29/07/2025
๐ณ๐ฟ vs ๐ต๐ญ Cultural Differences
1. Communication Style
Pinas: Mahilig tayo sa pa-diplomatic, minsan โyesโ kahit hindi sure.
NZ: Very direct sila what you see is what you get.
๐ โSa Pinas, โokay langโ means โhindi okay pero ayoko magdrama.โ Sa NZ, kapag sinabi nilang โokay,โ as in legit okay na.โ
2. Time / Punctuality
Pinas: โFilipino timeโ is real. 30 mins late? Normal.
NZ: On time is a must, lalo na sa trabaho or appointments.
๐ โDati, 10:30 start means 11:00 darating lahat. Dito, 10:29 ka palang late na daw. ๐
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3. Family vs Independence
Pinas: Lahat magkakasama pamilya is life!
NZ: Very independent, 18 palang, out na sa bahay.
๐ โDito, 18 ka palang, pinapalayas ka na โpara matuto sa buhay.โ Sa Pinas, kahit 30 ka na, welcome ka pa rin sa bahay ni Mama. ๐โ
4. Social Hierarchy
Pinas: May po, opo, Kuya, Ate, Sir/Maโam respect levels!
NZ: First name basis lahat, kahit boss mo.
๐ โFirst time ko marinig โHi Johnโ sa boss nila, kala ko close sila. Yun pala, normal lang!โ
5. Hospitality
Pinas: Super alaga sa bisita may handaan agad.
NZ: โHelp yourselfโ culture. Literal. Maghanap ka ng pagkain. ๐
๐ โSa bahay ni Tita, may handang merienda agad. Sa Kiwi friend ko, sabi niya โjust grab anything from the fridge.โ Ako: huh?? ๐ณโ
6. Noise & Celebrations
Pinas: Maingay, masaya, may videoke kahit weekday.
NZ: Chill lang, minsan sobrang tahimik. May noise curfew pa!
๐ โNamiss ko yung kapitbahay na nagvi-videoke ng โMy Wayโ tuwing Sabado. Dito, bawal na yun after 10PM. ๐
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7. Food Culture
Pinas: Rice is life. Kailangan laging may kanin!
NZ: Minsan sandwich lang for lunch, or salad.
๐ โNo rice? Parang hindi meal. Dito, toast at butter lang busog na daw. Ako: Asan ang kanin??โ
โNakakatuwang makita ang pagkakaiba ng kultura, pero ang mahalaga nasa puso pa rin ang paggalang, pag-aadjust, at pagmamahal sa bagong environment. ๐ต๐ญโค๏ธ๐ณ๐ฟ