remain safe from all calamities. She said that when he was in her womb, she heard many things from the angels and noticed many uncommon happenings.

Imam Muslim reports from Anas bin Malik (RA) that one day when the prophet was playing with the boys of Makkah, Angel Jibril (Gabriel) came to him, split his chest, took out a black drop from it, and said, " It was the portion of Satan," after which he washed his heart in a tray of gold with Zamzam water and then put it in its place.

His mother took him to his relatives in Al-Madinah when he was six. When returning from the journey after a month, she passed away at Abwa. AbdulMuttalib took upon himself the responsibility of looking after the boy. He brought him up for two years under his care and guardianship; when he was eight, AbdulMuttalib died. He attended his funeral precision with tearful eyes.

Before AbdulMuttalib's death, he had entrusted him to his son Abu Talib, stressing the utmost care and protection for him. Abdul-Muttalib was wise enough to give him to the care of Abu Talib despite having several other sons because he and Abdullah were born of the same mother. The assessment of Abdul-Muttalib came true, and the prophet became Abu Talib's favorite.

Halimah of the Banu Sa'd who sucked the Prophet, was called Sa'diyyah. The Sa'diyyah here is not an Islamic name as it is the name of a clan, so anyone named Halimah is not Sa'diyyah as they do not belong to the tribe of Sa'd.

The Burden of Financial Struggles in NigeriaBy Fathiu  jimohIn recent times, one of the major problems facing Nigeria is...
25/05/2025

The Burden of Financial Struggles in Nigeria

By Fathiu jimoh

In recent times, one of the major problems facing Nigeria is financial struggle, caused by economic instability. Financial hardship has caused serious damage in the lives of many Nigerians. This has further affected many citizens. As it stands, this burden doesn't stop anytime soon, as it has continue to worsen on a daily basis.

According to a report published by the World Health Organization (WHO) in 2018, the major issue in Nigeria is indeed financial distress. Many people are working hard, yet their efforts seem fruitless, as they earn little or nothing. The main cause, according to research, is the state of the economy.

In Nigeria today, every one is working and struggling—but the money earned after all the struggling has lost its value. We're now in a situation where ₦1,000 feels like ₦50. Sad. This is a true indication that the Nigeria's economic situation has collapsed, and everything has begun to fall apart. These have affected many students —where some have dropped out, because they cannot afford to continue.

Financial struggle in Nigeria has deeply affected the lives and dignity of many, especially students. Many young people, despite their intelligence and qualifications, are being crushed by the weight of poverty.

Also, many graduates from universities and other institutions also face financial difficulties. Despite completing their education, they find themselves jobless, with no opportunities to work or earn a living. The result is a growing sense of frustration among the youth.

Sadly, this has consequences. “An idle man is the devil's workshop,” they say, some youths are now venturinf to dangerous paths—kidnapping, theft, armed robbery, and other crimes. They often say, “We have no choice. We must survive and provide for ourselves and our families—even if it means doing the wrong thing.”

Hardship Doesn't Last Forever

During a Friday sermon, Sheikh Imam Basiru addressed this growing concern. He urged the youth not to lose hope or resort to what Allah (S.W.T.) has forbidden. He reminded them that financial hardship is a test, and it should not lead anyone to abandon their morals or faith.

Struggles do not last forever,he said. Your dignity and your deen (religion) are far more important. Be patient, stay prayerful, and trust in Allah's plan.

News Digest Press Trains Members on Story Pitch WritingShamsudeen Abubakar reportsThe News Digest Press outlet at Usmanu...
24/05/2025

News Digest Press Trains Members on Story Pitch Writing

Shamsudeen Abubakar reports

The News Digest Press outlet at Usmanu Danfodiyo University, Sokoto, on Thursday, 23rd May, 2025, trained its members on how to write a good story pitch in order to perfect their writing skills for opportunities.

The training, held virtually via Google meet and facilitated by the Editor-in-Chief of the pressboard, Habeeb Olokooba, exposed the members on the basic elements and features of a good pitch sampling.

In his explanation, he stated that, "a pitch is a concise and persuasive proposal where a journalist presents a story idea to an editor, explaining what the story is about, why it matters, and why they are the right person to write it."

Speaking on elements of a good Pitch sampling, he emphasised that a pitch has six features includes; tentative title/ proposed headline, general background, story focus, source Mappings, time table and budgets.

