Fierce Woman

29/08/2026

29/08/2026

22/08/2026

"Kindness cost nothing, but means everything."

22/08/2026

😝

22/08/2026

Bakit ka magpapa-apekto
sa mga sinasabi
ng wala namang narating.

It's not really about
whether they're right or wrong.

Kasi kung susuriin mo,
hindi naman laging totoo
ang laman ng sinasabi nila.

The actual reason you're affected
isn't the content of what they said.

It's the automatic weight
we give to people close to us,
regardless of their track record.

Itinuro satin na dapat pakinggan:

ang mas matanda,
ang kamag-anak,
ang taong matagal na nating kilala,

kahit ano pa man ang sinasabi nila.

So we confuse respect for the person
with authority over our decisions.

Pero these are two different things.

You can respect someone
nang hindi mo kailangang bigyan

ng bigat yung sinasabi nila
tungkol sa buhay mo,

lalo na kung wala silang narating
na kahit katiting lang na
kahawig ng gusto mong marating

You can love someone
and still not let their opinion
carry more weight than it actually deserves.

Kaya sa susunod na magsalita sila,
alalahanin mo,

hindi ka nagiging bastos
kung ilalabas mo sa kabilang tenga
ang mga salita nila.

You're just protecting your direction. 😌

22/08/2026

never.😎