
07/08/2025
Story title :The Day After "I Do"
EPISODE 11
“Before You Say 'Yes', and Even After You Do...”
Let’s pause for a moment. Step away from Glory’s voice. Step away from the broken vows, the sharp pain, the silence that followed betrayal.
Let’s talk.
Not as characters, not as narrators, but as people who still believe in love and want to see marriage work.
This isn’t about fiction anymore.
This is about you, the one dating, engaged, newly married, or deep in the trenches of a long-term union.
Glory's marriage didn't break in a day. No marriage ever does.
There were signs. There were lapses. There were emotional leaks that no one patched. There was work left undone.
So What Does It Really Mean to Be Married?
It’s not the wedding hashtag.
Not the pre-wedding photo shoots.
Not the matching Aso-Ebi.
It’s waking up every day and choosing someone, even on the days when they annoy you.
It’s hard conversations.
It's vulnerability.
It’s partnership, not just in fun, but in chores, in parenting, in survival.
Marriage is beautiful. But it is not automatic.
It requires attention. Constant. Deliberate. Tender.
To The Dating and Intending Couples:
Before you say yes, ask the hard questions.
Not just “What’s your love language?”
Ask:
What are your views on house chores?
What do you think emotional intimacy looks like after five years?
When conflict comes,(and it will) how do you respond?
Do you believe helping around the house is optional or essential?
Love is not enough if responsibility is absent.
Compatibility isn’t chemistry, it’s character in motion.
To The Married Ones:
Let’s speak plainly.
If your wife looks worn out, tired, quiet… check again.
Marriage doesn’t erase a woman’s humanity.
She’s still human, still gets tired, still deserves help, not as a favor, but as a partner.
Helping with chores isn't emasculating; it's mature.
A sink of dishes isn't her job, it's your home.
A marriage where only one partner is serving will soon become a master-servant setup, not a covenant.
Glory was drowning in tasks, hospital runs, child care, cooking, cleaning, while her husband drifted further into ease and silence.
Until one day, a third party did what he should have done: listened. Helped. Talked. Paid attention.
That’s how it started. That’s where it broke.
But could it still be fixed?
Could your marriage still be saved?
That, dear reader, is where you come in.
What Do You Think?
Do you believe Glory’s marriage can still be saved?
What would you advise if you were her counselor, or her friend?
Better yet, what advice would you give your younger self before they walked down the aisle?
Drop your thoughts.
Let’s talk raw, real, no filters.
Because marriages don’t thrive by luck. They thrive by truth.
The End 🔚
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