He further analyze that each media outlet has their own form of pitch. The News digest press has their own different form of pitch draft.

“The style of a pitch depends on the Media house you are pitching to. The News Digest Press operates its unique style with the maximum of 350-word count. Though some media houses also have their word count, some don't,” he explained.

He further emphasized that the reason why writers don't get story idea is because they don't see themselves as journalist.

“The whole essence of journalism on campus is not to become a journalist. While some are learning the skill to become better writers, others learn to perfect their communications skills—and for some, to become practical journalists. In Digest we do things differently, you will never regret coming to us. Our members should keep learning.”

Participants React

Speaking after the session, Habeeb Temako, one of the members of the pressboard, said the training was fantastic and he had learned a lot.

“I have learned a hands-on experience on how to source story ideas and pitch a story. I can pitch the idea of a story on my own in practice,” he said, rating the training 9/10.

Also, another participant, Raheem Hanifa, expressed her enthusiasm. “The training is ‘wow!’ Calling it ‘Interesting’ is an understatement to qualify what I received that night.

“I learnt that a story pitch is a concise and summary of the work one wants to write, which contains the proposed headline, general background, story focus, data, source mapping, timetable and budget.” she shared.

She further hoped that the Editor-in-Chief would trained members who were absent, as “the training is not one that should be miss by anyone.

Abdulrahim Ibrahim, another participant said, “The training was indeed insightful. I was expose to something beyond the normal report I knew, as it involves budgeting and more.” He exclaimed that he previously thought a pitch was just another way of writing a story, but he had been enlighted.

However, Mustapha Taofeekat expressed her reason for joining the training. “Eachtime they talked about pitch, I used to feel like I should participate, but then, I knew nothing about it,” she explained, with determination to now pitch her ideas.

“I feel like I would learn one or two things, as I don't know much about writing a pitch.” She emphasized that her expectations for the training were really met.

Consult Your Editors — They are there to Protect you

Speaking further, the moderator of the training, Muheeb Mashood, advised participants on consistency. “A good writer is a good reader,” he said.

Adding that writers should always consult their editors before pitching a story or writing about an idea on campus, as editors are there to guide and protect them.

Story Pitching Skill is Necessary for Journalist

When asked about the reasons behind the training, the facilitator, Habeeb Olokooba, Editor-in-Chief of the News Digest Press UDUS, explained, “It has been noticed that while so many of our reporters have story ideas that could fetch them money, they don't know how to make it a proposal and get money off it. Hence, a training session on how to write a pitch becomes inevitable.”

He stressed that knowledge is only useful when others can benefit from it. “Yesterday, we were the hope of Digest. Today, others are.

“We have to let our newbies know how it is being done so they can someday pass down the knowledge to those coming after them,” he remarked.

Moreso, he highlighted the challenges writers face — from the inability to bring out fresh angles from an old story to the struggle of telling funders the point of their intervention. “We overcome this by learning to give editors or funder what they truly look to publish. Or what suits their newsroom.”

He finally pointed out that pitching skills help a journalist get funds to do quality stories. “It is no longer a doubt that quality stories costs money, and it is only through quality stories that a journalist can create a footprint in the media landscape.

“Having pitching skill will give a journalist everything: The network, the money and even award. Through it, a journalist can truly do journalism differently,” he concluded.

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Towards Cultural Unity: How Ayò Olópón unites students with different cultural backgrounds inside Udus Main Library By O...
23/05/2025

Towards Cultural Unity: How Ayò Olópón unites students with different cultural backgrounds inside Udus Main Library

By Oyelowo Khalid

Somewhere between the confused atmosphere of the Usmanu Danfodiyo University, Sokoto (UDUS) library, reading and researching no longer defines what goes on within the walls. A cultural revival with a unifying twist. Nestled between shelves of books and study desks resides the newly introduced traditional game that is breaking barriers and building bonds: Ayò Olópón, an indigenous Yoruba board game.

Introduced recently within the library premises, Ayò Olópón has become more than just a pastime — it is a powerful tool for cultural connection. The initiative, pioneered by the University Librarian, Mrs. Kudirat, is already making a significant impact on the student community. In a school environment marked by Nigeria’s rich but often divided ethnic and cultural backgrounds, the game is helping to bridge gaps among students in a uniquely informal and enjoyable way.

