13/01/2025
Most of his statements here, about 70%, were factual and valid points, ๐ฏ fact! But he struggled to articulate them clearly. I'll highlight the points I agree and disagree with.
Most people who disagree with me might think he's looking for a slave, not a wife, but that's a misconception. Only deep thinkers will understand his perspective.
Even women themselves acknowledge that they can be unpredictable and they don't always know their own capabilities. I mean women donโt know what theyโre capable of doing until it happens to them, reason why you hear them say Iโm sorry I donโt know what came over me!
Reason when you catch your partner cheating, they often apologize, saying โsorry.' And I'm not implying that anyone should be perfect after all, nobody is perfect.
Here are my key points on the areas I disagree with him.
I disagree with the statement that men don't love their wives, perhaps thatโs his own fatherโs personal choice maybe he doesnโt love his wife but not to generalise it to all men. However, I'd like to correct this notion:
Men are indeed capable of loving women. Moreover, men's infidelity is often driven by factors other than emotional attachment, whereas women's infidelity is often emotionally motivated.
This is why it's generally advised against rekindling a relationship with an ex who cheated.
I want to emphasize that my statement isn't about supporting men at the expense of women. Rather, it's about acknowledging the fundamental differences between the s*xes, as created by God. Men and women have distinct natures: men are inherently polygamous, while women have a natural inclination towards financial security.
I don't blame women for prioritizing financial stability, it's an integral part of their nature. Similarly, men's polygamous tendencies are innate. It's essential to recognize and accept these differences rather than judging one another.
Here are my key points on the areas I agree with him.
1. Never marry a woman who is more educated or experienced than you, especially if you're not financially secure, or you'll regret it.
2. Women are incapable of truly loving a man, no matter what they say.
3. Women prioritize their children above all else, meaning women are only capable of showing their biological children or biological brothers true love nothing else.
4. Never go back to an ex-girlfriend, no matter what she says, just move on.
5. Avoid marrying a woman who is wealthier than you, as it will lead to regret. Don't be fooled by social media or celebrity couples who appear peaceful, men in such situations often suffer in silence.
The reality of marriage is what happens behind closed doors, not what's portrayed publicly.
Consider this and asked yourself this question, why do about 60% of celebrity marriages end in divorce?
Those who disagree with me likely don't understand women's mindset, or should I say how women thinks and that's okay. You'll understand eventually.
And this doesn't imply that men with these expectations are only interested in controlling or dominating women i mean seeking to control or enslave women. Thatโs no!
Have you noticed that when a woman attends an event without her husband, but her husband's friend is present, he'll often treat her with respect and care. He'll treat her with the utmost respect, ensuring she's well taken care of in his friend's absence. This means arranging for someone to attend to her needs, making sure she has food and drink, protecting her from any hassle, and prioritizing her comfort.
However, when the roles are reversed, and a woman tries to show similar kindness to her friend's husband, she's often met with anger and hostility from other women asking her not to do that again in her absence.
This double standard reveals that women can't be trusted. Themselves knows that their following gender canโt be trusted.
You are free to disagree with me but share your thoughts maybe I met lean something new from you.
