Aunty Lynda’s Mama Moments

23/11/2025

Suddenly, the day felt unbearably long. The news of your untimely passing broke my heart. God must be needing more helping hands.

You always encouraged me and reminded me that I had the strength to do far more than I believed.

Adibi, you were one of my greatest gains from Hiltop. May your beautiful soul find rest in the Lord.

17/11/2025

17/11/2025

With Village kings and queens – I just made it onto their weekly engagement list by being one of their top engagers! 🎉

17/11/2025

Keep walking forward without looking back. Rather keep moving than stay stuck. Every step makes you a better version of yourself just keep going.

17/11/2025

I got over 10 reactions on one of my posts last week! Thanks everyone for your support! 🎉

15/11/2025

of resistance

13/11/2025

12/11/2025

My friend has walked through storms that would have broken many, suffered deep losses. Yet through it all, she refused to give up. She stands strong.

Today, she stands tall as a graduate with a Master’s degree, another milestone achieved. A testimony that resilience, faith, and determination can turn pain into power.

It’s a privilege to celebrate with her today.

Congratulations to you love, we rise together.

12/11/2025

The power of Self Reinvention

The lessons are found around us, if we have eyes we can see them.

A few weeks ago, I noticed the leaves on my potted flower had withered. I’d been too busy to care for it, no water, no attention, no sunlight. It stood there, tired and lifeless, a quiet reminder of neglect.

But I decided to start again. I watered it, moved it toward the light, and waited. Slowly, new leaves began to appear fresh, green, and full of life. The same plant, the same roots, yet completely renewed.

It made me realize: we’re not so different. Sometimes we go through dry seasons moments when we feel drained, overlooked, or disconnected from our purpose. But with a bit of care, patience, and intention, we can grow again.

Reinvention doesn’t mean becoming someone new. It means nurturing what’s already within you giving yourself the light, rest, and care you once denied.
Because even when it looks like you’ve withered, your roots are still alive.

You can start again.

10/11/2025

You can’t truly be loved if you haven’t learned to love yourself.
You can’t give peace when your own heart is at war.
You can’t enjoy time with others if you can’t even sit in silence with your own soul.
Ladies, freedom isn’t found in people, places, or approval it’s in coming home to yourself.
It’s in releasing what doesn’t serve you and allowing the real you unfiltered, unedited, unapologetic to shine through.
Today, I chose me.
I spent my time, my way and in that simple act, I found peace within.

09/11/2025

A reminder that sometimes we need to 🛑 shed the stress and ❤️who we are at the moment, knowing that this season too will pass.

09/11/2025

A man buys a car.
He pays tax.
He pays insurance.
He fuels it.
He services it.
He gets it through MOT.
He maintains it so it performs well, looks good, and lasts long.
Nobody calls him demanding for doing so.Nobody says he has “too many expectations.”Because that’s what responsibility looks like when you value something.

Now when a woman asks for emotional investment, effort, consistency, and care in a relationship, suddenly she’s “asking for too much”?
No, baby. She’s asking for maintenance of the connection you both claimed to value.

She’s asking for fuel, love, communication, respect, the things that keep the relationship running smoothly.
If you want a woman who brings peace, support, and love into your life, understand that she’s not a charity case. She’s an investment, one that deserves time, attention, and respect.
Stop romanticizing bare minimum energy.

Stop shaming women for having standards.
Love isn’t free it’s built, nurtured, and maintained.