Chief Chris Pen

Chief Chris Pen Seafarer|Photographer|Instructor|DPO|Chinito|CaviteñoxBatangueño |Dog Lover|Anime
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According to looks raw hahahahaha totoo ba?
11/09/2026

According to looks raw hahahahaha totoo ba?

Wala uwian na. May nanalo na, mga tanker boyz🫢🫢🫢
09/09/2026

Wala uwian na. May nanalo na, mga tanker boyz

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Alam mo ba bakit may mga taong manloloko at nagchecheat? Simply because they lack EMPATHY.Ano ba ang EMPATHY? it is the ...
07/09/2026

Alam mo ba bakit may mga taong manloloko at nagchecheat? Simply because they lack EMPATHY.

Ano ba ang EMPATHY? it is the ability to put yourself in others shoes or position. Kumbaga may ability ka makaintindi ng feelings or pinagdadaanan ng iba.

And empathy is the most important traits na dapat meron ang isang tao. So yung mga cheaters wala sila nito. Dahil di nila alam kung ano ang magiging impact ng pagchecheat nila at di nila naiintindihan gaano kasakit maloko.

Yung mga taong naloko wag nio isipin na may kulang sa inyo. Sadyang di lang sila makuntento at wala silang empathy. At mahihinang nilalang sila

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Kung sa pagkakataon nainlove ka sa dalawang tao at the same time. Piliin mo yung pangalawa, bakit? Dahil kung minahal mo...
06/09/2026

Kung sa pagkakataon nainlove ka sa dalawang tao at the same time.

Piliin mo yung pangalawa, bakit?

Dahil kung minahal mo talaga ng totoo ang una, hinding hindi ka mafafall sa pangalawa.

Isang mahigpit na yakap sa mga una at niloko at pinagpalit sa pangalawa. 🤗🤗

you deserve someone better 🤗🤗

Alam mo yung pinaka traumatizing na pwede mo gawin sa partner mo?Yung nakinig ka sa mga pinagdaanan nya sa buhay nya, na...
05/09/2026

Alam mo yung pinaka traumatizing na pwede mo gawin sa partner mo?

Yung nakinig ka sa mga pinagdaanan nya sa buhay nya, nakinig ka mga masasakit na kwento ng buhay nya, yun mga panloloko sa kanya at iba pa.

At nangako ka na hindi mo ipaparanas o gagawin yon sa kanya.
Pero sa huli gnawa mo rin pala lahat sa kanya.

Yun ang nakakatrauma.

Real talk

04/09/2026
When everything you offered wasnt enough offer your silence, salt is not in the menu but when its missing you feel it. A...
03/09/2026

When everything you offered wasnt enough offer your silence, salt is not in the menu but when its missing you feel it.

Ang lalim no?

Minsan kasi binibigay mo na lahat oras effort, pagmamahal, understanding pero parang kulang pa rin sa paningin ng ibang tao

At darating yon point na mapapagod ka nalang ipalaiwanag ang halaga mo

Dun mo marrealized na hindi lahat ng laban kailngan ipanalo. Minsan ang pinakamalakas mong sagot ay katahimikan

Kasi parang salt lang yan habang nandyan parang ordinaryo lang pro kapag nawala sa mararamdaman ang tunay na halaga kaya kung hindi kaya g iappreciate ang presence mo wag mo sila pilitin

Let your silence say what your words no longer can.

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“The Wife I Chose, The Woman I Let Go”Please keep my identity private. I’m a 38 year-old seafarer, and I’m sharing this ...
03/09/2026

“The Wife I Chose, The Woman I Let Go”

Please keep my identity private. I’m a 38 year-old seafarer, and I’m sharing this not for sympathy, but so others can learn from my mistakes.

When I was younger, I was with a woman named Shiela. She wasn’t the type who would turn heads — hindi maputi, hindi sexy, hindi sosyal. But her heart was pure. She was the kind of woman who appreciated even the smallest gesture. Hindi mahilig gumala, hindi maluho. All she wanted was to spend time with me every time I came home from the ship.

While I was away, she looked after my family. Kahit hindi pa kami kasal, she would check on my nanay, cook for them, and even tutor my younger siblings. She was everything a man could ask for in a future wife.

Then Anne came into the picture. Maganda, maputi, sosyal, flawless. Mahilig sa gala, OOTD, at happenings. Whenever we were together, people would stare. My crewmates would tell me, “Bro, ang ganda ng girlfriend mo!” And I won’t deny it — my ego loved the attention.

I ignored all the warnings my heart was giving me. Even though I knew Shiela truly loved me, I left her. I broke her, and I chose Anne.
At first, everything felt exciting. She was beautiful, and it felt good to show her off. But as time passed, I realized she wasn’t the nurturing type. Ayaw niyang dumalaw sa pamilya ko. She’d complain when my remittance wasn’t big. “Ito lang? Yung ibang asawa may bagong kotse.”

Whenever I came home, instead of a warm welcome, I’d be met with complaints. She was always out — drinking, shopping, taking photos, going out with friends. She never cared if I was tired, if I had eaten, or how my family was doing.

That’s when regret started creeping in.

One night during my vacation, I passed by Shiela’s place. She was there — still simple, still quiet, still humble. She was with a child, her nephew. I watched how gently she cared for him, how her smile remained warm even without a luxurious life.

My chest tightened. That moment, I realized I let go of the woman who would’ve been an amazing wife and mother. The woman who stayed when I had nothing.

Today, I live in a big house, but it feels empty. My wife is attractive, yes — but beauty means nothing when love is absent.
If I could turn back time, I would choose the woman who saw me as her partner in life, not her provider.

To my fellow seafarers: don’t choose a woman just because others find her attractive. Choose the one who will stand beside you, care for your loved ones, and love you even when your pockets are empty.

Because now I’ve learned — the worst storms aren’t always at sea. Sometimes, they’re inside the home you built with the wrong person.

⚓ A regretful seafarer

May nakita akong post sa isang appAno daw yong ginagawa kapag yon trabaho na pinagpray niyo noon is nakakapagod na ngayo...
03/09/2026

May nakita akong post sa isang app

Ano daw yong ginagawa kapag yon trabaho na pinagpray niyo noon is nakakapagod na ngayon?

At mayroong isang reply doon na tumusok sa damdamin ko at nagparealize sken na ito yung pinagdadaanan ko ngayon uh

Sabi nya don…

Sometimes the prayer was ansswered but the version of you who asked for it no longer exists

Makes sense d ba? Yung work or status in general na pinagpray mo noon is nakakapagod na sayo ngayon, maybe you want something new or unti unti ka mg nagiging ungrateful na d mo namamalayan.

Lets put it this way yon status at trabaho na pinagpray mo noon na tinatamasa mo ngayon at pinagppray pa rin mg iba hanggang ngayon

Maybe its time for you to reflect. Napapagod ka lang ba talaga or your being ungrateful?

Mapalad ka wag kakalimutan yon.

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