Speaking on the motivation behind the idea, Mrs. Kudirat shared: “Ayò games can be really beneficial in a university environment. They help develop strategic thinking, improve mathematical skills, foster cultural heritage, and provide a fun way to socialize and relax.” She furthered that, beyond the academic value, the game was introduced as a deliberate effort to promote unity among students of diverse origins.

The library has always been a center for learning, but with the addition of Ayò Olópón, it is also becoming a hub for social interaction and cultural exchange. Students from various departments and backgrounds now have an informal yet intellectually stimulating avenue to engage with each other.

Reaction From Danfodites

Imma Muktar, a 200-level Law student, described the initiative as a personal highlight of his semester. “Ayò is my favorite game. I was so happy when I heard it had been introduced here. It has made my holiday on campus really enjoyable,” he said with a wide grin.

Similarly, Musa Ibrahim, a 200-level Islamic Studies student, revealed how the game brought him closer to his Yoruba friend. “I didn’t know much about the game before, but my friend always invited me to play. Now I love it. It has created a stronger bond between us,” he shared.

Students who typically keep to themselves have also found a reason to open up. Kazeem Habeebah, a 400-level Library and Information Science student, said the game gave her a new sense of belonging. “I usually stay indoors and avoid social gatherings, but Ayò Olópón changed that. I’ve made new friends and connected with people from other cultural backgrounds. It’s made this break special for me.”

Beyond entertainment, Mrs. Kudirat emphasized that the library’s role includes fostering holistic student development. “I encourage students to judiciously utilize all the library’s facilities and resources not just for academic growth, but also for personal and cultural development,” she advised.

The reintroduction of Ayò Olópón is not merely a nostalgic nod to tradition; it’s a progressive step toward inclusive student engagement. As students gather daily to compete, learn, and laugh together, the simple game is achieving what countless seminars and workshops strive for — genuine human connection across cultural lines.

In an era where university campuses often reflect broader societal tensions, UDUS is showing that unity doesn’t always require grand gestures. Sometimes, it starts with something as simple as a wooden board, a handful of seeds, and a shared love for an age-old game.

No One Heard My Cries: Aisha's Nighttime Struggle with a Ruthless RobberBy Shamsudeen AbubakarAisha Qasim Maijega, a det...
22/05/2025

No One Heard My Cries: Aisha's Nighttime Struggle with a Ruthless Robber

By Shamsudeen Abubakar

Aisha Qasim Maijega, a determined 300-level Law student, had a packed Friday. Between washing, cleaning, cooking, and styling hair, she was preparing to pack out of campus. Basking in the euphoria of ‘I’m going home’, her goal was to secure a substantial sum of money for transport home for herself and her siblings, along with funds for errands the following day. After praying Isha, she set out alone for GT Bank, hoping to withdraw half of the amount she would be needing.

“I went out alone, following the FBI hostel path,” Aisha recounted. “There were students heading to night class and some returning. When I got to GT Bank, the ATM wasn't dispensing. Then the wind picked up, and soon it started to rain. I ran back along the path so I wouldn't get too drenched.”

As she neared the hostel gate, Aisha switched on her phone's flashlight to avoid stepping on a toad or tripping. “I followed the FBI hostel path again, and when I reached the first lamp post, I switched off my light and tucked the phone under my hijab,” she recalled.

Then Tragedy Strike

“All of a sudden, I got attacked from behind,” she said, her voice shaking. “I felt an adrenaline rush — my only instinct was to resist. I had my phone in my right hand, and in my left, I held my wallet, which contained my debit cards, school ID, and keys.”

The assailant pounded her, pushing her to the ground and kicking her hard in the stomach.

“This guy's going to kill me over a phone,” she thought, frozen in terror.

Her hijab was disheveled in the struggle, and her long, loose sleeves made it harder to defend herself. She couldn't drop the wallet — losing it would mean losing everything. Eventually, the attacker snatched the phone from her grip and bolted, leaving her shaken, battered, and traumatized.

The stolen phone— a white/silver Samsung Galaxy A05 with a distinctive green case — held irreplaceable memories. “The wallpaper was a picture of me and my sibling on a red background,” she said, her voice cracking. “It wasn't just a phone — it was personal.”

She never saw his face clearly, but described him as slim, dark-skinned, of average male height. He wore a short-sleeve T-shirt, dark-wash jeans, a hat, and what sounded like Crocs.

