22/10/2025
Let me share with you, the advice a very responsible,, well cultured, and adorable mother gave to her daughter that was having problems with her husband
My daughter
I have said this to you and all my daughters, before on countless time,
I still want to say it again, if you will ever listen
See
Until you stop always wants to claim right, in every arguments with your husband,
until you stop always wants be in defenders side, always in your marriage.
until you stopped giving your husband, one million and one percent reasons, why you did something you know that is wrong, but trying to make it look right, in every angles
Until you learn how to shut up and listen to your husband anytime he wants to correct you.
Until you start knowing that it takes only the person that loves you to correct you.
if this guy doesn’t love you, he will never want to change you, into a better person.
Until you make peace with reality that the only people that sees fault in you, is the closest person around you.
The very day you decide to let alone sentiment, pity game and manipulations,
Until you stop claiming to be the only righteous one in that house,
Until you decide to work on yourself and start listening to the things your husband is complaining of, and learn how to make amends,
That is when you will start enjoying your marriage and that thing called peace of mind within yourself.
I know you will still want to do that claiming right in the comment section, instead of you allowing your mind digest the message,
I know that many will still want to bring gender equality into the advise.
But is your choice and opinion,
I just gave you advice, I No force you, to do all I just said here.
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