MBT Channel and Freelance Writing

01/05/2025

Back in the days when we were young...

Our parents always taught us the importance of showing kindness to others, not just through words, but by living it out daily.

They didn’t just preach kindness; they modeled it.
.and as children, we learned more by watching them than by simply listening.

Remember how we used to share, even when we barely had enough?

How we spoke kindly to others simply because they were human?

How we showed appreciation, no matter how small the gesture?

Over time, kindness became a natural part of who we are; deeply rooted in our values, in what makes us truly human.

But growing up also means learning to choose kindness even when no one is watching.

It’s easy to be kind when guided by parents or mentors, but true adulthood means standing by those values on your own, consistently, sincerely.

These days, it sometimes feels like kindness has become a switch — on today, off tomorrow.

You might even ask yourself:
— Why can’t kindness be a constant way of life?
— What’s the real reason behind the kindness we show?

Is it to impress? To receive something in return? Or is it truly from the heart?

Because if kindness isn’t genuine — if it's fueled by pride, expectations, or selfish motives — then it’s not really kindness at all.

Real kindness is effortless and sincere.

It’s helping someone not for show, but because your heart simply won’t let you walk away from someone in need.

It’s feeling true joy when you bring light into another person’s world.

It’s being kind even when nobody is watching and expecting nothing in return.

That’s the spirit we must continue to nurture.

Let’s never stop lending a helping hand.

Let’s keep spreading happiness, positivity, and hope.

Because when we make others happy, we find deeper happiness ourselves and we make God smile too.

Did you learn something today?

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18/05/2022

I hate you! 😡

Yes and I mean it!

I mean why will you tell me to my face I did something wrong even when others support me😟

I see nothing wrong in what I did!🤷

My dear there is everything wrong in what you did...her friend Tonia said

Remember the fact that we are friends does not mean I shouldn't tell you the truth and be factual with you when you are on the wrong path...that is what we call valued friendship! She continues'

Come on! You should have at least cover up for me now and not tell it to my face harshly, Lade said with a sad face

My dear if I pamper you and tell you nicely sometimes you don't listen and I wouldn't want you to repeat the same thing again and see it as no big deal now Lade..she said

Remember you rebuke me too whenever I'm in this kind of mess so you should too... remember I love you and I want the best for you, she said with a light pat at lade's back

Hmm...well, oh..oo..oo..okay then, thank you! Lade said with a rolled eyes and light smile. FICTION

Sometimes what we hope true friendship should be is not always the case

While some don't really understand the concept of true friendship

👉True friendship is someone who knows a lot about you and us ready to stand by you at every moments, one who is not scared of rebuking when necessary

While some believe that as a true friend you should be able to defend them and stay loyal to them even when they are wrong ❌

A true friend should be ready to stick with you not only because of what you have to offer or give but also because of the values she sees in you and the willingness to want to complement you despite your weakness

That is what we call 'love of friendship'

✓A true friend is trustworthy
✓supportive
✓have similar interests and values as you
✓stay through tough times
✓complement you
✓wants the best for you
✓consistent and loyal..

So the question is..are you willing to true to whatever friendship you have?

Do you value whatever friendship you have?

Have a great day!

27/04/2022

I really want people to see the good I'm doing🤔

I want them say 'i'm doing well' 👏

This might come to our minds often when we want to help people

Or when we want to take the step of being on the right side or doing what is good

But you should ask yourself..

Why do you take on that decision you are taking is the first thing you should ask yourself..

Because of people??🤷

Just so you can impress them

Or you want their praise and commendation from every angle?

Or you want the fame and recognition that comes from doing that?

Or it is really coming from your heart

You just want to help out or be on that good side because you want people's happiness

You understand their situation better because you've once been there and you try your best to do whatever you can to help out

You want to help out, you want to do good because it makes you happy

So which reason for doing good will you choose?

For fame or recognition by people or for genuine love you have for people?

Let us re-examine our reasons for doing what we are doing

Only then can we re-adjust ourselves and see better reasons to make better decisions

You can start now!

Good morning to you!

09/04/2022

Oh please! I need to give my all

I really need to get up from my fall

I need to keep on moving

I need not to give up

Yes these are quick motivations you need to give yourself

These are what you should speak to yourself everytime

You know why?

