19/07/2025
Say "appreciations" often before going to sleep. Right before drifting off to sleep, share a few things that you appreciate about each other. (Three is a good number, but feel free to share more.) It could be something you did that day (like "I love how honest you are with me") Focus on what you love and appreciate about each other and you will find more to love and appreciate about each other and your successful marriage will blossom
*LET GO OF PERFECTIONISM —*
your partner isn't perfect, and neither are you. In all relationships, both partners will make mistakes. Don't let perfectionism destroy what is overall a good, solid, loving relationship. One of the easiest solutions for how to have a happy marriage, Be kind to yourself and be kind to your sweetheart.
Stop finding fault in whatever your spouse does, it makes you a nagging woman, it makes them don't wanna come home after work, because he is fed up, he is not a woman be**er so he would feel it is best to stay out
*Learn to appreciate everything little thing*
Take good care of yourself. You can't give from an empty cup. Keep up your self-care no matter what. This is especially important for women, who often give until depleted and then nobody's happy.
Sometimes we care too much for our spouse, Inlaws , kids that we forget to care for ourselves
It not supposed to be so, women look good even if there is money to make hair, loose your hair , wash, make a very good weave , you will aslo look nice
We have okrika everywhere, get good knickers , singlet , stop using heat as excuse not to wear bra, especially for b***y ladies,
*You buy body and s*x enhancement product but without good manners and approach your money go waste*
Learn to make things right
*Respect is reciprocal.*
When u treat others right they would do same
I know some in-laws can be something else, but try your best
Don't be a stumbling block , let your husband help his people
*Allowing your friends into your marriage life is like a death sentence*
Because by the time u realise it, it's too late already , your man is gone
*You want to keep your relationship on a high goal.*
What does that mean? It means flirt with your partner for successful marriage. Send each other s*xy texts. Pat her on the butt when you pass him in the kitchen. Give him a long lingering kiss over the laundry. And then remember to let that simmer turn into a full-blown boil regularly. Enjoy yourself. Regular s*x is important in your relationship for so many reasons.
*You don't call your in-laws u want them to be calling u*
*You don't show love and affection toward the other kids in the family u want your kids to be loved*
*BROTHER/AUNTY CONTINUE😒😒*
Opening your heart and sharing your tender places with your spouse creates real intimacy and connection. Always be willing to share your true, deep, scary feelings. This helps create a bond that will last.
*One good turn deserve another and two wrongs don't make a right*
*Cheating on your spouse because he cheated makes u a bigger fool*
Marriage is a decision to be committed through the ups and the downs, the good and the bad. When things are going well, commitment is easy. But true love is displayed by remaining committed even through the trials of life.
Some would say If I cheat I cheat aunty you have a problem, I know it's painful but have u come to notice when a man cheat , he can easily apologize and be forgiven but when a woman does she is sent packing. Even the family of the woman wouldn't want to harbour her because they are ashamed.
*If he cheat I know it painful but get a life, focus on your kids and business it's not easy, it's almost impossible I know but try rather than fighting and Calling the side chicks or cheating back It totally wrong*
S*xual faithfulness in marriage includes more than just our bodies. It also includes our eyes, mind, heart, and soul. When we devote our minds to s*xual fantasies about another person, we sacrifice s*xual faithfulness to our spouse. When we offer moments of emotional intimacies to another, we sacrifice s*xual faithfulness to our spouse.
Guard your s*xuality daily and devote it entirely to your spouse. S*xual faithfulness requires self-discipline and an awareness of the consequences. Refuse to put anything in front of your eyes, body, or heart that would compromise your faithfulness.
Cheating doesn't only surround fu***ng another man or woman. Thier are somethings u do as a human you have cheated
*I don't support men who cheat , it's painful, alot of women can't take it*
I see alot of women today, especially on Facebook comment section saying things like, "Collecting money from my ex is my pension, it's not cheating"
It's totally wrong to collect any material things from your ex, infact you shouldn't even be in touch with them, if you love them so much why seperate.
How would u feel as a man/woman seeing your spouse ex calling and sending gift, won't u think they are still in a relationship?
*Chatting with someone on the phone, especially late hour what are you discussing?*
You always feel the need to chat with that particular person, before going to bed, always want to check on them every morning
Aunty/brother that is how obsession start cause that isn't love but lust
*Women hear this*
Your husband might do something or say something you don't like in public please ignore or concur, you can correct him inside not in public
He might just want to show off to his friend and families that you are a very decent woman, don't fall his hand in public biko especially with his friends, families, especially parents.
He might forget but they won't, they will keep reminding him of it
*Don't make conclusion without your husband*
Especially senior son's wife, landlady. When someone bring a situation let them know that you will discuss it with your husband , and we will get back to them.
Not just concluding, when oga comes, he begin to disagree and you can't even face the person
Don't go to far places without informing your husband, you are not the head of the house he is. It makes them feel they can't control thier homes and it hurt their ego.
Espect it an emergency, you can still drop a text or call for him. If you are going to far place , please do tell them on time.
Not telling him you are going to a wedding by 2pm when it already 12pm what happened to a day before or week before then
* *ABOVE ALL PUT GOD FIRST IN YOUR MARRIAGE*
Don't love your kids more than the other.
Learn to respect your husband especially when he is with his friend.
*SMARTICE*