When she finally managed to get up,a few students were still lingering nearby. “Did no one hear me? Were my screams not loud enough? What just happened? Was that an assault? Did that really happen to me?” She thought, numb with disbelief.

Aisha sustained multiple injuries: bruises and redness on her right arm, cut skin on her fingers, soreness all over her body, a twisted and swollen right ankle, and a bruised heel on her left foot.

Back in her room, she broke down in tears before her roommates. “They gave me water to clean up from the dirt,” she explained. But the pain made walking difficult, and she was unable to report the incident herself.

UDUS Deputy CSO Vows Swift Action

In an exclusive interview with the News Digest Press, Captain Abdullahi Muhammad, the Deputy Chief Security Officer (CSO) of Usmanu Danfodiyo University Sokoto (UDUS), has promised a thorough investigation into the reported attack on Aisha.

“We do three shifts everyday —morning, afternoon and night,” he explained, “But no one has brought this issue to me. I will investigate and find out. We have to ascertain what actually happened first before taking due measures.

According to Captain Abdullahi, security officers are expected to provide situation reports daily, yet no such incident was officially documented on the day in question. “Our securities used to bring situation reports to us everyday, but no case of attack was reported that day.” He stated.

However, upon hearing from the News Digest Press that Aisha's roommates had already reported the matter to the security personnel, the Deputy CSO appeared taken aback. “Even if our security goes out for patrol, there's always one or two people at the office. All of them can't leave the place, “ he said with surprise.

He reassured the public of the seriousness of the matter, emphasizing that it will not be ignored. “I will investigate and find out. We will not throw this matter away. It's a serious issue that needs quick intervention. I will get back to you.” He concluded.

Responsible Men are not Lovebirds, They Don't Date Hausa GirlsBy Shamsudeen Abubakar At times truth is like a poison to ...
22/05/2025

Responsible Men are not Lovebirds, They Don't Date Hausa Girls

By Shamsudeen Abubakar

At times truth is like a poison to the receiver, but one has to say it even if you are about to be crucified. Many female lovers, especially Hausa girls, want unquestionable attention from their male lovebird—expecting them to be showing alluring care. They want a male that will be calling them every second, minute, and hour, awaiting questions like, Hello, love. How are you doing? What did you eat this morning? Hope you woke up well, or any sort of enticing love questions.

So, some Hausa girls behave like "Shagwaba" (behaving childishly) because they believe that love isn't more than full attention and exchanging of love messages with their lovers. But a real man has ambition and focus. It's very ridiculous for a man to be calling a female every single minute—any man doing such is behaving childishly. Thus, responsible men will call you to ask for your well-being, not frequently like an idle person, because they are always busy with their work or well engaged in what we call dignity of labor. It is hard for them to have half a day for fun and less frequently call a female.

Therefore, a Hausa girl rarely has high expectations in a relationship because she wants a man who spends the whole day with her. Thus, Hausa girls rarely have busy days, because you will be seeing unwarranted calls from them, staying on the call for hours, and expecting you to speak different love languages—within one hour in a day, 20 calls are meager in the eyes of a Hausa girl.

Only a guy with no future will neglect his family and friends' messages and receive his lover's call all in the sake of love. Most responsible people focus more on building their future—a woman who wants good for you will not prioritize her happiness over your future.

Let's have a glimpse at Jabir’s story. During lecture hours, when Dr. Kwashabawa was set to hold a C.A. test, Jabir spent relevant hours on calls, but he didn't hear the relevant information because he failed to concentrate. Why miss the test? It is because Halima has taken over his life, making him irresponsible and not knowing why he's in school. At night, he spends 5 hours doing Morocco, returns to his hostel in the late hour, and sometimes uses three hours on calls! His girlfriend usually wakes him for Fajr and has a 30-minute call after exchanging messages—and staying with each other from morning till evening, having 4-5 hours of conversations.

Before you loudmouth, I expect you to think and observe how many young ladies have broken up and sold their relationships for responsible men. I deemed Hausa girls, but not all—some understand the value of relationships and support their partners’ growth, and I am not painting everyone with the same brush.

To all the men out there who chose to spend hours with their Hausa girlfriends on the phone, are you ready to sacrifice your future for a relationship that might not last? Or will you prioritize responsibility and dignity and attract a partner who values the same? The ball is in your court; you need to play it wisely.

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