17/06/2025
'3 years ago, my parents asked me to get married; And i decided to make them happy by granting their wish. My Mom personally recommended this lady to me;
According to what i was told, she's mom's best friend's daughter & she's from a good home too. I didn't hesitate, I accepted to marry her. We communicated on phone, did video calls. And according to my judgment, from our chats, she wasn't bad after all. On the month of December during my leave, I book a flight back home, & we did our wedding.
After the wedding, my wife refused to get pregnant; she said that she didn't want to take a risk of being one of those wives married to a bush faller who only comes to get them pregnant & goes back abroad then, ends up leaving them frustrated with kids. Though I didn't sit well with this idea but, she insisted. In fact, she mounted so much pressure on me that I was forced to speed up in processing her papers; luckily, it took just a few months, & she was finally granted a visa
It's s been a year gone since then. I've been a good husband to this lady, & I've never asked for anything from her in return. The only thing I asked was for her not to work here in America, & she has always respected that decision, though at times she pleads that she gets bored just sitting home all day, & pleads that she really wants to start earning her own money. But I've always maintained my stand. I prefer, I be the one to work while she stays home, make my food, takes care of the house, make babies & take gud care of them, they start coming
After some few months down the line, This lady here eventually joined a very bad group of friends & they advised & put bad ideas into her & she started to disobey me. They, even went as far as getting her a job without my consent. Even though she pleaded but I still insisted on her not working, but she still went on to take the job disobeying me as her husband. I'm asking now, please, is a woman supposed to be this disrespectful to her husband?
Because, This is where i started to note her very bad character, Two weeks later she even started work despite my refusals. So i also stoped eating her food & giving her a silent treatment just to make her come around, stop working, & at least see that I'm upset with her decision & probably beg & ask for my forgiveness. I just wanted to let her know how much I was annoyed over her decision to disobey me. However, i was shocked that me not eating my wife's food really means nothing to her, instead, she kept going to work every morning, pretending as if everything is fine, like she's unaware we're having issues. This really got to my bones.
Months passed with her still going to work. That was when i really saw that she was determined to disobey me. Well then, I decided to play along & waited for December holiday, in which I cajoled her & asked that we go back home & spend Christmas festival with family & old friends. She accepted. I was happy because i had my plans well worked out..
When we got back to the country, I immediately took her back to her parents, reported the matter to them, abandoned her there after the holiday was over, and left back for America, just to teach her a lesson.
Just to show how she's head-strong, this woman, contacted those same bad friends she has over here just after a few months I left her in the village. And without my notice or concern, they made arrangements & still brought her back here abroad.
While i thought she was in the village where I'm dumped her. This woman was here for over 4 months in America still working without my knowledge! The worst part is that she's not even living at my place.
Honestly!! this is the height of it all! All my life, I've never met a stubborn lædy like this. I'm so pi**ed that I go to work everyday and i can't think straight anymore. I go to work & make a lot of errors because of the anga & pæn I'm feeling inside
In conclusion! I'm so done with this sham called a marriage. I can't be married to a woman who doesn't respect me as the chief commander & head of the family. A woman I picked from the gutters, cleaned up & changed her life. As it is, I'm no longer interested in the marriage
But one thing is, I do not want to see her here in America. And I've told her this!!; I was the one who brought her here in the first place. I didn't bring her to work; I brought her here to make my meals, take care of my home, & kids. Coz definitely, That's the duty of a gud wife. Let her go back because if not for me, she wouldn't have in her life ever dreamed of coming to America. She has no relative here i was the one who brought her here
This, lady you see here, is nothing but a g'øld-dìghã. Since she wants to prove she's a big woman who can disobey her husband & take decisions for herself, let her go back to where I picked her from, cuz I'm done!
Victory! I've sent this message to your people since they're in support of your nasty behavior. Besides, you haven't been able to get pregnant for me either after all these years. Let it be noted that I'm done, I want my dowry refunded in full with immediate effect!"
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