17/08/2026
Urhobo married women are classified as sacred and so honoured that is why there are setting things they cannot do when married, if they do some of those things, that is called a taboo when they does them. If they do any of them they will face some setting repercussions. The oga kpatakpata of them all is advltery. That can easily f!n!sh your life and also put the lives of your husbands and children at r!sk.
If you are a man, no matter what, don't let your John Thomas ever stand up for a married woman or be rest assure that as it stands for another man's wife to put her family at r!sk, another man's own will do same for your wife or girl child at long run. That is the law of Karma.
I'm giving this advice today because the rate at which some of our legally married women are misbehaving with other men these days is becoming too alarming, forgetting that there is something called (Erivwin), which if it starts pvnishing them for it, they might not be able to stand it. Sometimes their innocent children mostly suffers it before it finally hits the woman. In most cases, the Erivwin deos not easily get to the husband of such advlterous woman except the husband suspects or is aware of his wife's misbehaviour but chose to accept it or keep quite over it when he is still doing nakademous things with the woman or eating her food.
Why this topic this morning:
Just from between the month of July and this August, 3 known cases of confessed advltɛrous women hit my table and i knows two(2) of those women personally out of the 3.
A woman that i know did it in my community and recently confessed after Erivwin has kpaid one of her two children and the 2nd one was at the verge to joining his ancestors again which will end her being childless and that pushed her to confess.
Another woman again that i know, our Urhobo married woman that got married to an Ijaw man did same thing too with the excuse that the husband was frvstrating her, and recently, as she was delivering her baby at the favour room, Erivwin struck her and she confessed that 3 different men slept with her because she was hvngry and the man wasn't doing enough to support her. Even as i speak to you now, she is still down. Even the man now no longer want to trust the baby that she gave birth to because he doubts if that innocent child is actually his.
This advlterous lifestyle by some of our married women is becoming too worrisome. If you are no longer comfortable with your husband, feel free and go drop his 120 for your diary and let his family pray for you then you go and live your w@yward lifestyles than putting the lives of innocent people at r!sk since you did not value yours.
Women, please say NO to advltɛry, it is not good for a man not to talk of a woman that the laws of our lands forbids from doing so. A word they say; is enough for the wise.
I wish everyone a blessed week ahead.
~ Christy Nyerhovwo Happy Igho(Urhobo language tutor online).
