08/08/2025
FROM MY INBOX!
Good morning Mr Victor, thank you for using your platform to entertain and enlighten us. In one of your previous posts, you asked your followers if anyone has ever hated them for no reason? I am writing this post to tell you and your followers that yes, I have been hated for no reason by my own blood sister.
From my earliest memory of my elder sister, she has always bullied me. She's older than me with five years, yet she beats me like a condemned criminal.
Because of her, I begged my parents to change me from the boarding school we attend to a day school so I can be far from her. Because of her, I had my university education in the west so I can be far from her. Nothing I ever do is right in her eyes.
We are just two females ooo. We have two elder brothers(twins) before she was born. According to my mum, my sister was the last child and only daughter before she found out that she was pregnant with me. When I was born, I was told that she started with her initial shenanigans which they thought were childish tantrums, but she never stopped. It got so bad that it continued from childhood till we became teenagers and adults.
On many occasions, I have asked her what I did to deserve such hatred from her, but she wouldn't answer me. When she got married, I was the only family member who looked like a stranger that day, everyone else wore her asoebi except me. I asked her for the fabrics, even offered to pay, but she told not to bother her. She lied to my parents that I said I didn't like the fabric that was why she didn't give me to sew.
This my sister did me shege. There was no sisterly bond between us at all. When I see how others relate with their siblings, I feel kinda somehow. My two elder brothers who are twins are older than me with 12 years, so they were already on the brinks of teenagehood before I was born, but we still had a cordial relationship. They both live in the UK now.
The last time I saw my sister was during our dad's burial in 2020. I learnt she has relocated from Lagos to Calabar with her family. I don't know her children, she doesn't pick my calls, and I've decided to let her be.
I soaked myself in my job and in the relationship I have built with friends, colleagues and church members. I hope that God will bless me with a good man and loving children so that the bond I didn't have as a child, I will create it with my family. For now, it's just me, my job, the few friends in my circle and my mom.
So yes, someone can hate you for no reason.
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8th August 2025
Tealord