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A lot of people have asked me why I stopped posting on Facebook but the truth is, Facebook gave this page some restricti...
31/07/2026

A lot of people have asked me why I stopped posting on Facebook but the truth is, Facebook gave this page some restrictions so I can’t post because I will get demotivated.
I will start posting when they lift the restrictions.
Abiaghi m igbara Facebook boi 😁

25/07/2026

You think you have no need for a man because you are an independent woman?

Independence is about capacity not isolation.

Because you can do life on your own does not mean you should choose to do life on your own.

Independence does not mean you cannot appreciate a man that leads, supports and protects.

I’m Meso and I will see you in our next conversation, CIAO❤️

25/07/2026

Is it magic?

Don’t marry potential. Marry character.A red flag that is acknowledged, worked on consistently, and backed by real actio...
25/07/2026

Don’t marry potential. Marry character.

A red flag that is acknowledged, worked on consistently, and backed by real action can improve over time. But a red flag that is ignored, defended, or repeatedly excused will most likely become a bigger problem after marriage, not a smaller one.

People only change when they recognize there’s a problem and genuinely want to change, not because someone loves them enough, waits long enough, or sacrifices enough.

Before committing, ask yourself: Am I in love with who this person is today, or with who I’m hoping they’ll become?

Never build your future on promises. Build it on patterns.

24/07/2026

This is for my singles…

Good morning…

Why can’t my wife obey me without questions, I provide everything and pay the bills?Hold up!!!!!Some men believe that be...
23/07/2026

Why can’t my wife obey me without questions, I provide everything and pay the bills?

Hold up!!!!!

Some men believe that because they are the ones providing for the family, their authority should never be questioned. They believe their wife shouldn’t have a voice or contribute to decisions. But that’s a wrong mindset.

Provision and leadership are not the same thing.

Providing for your family is your responsibility, but it does not automatically make you an effective leader. Leadership is shown in your character, your wisdom, your ability to listen, and the way you guide your family.

A wise leader doesn’t silence his wife. He values her opinions and allows her to contribute to decision-making. Listening to your wife doesn’t make you weak, and it certainly doesn’t reduce your authority. If anything, it shows maturity and confidence.

Let’s look at it from another angle.

Suppose your business suffers a setback and, for a period of time, your wife becomes the one providing for the family. Does that automatically make her the leader of the home? Does it mean her word becomes law and every decision must revolve around her? Of course not.

You are still the leader, and the fact that she stepped in during a difficult season does not transfer leadership to her. In the same way, the fact that you provide financially does not mean your wife should be treated as though she has no voice.

Leadership is bigger than money. A true leader leads with wisdom, humility, responsibility, and respect. So don’t confuse being the provider with being the leader. The two are not the same.

I’m Meso and I’ll see you in our next conversation, Ciao!!!

23/07/2026

Yes, paying the bills is important. A man should provide for his family. But leadership goes beyond money.

A true leader gives direction. He communicates. He listens. He protects. He makes wise decisions. He takes responsibility. He leads by example and creates an environment where his wife and children can thrive.

Some men believe that because they pay the rent, buy food, and settle the bills, they’ve fulfilled their role. No. Provision is one part of leadership—not the whole of it.

If all you bring to your home is money but no vision, no emotional support, no guidance, and no positive influence, then you’re acting as a provider, not necessarily as a leader.

Your family needs more than your wallet. They need your presence, your wisdom, your character, and your leadership.

So I have not been posting because my account recommendation was suspended. For me, I didn’t think it was wise still pos...
22/07/2026

So I have not been posting because my account recommendation was suspended.

For me, I didn’t think it was wise still posting since the page is not recommendable but it’s over one month, it’s still saying page recommendation suspended!

Facebook said the profile managing my account did not follow community guidelines in a comment.
The suspension was supposed to be lifted yesterday being 21st July but it’s still there.

At this point, I have done all I can do, guys what should I do to lift the suspension?

If you’re married and you feel like life is over for you, I want you to know that marriage is not the end of your dreams...
04/07/2026

If you’re married and you feel like life is over for you, I want you to know that marriage is not the end of your dreams. It may change your priorities and require sacrifices, but it doesn’t have to end your purpose. I went back to school after four years of marriage and two children, completed my studies and earned my degree. It wasn’t easy, but it reminded me that growth is still possible.

Marriage should be a chapter of your life, not the final page. Keep learning, keep growing, keep investing in yourself. You don’t have to stop becoming the person you were created to be just because you said, ‘I do.’”

Marriage is not a retirement plan for your dreams. You can be a spouse, a parent, and still become everything you’re capable of becoming. Your life didn’t end at the altar, it entered a new chapter. Don’t stop growing because you got married.

However, all these boils down to your choice and this is my advice always- Choose a partner who celebrates your growth, not one who fears it. Love should make room for your dreams, not require you to bury them.❤️

So, it is no longer news that Glitch Africa invited Mr. Obasi for a podcast.I can agree that Mr. Obasi is been paid to s...
16/06/2026

So, it is no longer news that Glitch Africa invited Mr. Obasi for a podcast.

I can agree that Mr. Obasi is been paid to speak against Judy Austin. I can agree that he is manipulative. I can agree that he may not be telling the whole truth. However, what I do not agree with is Judy Austin’s defense of herself.

Whether Mr. Obasi lied against you or not is not the issue. You left that marriage, correct? And you have repeatedly stated that you met Yul Edochie three years after leaving your marriage or after your divorce. I don’t understand why you try to make yourself look like you didn’t hurt or cheat on anyone.

My question is simple: when you met Yul Edochie, was he not already married?

That has always been the main question. The issue has never been about your former marriage, your family, or your past relationship. The issue is that you knowingly became involved with a man who was already married. His wife was not aware, and it was clearly not an open marriage.

So, what exactly are you defending?

You also said that Yul Edochie should not be condemned but praised because he took in a single mother and cared for her children. Praised for what? Taking a single mother at the expense of his own family? Consequently making his own wife a single mother?

At some point, the excuses need to stop. Constantly trying to justify your actions does not change the facts. You made your choices and have chosen to build your happiness in circumstances that caused another woman pain.

Instead of repeatedly defending yourself and making new explanations, shut up!!!!
Your actions and Yul Edochie’s actions can never be justified!!

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