12/06/2025
“THE REALITY OF LOSING A SPARK AFTER BECOMING A MOM”
Ang daming mga mommy ang nag uusap about “Losing a spark after giving birth” kumbaga hindi na “Glowing” kagaya ng dati.
Yung dating maayus manamit, ngayun halos wala ng time mag ayus
Yung dating confident sa sarili, ngayun lagi nalang nagtatago sa oversize t-shirt.
And I get it, kasi i’ve felt it too.
I check my body in the mirror and yes it’s so different.
And alam ko na magbabago talaga after manganak
pero iba pala pag sarili mo ang tinitignan mo sa salamin.
Stretchmarks na wala dati
Dami monang pimples
Yung katawan mo lalong lumalaki
Yung 8 hours na tulog mo ngayun 3-4 hours nalang.
And kahit sabihin man natin na we expect this to happen, reality is that no one prepare us for this.
But please know,
It’s not about comparing
It’s not about anyone else
Some moms may recover soon, some may not really lose their “Spark” after giving birth.
But for others, like me it takes time to be myself again, specially I choose to become a fulltime mom and I breastfeed.
It takes courage and sacrifice to become a mom and I accept it with all my heart even if I will not get my old self again.
If you are someone, like me that still recovering, still healing and still adjusting please remember that….
Losing your spark/old self doesn’t mean you lose your worth, you are beautiful enough and a hero to your baby and be Proud of that💚
Post Partum is not easy, some moms could not handle it, so please be kind to them.
Because waking up in the middle of the night to feed your baby and to change diaper with a sleepy head is not easy, it cost you nothing to be kind😇
To All the Mom out there, We might lose our Spark right now, soon we will be able to get it back for now our Baby is all that matter😇💚