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22/07/2025

THE HARSH REALITY FOR SINGLE WOMEN AGED 30 AND ABOVE

© Edward C God'stime

In today’s society, being a single lady in your 30s or 40s often comes with silent battles and societal expectations — especially when it comes to Marriage.

Sadly, at that age bracket, beauty alone is no longer enough. A woman must now show her workings: her value, her resourcefulness, her achievements — just to be considered. And even then, it doesn't guarantee much.

Let’s be clear — the Marriage market doesn’t weigh men and women on the same scale. What’s considered attractive in a man at 35+ (stability, maturity, wealth) is unfortunately not viewed the same in a woman.

To make matters worse, there's a long list of misconceptions and harsh assumptions people make about single women over 30:

“She must have a terrible character.”

“She’s too picky.”

“She probably destroyed her wōmb with reckless living.”

“She wasted her youth on unserious Relationships and now wants to reap where she didn’t sow.”

These narratives are not only cruel — they’re also damaging.

Yes, being single at 30 or 40 is not a death sentence, but it does reduce your chances. Society becomes less forgiving. Men become more hesitant. And biology doesn't help either.

Medical research shows that a woman’s age affects her fertility and egg quality, and studies also indicate that the mother’s genetics significantly influence the mental development of the child. These realities lead many men — even older ones — to prefer younger women for Marriage.

So what happens?

Desperation creeps in.

Some men, knowing how much Marriage now means to you, exploit your vulnerability. They sell dreams, waste your time, and drain your emotions — with zero intention of committing. You become a victim of repeated heartbreaks, not because you're not good enough, but because the game has changed, and you didn’t see it early.

So as you chase that degree, build that career, and follow your passion, don’t forget to plan for Marriage too.

Get Married early — not just because society says so — but because time has a voice, and it doesn't always wait.

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22/07/2025

THE DANGERS OF ONLINE ROMANCE: What They Don't Show You

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In a world where likes equal love and comment sections feel like cozy cafés, many young people are falling headfirst into the illusion of online romance. But beneath the filters, romantic captions, and reels, lies a dangerous mirage that’s silently reshaping how we see love, Relationships, and even Marriage.

🕵️‍♂️ The Illusion of Perfection

Online couples rarely show you the tears, the arguments, or the days when they barely speak. You only see the coordinated outfits, breakfast in bed, surprise vacations, and “my king/my queen” declarations. What you don’t see is the behind-the-scenes: disagreements, financial stress, misunderstandings, emotional detachment, or even the loneliness they feel offline.

This curated perfection is breeding false expectations. Young hearts begin to believe that real love must be effortless, always sweet, and constantly romantic. But real love isn't a highlight reel—it's raw, honest, and sometimes messy.

💔 Damaging Comparisons

When people compare their real-life partner to someone else’s filtered version online, dissatisfaction starts to grow. “Why doesn’t he text me like that guy?” “Why doesn’t she post me the way they do?” They begin to think they’re with the wrong person, forgetting that no one posts their flaws or struggles.

They overlook the truth that even the strongest couples experience hardship. And unfortunately, instead of working on their Relationship, they chase a fantasy—one that doesn’t actually exist.

🚩 Emotional Deception & False Identities

Online, it's easy to pretend. People can fake lifestyles, feelings, values, and even intentions. Some aren’t looking for love—they’re looking for attention, money, validation, or entertainment. Youngsters, blinded by affection and aesthetic, are getting heartbroken, scammed, or worse, emotionally manipulated.

🧠 Feelings Aren’t Enough

Love is more than feelings—it’s commitment, patience, sacrifice, communication, and hard work. Feelings are real, but they’re not the full picture. You can't build a lasting Marriage on vibes and aesthetics. It requires depth, discipline, forgiveness, and shared values.

💡 Reality Check: Love Is Also Bitter, Not Just Sweet

Nobody posts when the money runs dry. Nobody posts when they lose a loved one. Nobody posts when they argue over priorities. Nobody posts the therapy sessions. Nobody posts the silent treatments. But all of that… is love too.

📣 Dear Young Person,

Don’t idolize online love. Build real love. The kind that doesn’t need a camera to be valid. The kind that survives after the ‘honeymoon’ phase. The kind that remains when life hits hard. Don’t let Instagram couples be the blueprint for your future. Most are actors playing roles for likes, not partners living for legacy.

Build a Relationship that’s more honest than it is entertaining. Let your love grow in private, even if it’s not trending in public.

