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How silly of meI almost stopped them from getting dirty and using their imagination.I almost called them inside.Almost a...
07/08/2025

How silly of me
I almost stopped them from getting dirty and using their imagination.

I almost called them inside.
Almost asked them to change out of their play clothes.
Almost said, ā€œBe careful,ā€ before they even started.

But then I looked closer.
At their bare feet in the dirt.
At the way they were huddled around that basket like it held buried treasure.
At their joy.. the kind that doesn’t come in plastic or require a screen.

They were creating a world together.
With sticks, leaves, laughter, and a whole lot of teamwork.

And I nearly ruined it with a grown-up thought.

So I stepped back.
Because one day they’ll be too big to crawl under trees,
but I hope they’ll always remember what it felt like to be small,
free, and wildly imaginative.

Let them play.
Let them get dirty.
Let them live childhood the way it was meant to be lived.

07/08/2025

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If spoiling my child meansanswering every callwiping every tearholding him through the hard daysand making sure he feels...
07/08/2025

If spoiling my child means
answering every call
wiping every tear
holding him through the hard days
and making sure he feels loved in a world that can be cold,

then I’ll gladly wear the title of ā€œspoiler.ā€

I’m not here to raise a child who wonders if he mattered.
I’m here to raise a child who knows
he’s valued, safe, and deeply loved.

I want him to grow up with confidence,
not scars from neglect disguised as ā€œindependence.ā€
If that makes me extra, so be it.

I’d rather be extra with love than lacking in it.

Dear Heaven, please be kind to them…I never got to hold them.I never got to hear their cry, or kiss their tiny fingers.B...
07/08/2025

Dear Heaven, please be kind to them…

I never got to hold them.
I never got to hear their cry, or kiss their tiny fingers.
But they were mine.
And I loved them with everything I had.

So if they’re with you now,
Please make sure they’re wrapped in warmth and peace.
Please let them feel the love I still carry for them every single day.

Tell them I wanted them.
Tell them I miss them.
Tell them they were real, even if the world didn’t get to see.

Because losing them didn’t make me less of a mother.
It just made me a mother with empty arms…
and a heart that will never forget.

Forever my baby. Forever loved.

She’s in her 20’s raising little people.She’s choosing bottles over brunch.Diaper bags over designer bags.Bedtime storie...
07/08/2025

She’s in her 20’s raising little people.

She’s choosing bottles over brunch.
Diaper bags over designer bags.
Bedtime stories over bar nights.
Messy buns over perfectly done hair.

While others her age are still figuring out who they are, she’s already found her purpose in the tiny hands that reach for her.

She’s learning patience, strength, and sacrifice in ways that can’t be taught in classrooms or found in books.
She’s giving everything she has, and then somehow finding more to give.

She’s not missing out, she’s building something real.
Something that will outlast trends, parties, and temporary moments.
She’s raising the future… and doing it with a kind of love that only a young mom can give.

You won’t find 17 dirty diapers laying around my house…But you will find toys everywhere, fingerprints on the fridge, a ...
06/08/2025

You won’t find 17 dirty diapers laying around my house…

But you will find toys everywhere, fingerprints on the fridge, a giant laundry pile, and a living room that looks like a tornado blew through.

That’s called lived in.

There’s a huge difference between a house that’s lived in and a house that’s filthy.

Lived in is,
• Toy clutter and snack crumbs
• Fingerprints on windows
• Dishes in the sink after a home cooked meal
• Piles of clean laundry waiting to be folded

Filthy is,
• Rotting food on the counter
• Mold growing in the sink
• Diapers left sitting for days
• Trash overflowing and ignored

Lived in means I’m busy raising humans, not chasing perfection.
Filthy means someone’s given up entirely.

My house?
It’s loud. It’s messy. It’s full of life.
But it is not dirty. It is not neglect.

It’s the kind of home where memories are made,
Not messes ignored.

There’s a difference.

You don’t realize how fast time goes by until you watch your baby grow up.🄺
25/01/2025

You don’t realize how fast time goes by until you watch your baby grow up.🄺

Mango dessert 🫠
24/01/2025

Mango dessert 🫠

They say that many couples separate after having children because... Firstly, many husbands today don't understand what ...
24/01/2025

They say that many couples separate after having children because...

Firstly, many husbands today don't understand what a mother goes through. (Mentally, physically, emotionally, during pregnancy and postpartum)

Secondly, they think she's always angry, they think she's always acting up, but they don't know the sacrifices and endurance she makes just so the children won't be affected.

Thirdly, communication. Most couples, once they have children, lose communication. If there's a problem, talk about it, don't run away. Don't tell your family or friends because sometimes they're the ones who destroy the family you built. You, as a couple, are the ones who should fix your problem. Not your family, not your friends.

To the husbands out there, understand your wives. Pregnancy, especially childbirth, is no joke. Almost half of women's lives are in danger because of pregnancy and childbirth. They sacrificed their beautiful bodies, careers, and good lives to give you offspring. Let's appreciate our wives! 🄰

Kudos to the mothers who are willing to sacrifice their own lives for the good of their family! You are the true heroes, MOMS.

Yung dalawa tatlo lang kayo kumakain pero ganito lagi hugasan sa isang arawšŸ˜…
11/01/2025

Yung dalawa tatlo lang kayo kumakain pero ganito lagi hugasan sa isang arawšŸ˜…

Mag ala sais ( 6 ) na nang gabi nang makita kong makalat at madaming basura ang harap nang bahay kaya kinuha ko ang wali...
06/01/2025

Mag ala sais ( 6 ) na nang gabi nang makita kong makalat at madaming basura ang harap nang bahay kaya kinuha ko ang walis ting-ting upang mag walis.May isang matanda na dumaan at tinawag ang pangalan ko pero di ako lumingon dahil alam ko na kung ano ang sasabihin niya ngunit patuloy padin siya sa pag tawag hanggang sa tinawag niya ako nang ā€˜ Hoy ā€˜ Masama ang mag walis sa gabi bukas nalang! Nilingon ko siya at tinignan lang habang naglalakad pauwi. Pinagpatuloy ko ang aking ginagawa.

Bago ho tayo manuway sa kapwa natin alamin ho natin kung sila ba ay naniniwala sa pamahiin.

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Mas gusto ko pa to kesa  chocolates šŸ™‚
05/01/2025

Mas gusto ko pa to kesa chocolates šŸ™‚

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