Because you are your first motivation

You are the you to inspire you when no one is there

As people have their various life to live

They have their struggles they face

They have their individual challenges they are dealing with

They might as well be looking for someone to give them the needed motivation too

They need someone to lean on too when tense situations arises

A reason you need to help yourself first

You need to self motivate yourself when no one is there to

Just by getting the needed motivation and strength

You might just be able to extend the needed motivation to other weaker individuals too

So in a way you extend and increase the motivational cycle

You encourage other people to motivate and get motivated

You make yourself happy

You get yourself moving

You infect others positively by your self motivating attitude

So never be discouraged

Rather pray for the needed motivation

Celebrate your wins no matter how small or little

Focus on things that motivate you

31/03/2022

Oh my!

I know how difficult it can be

I know how intense it is right now

I can see the present situation

I can imagine what circumstances you might be experiencing

At one or other times, we have found ourselves at times like this

But you know the beautiful thing..

Is the fact that you can still breathe

The fact that you can still talk

The fact that you can still reason and feel pain

The fact that you can still realize and understand your present situation

The fact that you have LIFE

Is all enough to be thankful!

Because as the saying goes 'when there is life there is hope'

Your situation can still be fixed

Your circumstances can still be turned around

That problem can still be solved

All you need to do is to STAY POSITIVE

Irrespective of what you face

That alone gives you the needed strength to face and conquer whatever it is you are experiencing

So never forget to keep being THANKFUL for the GIFT OF LIFE

25/03/2022

Hello great people!

Good morning to you all

How was the night?

Hope you never forgot one thing?

That you are always on our minds

We know how much we really need motivations from time to time as well as educate on the other hand

This is what keeps us going actually

So never forget to tell someone to tell someone to kindly follow us for continuous motivating content

Stay positive! We love you

21/03/2022

How am I going to start?

I mean this write-up

Especially with a good heading

Does that catch you enough? 😅

If yes, we can continue then

Giving has been for a long time now

But what makes it stand out is the reaction of the action itself (giving)

Don't understand? Follow along

How do you feel when someone or a family member gives you something you needed or been looking for?

Are you not happy.. of course you are!

That is one of the many benefits GIVING does

You are thankful and genuinely happy they rendered the help as it comes in handy

Meanwhile, you don't have to have the money to give out

You can give out your resources, money or time...

Funny thing is we underestimate how contagious it is to GIVE OUT

When we give, we encourage other people to give too

They are moved by our kind actions and also want to do same to make others happy

So we can say it encourages social connection

Still following...

Let's endeavor to give out when we can

It's not just about money

What some people need is our quality time...time to create beautiful memories together either as friends, families or partners

It might our efforts, sacrifice towards these ones

Whatever it is, let it come straight from your heart ♥️

Good morning!

14/03/2022

Have ever dreamed of taking a step to start something huge and you want it perfect; you feel it's not big enough or not the perfect size

Have you thought of giving someone a gift and you just feel the size is too small and you want the huge perfect size

Realistically, have you been wanting to start a business or build your brand but you just want everything in place, the right people to work with you or just enough money to start

Ever thought of starting a savings plan but thought to yourself 'i need to start with something tangible'

All these and many other scenarios are what we experience most times

But do you know something that

Just like a LITTLE drop of WATER makes up an OCEAN

So also..

✓You don't have to wait until it's perfect
✓You don't have to wait until the have it all to yourself
✓You don't have to necessarily gift out the biggest gift ever to please someone...it might just be something little , special and unique that touches such ones deeply
✓You don't have to have all the business tools to yourself or a lot of money to start a business you've been wanting to
✓You don't have to start making your savings with a huge amount of money...

Because when you keep doing that and keep waiting until you have it all..

✓You would have wasted a lot of time doing that
✓You would have deprived yourself of the opportunity of giving yourself a trial
✓You have also deprived yourself of getting a first hand experience from taking that step
✓You have totally closed the outcome your free trial might bring about; either positive or negative

Instead of being hesistant about a lot of things or waiting for it to be perfect

Just take a step!

No matter the level or point you find yourself

Once you have a willing heart to start from a little step

You grow from that point into a large army

An unstoppable mighty one
..and It only gets better day by day

So never let that kind of mindset deter you from starting small

Even if the end result is not what you really admire

You'll learn from it and gain the needed experience

Start Somewhere today!

You might just be happy you did

08/03/2022

I just can't go on anymore!

