Ella Kitchen & lifestyle

31/10/2025

Most times, we worry ourselves sick over things completely out of our control. Even though deep down we know worry has never solved a single problem. Still, we stress, we cry, we lose sleep.

Sometimes, we even forget to pray. And yes, prayer is powerful but I’ve come to realize something deeper: prayer alone isn’t always what moves the mountain. Sometimes, what we really need is patience.

Because when it’s God’s time, everything aligns. Effortlessly. No forcing. No begging. No struggling. Just like that the storm calms, the doors open, and the pieces fall into place. Whether you prayed or not, if it’s your season, God shows up and shows off.

I’ve seen it happen how life suddenly becomes sweeter than fried plantain when His timing kicks in. So maybe today, just breathe and wait. God hasn’t forgotten you.

31/10/2025

Make Okra soup with Ella

30/10/2025

I came across a video Korra made 5 years ago, and the words she spoke melted my heart. A little tear dropped from the corner of my eye🥲. You could feel the innocence, the hope, and the love in her voice.

No woman walks into marriage with the mindset to destroy or wreck her husband. Every woman dreams of a home filled with warmth, peace, and respect a space where she’s cherished, protected, and treated like a queen. That’s all we really ask for.

But when the love starts to feel one-sided… when effort meets indifference… when the queen is left to carry the kingdom alone, things begin to change. Don’t blame her for becoming distant. Don’t call her difficult when she speaks up. By the time a woman shares her pain with someone else, know that she’s already been battling in silence for far too long. She’s begged, adjusted, endured, and finally broken.

Sadly, in today’s world, many men weaponize their ego instead of protecting their homes. They flip the script and make the woman the villain forgetting that they once called her their peace, their everything.

And then, two people who once couldn’t sleep without hearing each other’s voice become strangers or worse, enemies.My question is: What happened? What changed? How does love fade so silently, yet so powerfully? How did two hearts that once beat in sync become so disconnected?

Love shouldn’t hurt like this🥲🥲

30/10/2025

This caption come Dey pa!n so many people, it was supposed to be a joke

30/10/2025

Recap: which is your favorite?

30/10/2025

Na this hair dey hungry me do now but na money I Dey find like dis

30/10/2025

Go market with Ella ( Alaba international market traffic jam )

29/10/2025

It’s steak day again

29/10/2025

🎉 I earned the fan favorite badge this week, recognizing me for consistently having meaningful conversations with my fans while sharing unique, relatable content!

29/10/2025

29/10/2025

Making Okpa (African delicacy)

29/10/2025

Stew is ready, bring your rice and join me