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The Better WOMAN., Uyo (2026)

02/03/2025

Mom, Don’t Forget You Too Matter!

Some time few months back, my mom saw me and immediately noticed how worn out I looked. She took one look at my face and sighed, “Promise me you won’t let yourself go.” I laughed it off, insisting there was simply no time for me—too many things to do, too many people to care for. But she wasn’t having it.

“You think I didn’t feel the same?” she said. “I was once a mom of little kids too. There were days I thought I had no time, but something had to change. I had to find a way to pour into myself too.”

That hit deep.

Because here’s the truth: Moms are the engine room of the family. And just like any engine, we need maintenance. We need fuel. We need care.

Our children don’t just need us there; they need us well—physically, mentally, and emotionally. The quality of their lives is directly tied to the quality of ours. If we’re running on empty, what do we have left to give?

I won’t pretend it’s easy. But I did take my mom’s advice. I found the time—even if it’s just a few minutes on weekends. A stolen moment with a book. A deep breath in the quiet. A short walk alone. Whatever it takes to reset, recharge, and return to the job ahead with renewed strength.

Because when you take care of yourself, you’re not being selfish. You’re investing in the mom your children need. And trust me, your future self will look back with gratitude, not regret.

So, dear mama, find the time. Even if it’s just a little. You’re worth it.

Yours in arms,
The Mom Next Door 🌹🫶❤️

22/02/2025

WHY YOU SHOULD MASTER THE ART OF BEING CALM AND COLLECTED AS A PARENT

Parenting is one of the most demanding roles in life, requiring patience, resilience, and emotional intelligence. Children look to their parents not just for love and care, but also for guidance and security. In moments of distress, fear, or mistakes, they need to know without a doubt that their parents are their safe haven. This is why mastering the art of being calm and collected is crucial in your parenting journey.

Your Child Needs to See You as Their 911

Your child must know that you are their first call in any emergency. When they are in trouble, scared, or confused, they should instinctively think, "I need to call mom" or "I need to talk to dad." They should not hesitate or feel fearful about seeking your help. However, this kind of trust is not automatic—it is built through consistent, intentional parenting.

Ask yourself: Do your reactions make your child feel safe? If they make a mistake, will they feel comfortable running to you first, or will they hesitate because they fear being shamed, yelled at, or belittled?

Breaking the Cycle of Fear-Based Parenting

Many of us grew up in homes where mistakes were met with harsh words and punishment. “Stupid boy!” “Foolish girl!”—these were common phrases thrown at children for making errors. This type of parenting breeds fear, not respect. It teaches children to hide their mistakes, seek comfort from outsiders, or even develop deceptive habits to avoid punishment.

As a parent today, you have the power to break that cycle. You must choose between raising a child who trusts you or one who fears you. The difference lies in how you handle their missteps. Do you meet them with understanding, or do you react impulsively with anger and blame?

The Strength in Staying Calm

Being calm and collected does not mean tolerating bad behavior. It means responding instead of reacting. It means disciplining with love, correcting with wisdom, and guiding with patience. When a child sees that their mistakes do not make them unworthy of love, they become more willing to listen, learn, and grow.

When you practice calm parenting:

Your child feels emotionally secure.

They learn emotional regulation by watching you.

They develop confidence in solving problems instead of fearing them.

They build an unbreakable trust in you.

Strength is not in shouting the loudest, using the harshest words, or enforcing fear. Strength is in self-control. Strength is in showing your child that no matter what happens, you will handle it with wisdom and grace. That, dear parent, is the true power of being calm and collected.

The Next Door Mom 🌹🫶

18/02/2025

Parenting Is Hard, But Laziness Isn’t the Answer.

I was scrolling online one certain time and came across a post where a mom was happily stating how she uses her left hand to do her kids' homework every now and then because she doesn't have the time to be running after anybody to make them do it. It was shocking to me because I wondered—how will your kids learn discipline? How will they be encouraged? How can they see you as their cheerleader in academic excellence? Or do you only cheer them on when it's time to come out and dance at birthday parties and the likes?

How do you even know your child's strengths and weaknesses? How will you be able to tell their teachers where they need improvement if you’re not paying attention?

Mama, I know you put in so much work prepping their school lunch, making sure their uniform is neat, and getting them ready for school every morning. If you can spare the time to do all that, why can’t you spare a few minutes in the evening to assist them with their homework—just before dinner or bedtime?

Now, let’s be real—parenting is exhausting. No one is denying that. Some days, you just want to collapse on the couch and forget the world exists. But if we take shortcuts in raising our children, we do them a huge disservice.

Why You Shouldn’t Do Their Homework for Them

1. It Kills Their Confidence – When you take over their work, you send a silent message that they’re not capable of doing it themselves. They start to doubt their own abilities and become dependent on you for everything.

2. It Encourages Laziness – If your child knows that you will always step in and do the hard stuff for them, why should they even try? This kind of attitude doesn't just stop at schoolwork—it spills into other areas of their life. Before you know it, they can’t even do simple tasks like cleaning up after themselves or taking responsibility for their actions.

3. You Miss Out on Teaching Moments – When you sit with your child and go through their homework, you get to see firsthand what they struggle with. Maybe they need help with spelling, maybe math isn’t clicking for them, or maybe they’re easily distracted. This knowledge helps you guide them better and communicate effectively with their teachers.

4. Life Won’t Always Hand Them Shortcuts – One day, they will have to face challenges without you. If they haven’t learned persistence, problem-solving, and the ability to push through difficulties, they will struggle in adulthood. School isn’t just about grades—it’s about learning how to learn, how to think, and how to be responsible.

So, What Can You Do Instead?

Instead of doing the work for them, sit beside them and guide them through it. Ask questions that help them think.

Praise their effort rather than just the result. Let them know that trying and failing is part of learning.

Create a routine—a set time for homework, free of distractions, so they understand the importance of responsibility.

Be patient. Some days will be tough, but the consistency will pay off in the long run.

Mama, the truth is, parenting isn’t about taking the easiest route—it’s about making the sacrifices today that will shape them into responsible, hardworking adults tomorrow. It’s hard work, but it’s worth it.

Yours in the struggle,
The Mom Next Door 🌹

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