I can't continue to keep up with this while all I get is 'no result'..
....I said to myself silently

Why would I keep exerting efforts and still get reversed back to zero🤷

At least some are doing little and getting result🤔

What could I be possibly doing wrong?🤦

Worrying questions and thoughts might evolve from our minds

Especially when you think you have done all you can to keep up

When you have given all the ideas you have in your head

When you have used all the strategies in this world
..but it's still not working..
.and you think the next thing for you is to GIVE UP

Is to throw all and walk away

But you never realize that those whom you admired up there actually started from points of many fails a level of many successes

They failed but never gave up

We have tremendous examples of these ones all around

So why can't you just be motivated by them

Just maybe what you need is to sit down to give yourself a proper thinking as to why things are always like that

Or why they always end up that way

Probably all you need to do is just to redesign your plan

Or restrategize your methods and see better areas or approach to take

Or maybe we just need the advice or suggestions of an experienced Individual up there

That might make things work out easily or spot us on

Having one main goal in mind NEVER TO GIVE UP but to GIVE YOUR BEST

But of course you should know when to put a STOP

After much trial and effort

Going back to the table to have a redesign and it still not works

Then it is time to ROLL IT OVER to the one who knows it all

One and only CREATOR

Who would help you out with the necessary clarity and insight

Because too much focus on one thing over and over again without much result even after much effort can drain you of your sanity

Hence the need to give your best shot at anything you want to do and know when to STOP!
.and trust in GOD!

04/03/2022

'I said stop speaking.. I've heard you'!

An employee in a Telecommunications company said to me in a commanding tone..

And I'm like ' why would she use that kind of tone with me?'

It's not like I've known her somewhere before or I offended her in anyway

All I came to do was get a product and take my leave as soon as I'm able to get it...and all I get to receive is 'a rude directive; a commanding one at that!' all because I asked a question..🤷

'That's just too much' I kept thinking and I recalled how she acted so cold the day before I was there too as I couldn't get my product that day and was asked to come the following day..

This old woman was possibly in late 70's to early 80's..

As old as this woman is she explained she has been coming around to get this product but for sometime now but wasn't available and she needed it so bad..

Even if the products wasn't available she could have acted better as she responded so cold to her

I felt bad for this struggling old woman and how she must have felt

That was not too good! I said to myself..

Why didn't she give her a warm comforting reply?

Why would she sound so cold?

Why won't she assist her in whatever little way she can to reduce her troubled mind?

A lot went through my mind with my own experience with her too and all I can conclude is 'she is not one with a good WORK ETHICS......

FICTION!
_______________________________

Now many people use to think that once you are good at what you do, then you definitely pass for a good employee

Many even believe once you have the talent and skills necessary then your WORK ETHICS is just great👏

Some on the other hand has the mindset that you have all it takes as a worker when you are productive

But whatever happens to being 'responsible, fair and respectful'

To all; to your employees, boss and people we deal with at work

Because that will show
✓Our good WORK ETHICS
✓We respect everybody
✓We don't look down on anyone
✓We are responsible

Let us endeavor to check ourselves if truly we are displaying the RIGHT WORK ETHICS at our various workplaces and see ways to work more on it and improve in such areas

Because people are watching your kind of person

27/02/2022

I'm not good enough!

Have you ever had those kinds of thought?

The feeling of inadequacy

The feeling that others are better than you
..that they are good looking than you are
..that they are more experienced than you are
..that they have all it takes to be successful but you don't

It can go on and on like that..

But what you fail to realize is that

🔹there is no one like you
🔹that you are unique in your own special way
🔹that you are beautiful or handsome in your own way
🔹that you are good and even better if only you drive out the gift within you and seek to improve yourself

But you have failed to see all these beautiful things about yourself

Because you have consistently compared yourself to other people

and because of your consistent comparison..

You have allowed feelings of fear and inadequacy to fly around the place

So much that it has become difficult to appreciate yourself

As you regularly use other people's standards to measure every steps or decisions you make
..and infact it is affecting you greatly

But should I tell you another secret?

There is a 'secret someone' who is really wanting to be like you

Who admires every of your look that you detest

Who is in love with what you do; what you think you are not doing right

So you see..

That people are there secretly admiring 🔹your look
🔹your courage
🔹your work
🔹your strong will and determination
🔹your positive attitude
🔹your hardwork
🔹your beautiful mind

So come on!

Stand back up and regain your confidence

Only when you stop the comparison and start appreciating yourself

Will that be possible!

Have you at a time lost your confidence?

Share with me!

26/02/2022