02/06/2026
Marriage doesn't need sympathy!
As someone that is aspiring to get married, don't make the mistake of getting married out of sympathy for your partner. Dating someone does not necessarily mean you must get married to the person especially when there's a behavioral quality that you don't like.
Sometimes, the person you love might not love you the same way, we meet people for different reasons in life. Find that partner that aligns with you . A lot of young people have made that mistake and are regretting it today.
Listen, what marriage throws at you,if your foundation is not strong, that marriage can't survive. Marriage is beyond love, looks and knacking. You have to be rooted spiritually, physically, financially, mentally and otherwise for your marriage to last or succeed . Some people don't take corrections and it is affecting their relationship and marriage. So long as you have tried your best for the relationship to work out but it's not working out,the best you can do is work out of the relationship because if you marry because you feel you have invested so much, you have put in effort and you have wasted the person's time and you go ahead to marry the person and the character you are running away from is still there,then whatsoever you see in that marriage you bear it with your full chest.
Don't marry who you feel you are doing a favor by marrying them or someone who you feel you are not compatible with.
Learn to build your relationship before you take the marriage pill because in the end, the person you tolerate in a relationship amplifies your tolerance level 4 times over when you eventually decide to take the marriage step.
Mary Jane 🖋️❤️