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BUILD FRIENDSHIP IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP 👥😍😘
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This Youth Corp member has been trending. 💚💚💚
Beautiful and decent.

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I so love this. Beautiful and Modest Christian Ladies.❤️❤️❤️ 😍😍😘😘

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22/07/2025

NEVER GIVE UP! ✊🏿🔥

No matter how tough it gets,
No matter how narrow the road may seem,
No matter the adversity or the adversaries...

Make a decision never to quit.

Yes, times are hard.
Yes, things may not be going as planned.
Yes, your strength may be failing you.

But even so—be intentional about holding on.
At least not yet...🥺

It could be that it’s hitting this hard because you’re just one step away from breakthrough.

Don’t focus on the pain—it’s a distraction.
Fix your gaze on the glory ahead; let that be your fuel.

📖 Romans 8:18 (AMP)
"But what of that? For I consider that the sufferings of this present time (this present life) are not worth being compared with the glory that is about to be revealed to us and in us and for us and conferred on us!"

Don’t fix your eyes on the price—focus on the prize.
Don’t curse the pain—it’s part of the process, a ladder in disguise.

For the sake of your destiny—NEVER GIVE UP!

For the sake of your generation—NEVER GIVE UP!

For the sake of those who look up to you—NEVER GIVE UP!

To give up is to drag another generation through the wilderness you were called to conquer.
Let this pain end with you. Let it not be recycled. 😭😭😭

✍🏿 “The amount of courage, determination, and decisions you make today is directly proportional to the size of grace that’ll be released to you.”

You may argue this, but hear this:
Strength lies more in the bosom of the one who doubts himself but still moves forward,
than in the overconfident who never truly prepares.

Until you decide to move, grace remains at a distance.

And maybe—just maybe—if God had shown you the full picture of what the journey to your glory looked like, you would’ve quit already.
But He didn’t. Why?

Because He’s confident in the strength He planted in you.
That strength is within—look inward.

You’ll find it.
And when you do…

RUN! 🏃🏿‍♂️🔥
NEVER GIVE UP!
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22/07/2025

Marry from the church, and in the church.

Marry your family 💍🌹
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You are walking into prepared blessings this morning. 🕊️🙏🏿❤️

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This is for somebody!

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19/07/2025

"Giving is an Act of Committed Love"

If he cannot give to you, he doesn’t love you.

Hmm... Giving! Giving! Giving!

The moment we hear this word “giving”, what comes to mind?
Money! 💰

But GIVING is deeper than cash.

📌 As an adjective, it means: providing love or emotional support; showing care.
📌 As a verb, it means: freely transferring or allowing someone to have something — even something abstract.

Some folks say:

“But what if I don’t have money, does that mean I don’t love her?”

Listen! The concept of giving isn’t limited to finances.
There are countless things you can give — all of which are valid and powerful expressions of love:

✨ Hope
✨ Time
✨ Joy
✨ A smile
✨ Laughter and happiness
✨ Encouragement
✨ Emotional support
✨ Assistance
✨ Love
✨ Counsel
✨ The Word of God
✨ Prayers
✨ Food
✨ A shoulder to cry on
✨ Airtime or data
✨ A listening ear
✨ Consistent follow-up
✨ Clothing
✨ Money
✨ Recommendation
✨ Recognition
✨ Honour
✨ Admiration
✨ A date
✨ Peace
✨ Integrity
✨ Your full attention
✨ A warm hug (⚠️ but not for the fainthearted 😅 — only give this if you're sure of yourself)

And the list goes on...

There’s not one among these that you can’t offer to someone you love.
Love always finds a way to give — something.
Even if it’s not money, love is always expressing itself through giving.

Interestingly, some people do give heartbreak, fear, deception, and disappointment. Lol 😂
But that’s a different sermon.

Now ask yourself:
Do you really not have anything to give?
Are you still convinced you’re empty-handed?
No — you do have something. Give it out.

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Another popular line I hear:

“It’s only the money language that women understand.”

That may seem realistic in today’s world — but it’s dangerous thinking.

Bro, check yourself:
🔍 Is she a gold digger?
🔍 Is she only interested in what she can gain from you?

If yes, run for your life. That kind of woman is dangerous, manipulative, and unreliable.

PUT HER AWAY.

Because a woman doesn’t only need money — she needs care, attention, and emotional investment.
And a real woman will see and value all the other beautiful ways you give.

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"To love is to give. And true giving flows from the heart, not the wallet."

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