04/08/2025
♦️If you are single lady avoid this 5 mistakes before u get to your 30s♦️
1,♦️ spending and building years on material things ♦️
Looking pretty is great but don't spend your entire 20s curating selfies and ignoring skills
The world doesn't owe you soft life, you build it, so learn a skill and build something, you can start small even your kitchen bussiness can become a brand
2,♦️ Dating men you have to manage like broken appliances♦️
At 25 you shouldn't be in a relationship with a guy that is inconsistent or the one that has ghosted you 4 times to add to the pain, he is now emotionally unavailable
Annoyingly, you're still saying "maybe he will charge, Hmmm.. you are not the Holy spirit. Stop trying to fix grown men if he is not ready, respect your self and leave before 30 meet you confused and drain
3, ♦️Thinking that marriage will fix you♦️
Big madam, marriage is not a rescue mission if you're lazy, entitled, insecure or directionless now wedding bells won't change that
Take a look at your self and fix your mindset
Marriage should meet you whole not hoping for repair
4,♦️stop confusing exposure with maturity ♦️
Yes you have travelled, you wear London and other designers, your wig even cos more than a truck load of cement
But that doesn't mean you have sense. Wisdom isn't about passport stamps and ability to speak English, it about decisions
Nne grow emotionally and mentally so that you will know how to manage conflict
5,♦️ putting party's first, instead of putting God first ♦️
You love partying to the point that you will spend days and months planning and even Peper online watchers with pictures
But you don't know how to pray, not do you have the fruit of the spirit evident in your life
You quote "grace" but ignore discipline and now you are asking why is life hard
Big madam, you need God more in your 2os than ever
He is not just for Sundays, he is for your decision, your circle and sanity
You should start praying about your future husband at your early stage, I started mine at my 15 years old u don't want until u get to your 30s then your prayers becomes
"any hand holding my husband catch fire
Why not even quench the hand from holding him in the first place if you started early in praying for him
Now u know what u should avoid as a single girl put it to practice and see your self flourish in all dimensions 😍
Greetings from me and my baby sis
Still ur lady Chidimma blessing
