07/10/2025
"Criticism, like rain, should be gentle enough to nourish a man’s growth without destroying his roots.” — Frank A. Clark
One of the greatest strengths I’ve learned as a leader in recent times is the ability not to take things personally.
This isn’t about ignoring feedback or becoming indifferent to the voices around me. It’s about choosing resilience over reaction. Every day, I’m faced with decisions, challenges, and opinions. If I carry the weight of every comment, insult or critique on my shoulders, I’ll drain the very energy I need to pursue my vision.
I’ve learned to pause, breathe, and separate my worth from the words of others.
Criticism is not always a reflection of who you are; it’s often a reflection of perspective, experience, or even someone else’s struggles. When you embrace this truth, you free yourself from overthinking and self-doubt. Instead of being derailed by negativity, you become anchored in clarity — and that clarity allows you to keep moving forward with purpose, even when others don’t fully understand your path.
As leaders, we must remember that leadership is not about perfection; it’s about growth. And growth always comes with feedback. When you stop taking things personally, you begin to listen — not defensively, but openly. You start hearing the nuggets of wisdom hidden within feedback, even when it’s uncomfortable.
This mindset turns feedback from a sting into a stepping stone, and every lesson learned becomes another tool in your leadership toolkit.......
đź“ŤCongratulations to the newly Elected Deanery One Executive of the Catholic Youth Organization of Nigeria, Catholic Diocese of Auchi. May your leadership journey be guided by wisdom, humility, and a genuine desire to serve.
Yours in Service,
Vincent.
