That Girl Stevy Bee

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20/06/2025

I’m not everyone’s cup of tea — and I’m finally good with that.I’m not here to be “good,” I’m here to be real.The healed, growing, glowing kind of woman who finally chooses herself.So many of us are healing from things we never speak about.We’ve been judged, misunderstood, picked apart by strangers who don’t even know our story.But sis… you don’t owe the internet your peace.Let them talk. Let them assume.You’ve survived what would’ve broken them.You’re still soft. Still strong. Still showing up.This isn’t about proving anything — it’s about protecting your peace and owning your glow.You don’t need to be “good” for anyone else. Just be real for you.

18/06/2025

I outgrew the pain, outlasted the chaos, and outshined every version of me that was built from survival.This healing didn’t come with filters or applause — it came with silence, sacrifice, and shutting doors without saying a word.Now I walk different. Talk different. Love different.Because when you heal for real, you stop settling for what broke you in the first place.

18/06/2025

What are we wearing today?”Baby’s rockin’ size 15s and a whole lotta Ngāti Kahungunu mana 😤🩸His feet bigger than half the men I know –we don’t raise boys, we birth GIANTS over here 🤣👣.. I asked god to send me a man who would never stop loving me. He Gave me three sons. Each with the most beautiful gentle souls. my protectors.. my gentle giants. , , ,

17/06/2025

yeah like the ones out here bragging about being toxic thinking they cute😂.. Nothing cute about staying toxic or having a toxic mentality.. How are we adults, raising children but still moving like you a teenager in high school.. 🏫
🙄😂🤣 Grow up ⬆️..

Whoever got uninvited from this event 😂 — that’s between you and your conscience, sis.Let’s be real… Over the last few y...
16/06/2025

Whoever got uninvited from this event 😂 — that’s between you and your conscience, sis.
Let’s be real… Over the last few years, I’ve come across a lot of women who don’t actually know me — they just know of me. And somehow, my presence, my light, and the way I carry myself on and off social media bothers them.

These are the types who rely on likes, labels, material possessions and loud energy to feel seen. Meanwhile, I could show up in rags and still outshine them with my energy, character, and soul. That’s not arrogance — that’s alignment.
I’ve never needed material things to get attention. I walk in my purpose, and that alone is enough.

If who I am threatens who you pretend to be, that will never be my problem. 💅🏽✨

14/06/2025

Some of us really had to learn the hard way…
That the people watching our every move — friends, whānau, people we grew up with — aren’t always watching out of love.
They’ll view every story, every post, every win…
but go silent when it comes to public support.
Why?
Because deep down, they don’t want to see you grow past the version of you they’re comfortable with.

And I felt that.
I’ve seen it.
The fake love, the shade behind smiles, the ones who clap for strangers louder than they ever did for me.
That’s that tall poppy syndrome.
It’s real. Especially here in NZ, where standing out is treated like a threat.

But I’m not shrinking for anyone.
I cut off that energy — for good.
Because the evil eye is real, and I refuse to keep people close who secretly want me to lose.

This season is about protecting my peace, loving loudly, and moving with purpose.
You don’t have to tear others down to rise.
Some of us are healing generations of pain — and we’re doing it gracefully, unapologetically, and without permission.

’tSitWithMe

14/06/2025

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Let’s really talk about loyalty.And this goes both ways — but right now, let’s address a certain kind of betrayal most p...
13/06/2025

Let’s really talk about loyalty.

And this goes both ways — but right now, let’s address a certain kind of betrayal most people won’t admit:

Not every man cheats with his body.
Some cheat with attention.
With charm.
With the need to feel wanted — even if it costs the peace of the woman who already loves him.

Some men disguise their need for validation as “just being friendly.”
They’ll tell you, “It’s for the brand,”
“She’s just a follower,”
“I don’t want to be rude,”
when really — they love the attention.

They thrive off the comments, the flirtatious DMs, the constant reassurance from women who aren’t you.
They call it harmless.
They say it’s part of the game.
But what they’re really doing is feeding their ego at the expense of your emotional security.

Cheating isn’t just about s*x.
It’s the secret conversations.
The private stories.
The laugh-reacts on suggestive posts.
The women who think they have a chance because he never made it clear they don’t.

It’s when he becomes protective of his phone.
When he deletes messages.
When his “brand” starts looking like a single man soaking in attention —
while his woman sits in the background, pretending not to notice.

That’s not business. That’s betrayal.

Loyalty isn’t about what happens on camera — it’s who you are when nobody’s watching.

It’s drawing the line before it’s crossed.
It’s making women feel uncomfortable trying to flirt with you — because you’ve already made it clear you’re taken.
It’s protecting your relationship like it’s sacred — not disposable.

Because a man who truly respects his woman doesn’t entertain other women just to feel good about himself.
He doesn’t need followers to validate him.
He doesn’t use “audience engagement” as a reason to make women feel seen in ways his partner no longer does.

He chooses peace over popularity.
Respect over reach.
Boundaries over ego.

And when your woman starts to feel unsafe in the love she built with you —
when her intuition is louder than your explanations —
you don’t get to call it insecurity.

Because you knew what you were doing.

So no, it’s not just social media.
It’s the messages that disappear.
It’s the fake transparency.
It’s the way she watches you light up for strangers while going silent with her.

It’s the way her love started to feel small while your ego got bigger.

That’s the kind of cheating that doesn’t leave bruises — but still breaks hearts.

11/06/2025

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Let’s talk about that tired line: ‘If you love me, you’ll accept me as I am.’ Nah, let’s be real—love doesn’t mean toler...
10/06/2025

Let’s talk about that tired line: ‘If you love me, you’ll accept me as I am.’ Nah, let’s be real—love doesn’t mean tolerating someone’s refusal to grow.

There’s a big difference between accepting someone’s authentic self and enabling emotional immaturity. Love is not a license to stay toxic, unhealed, or emotionally unavailable. It’s not a pass to keep repeating harmful patterns and calling it ‘just who I am.’

Growth is hard. Healing takes work. But when you truly love yourself—and when you care about the people in your life—you put in that work. Not just for them, but for you too.

Because guess what? People will eventually get tired of carrying the emotional weight you refuse to unpack. They will walk away—not because they don’t love you, but because they’re choosing peace, protection, and growth over pain.

So let’s normalize this:
💡 Accountability is love.
💡 Self-awareness is love.
💡 Doing the work is love.

Stop expecting people to stay while you stay the same. If you want deep, healthy relationships, you have to show up healed—or at least healing. 💯❤️‍🩹

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