Mga Yawyaw ni Ma’am Che

08/11/2025

Marriage is God’s classroom
for learning mercy and grace.

Where there is:

✅ confession
✅ apology
✅ forgiveness
✅ reconciliation

There is the presence of Jesus. 🙏🙏

07/11/2025

— “The Tree That Died Slowly”

A husband once planted a beautiful mango tree in his backyard.
It grew quickly — green leaves, strong branches, healthy roots. He watered it daily at the start. He removed weeds. He protected it from pests.

But as months passed, he got busy.
He still loved the tree — he always admired it from the window —
but he stopped watering it, assuming it would survive on its own.

Slowly, the leaves curled.
The branches dried.
The fruit stopped growing.

One day his neighbor said:
“Your tree didn’t die because you stopped loving it.
It died because you stopped caring for it.”

Marriage is the same.
Love does not die from lack of emotion.
It dies from lack of effort.

07/11/2025

Mao gyud ning tinood. Proven gyud ni for 34 yrs years nga ga hire mig mga tawo..

Di gyud mag dugay ang empleyado nga depektado ang batasan bisan pag kugi sila.. in ana ka importante nga mahulma diha sa atung panimalay dili lng ang ilang ka kugi.. labaw sa tanan ang ilang ka dili arogante, dili pabigat sa pamilya kay ang pabigat sa pamilya .. pabigat pod an sila sa team kung manarbaho na..

Ang ending magtigulang na imong anak way klarong trabaho lay walay agalon nga maka agwanta sa batasan.

07/11/2025

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“Ang daming proud na prangka sila o walang filter magsalita, pero the truth is some just like coating their rude behavior in disguise of being honest. Honesty? No, it’s your lack of emotional intelligence for me.”

In today’s world, many people take pride in being “prangka” or “honest,” claiming that they’re just “telling it like it is.” But honesty isn’t an excuse to be rude. Ang pagiging totoo ay hindi dapat nakakapanakit. There’s a big difference between being straightforward and being insensitive.

True honesty is rooted in respect. When you tell the truth, it should come from a place of care and growth — not from ego or pride. Sadly, some people use “honesty” as a mask for cruelty. They hide behind phrases like “I’m just being real” or “at least I’m honest,” when in reality, they’re simply being tactless and emotionally unaware.

Emotional intelligence matters. It’s not just about what you say, but how you say it and why you’re saying it. Minsan, ang sinasabi mo ay totoo naman, pero kung paraan mo ay bastos o mapanakit, nawawala ang kabutihang intensyon.

The goal of honesty should be to enlighten, not embarrass. To build, not to break. Because at the end of the day, kindness without truth is hypocrisy, but truth without kindness is cruelty.

This message made me realize that honesty is not the same as bluntness. Maraming tao ang sinasabing “totoo lang ako,” pero ang totoo — gusto lang nilang manakit, o iparamdam na mas tama sila kaysa sa iba.

Being emotionally intelligent means understanding that words have power. Hindi sapat na tama ka — dapat marunong ka ring makiramdam. Sometimes, silence can be wiser than “truth” said without compassion.

Na-realize ko rin na mas malalim ang pagiging totoo kapag marunong kang magpahayag ng katotohanan nang hindi mo kailangang manlait o mang-insulto. That’s not weakness — that’s maturity.

Para sa mga nagsasabing “prangka lang ako”:
Be mindful. Honesty without empathy is just cruelty with confidence. Hindi mo kailangang maging bastos para masabing totoo ka. Learn the art of saying the truth with grace.

Para naman sa mga nakakatanggap ng ganitong “honesty”:
Don’t take every blunt word as truth. Evaluate it. Sometimes, people’s rudeness reflects their own insecurities, not your flaws.

And for everyone:
Use your words to heal, not to hurt. You can be real and kind at the same time — that’s what true honesty looks like. 💬✨

06/11/2025

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Ang hirap maging magulang kapag yung sugat mo, hindi pa rin tuluyang naghilom.

Minsan kahit anong effort mong baguhin yung cycle, lumalabas pa rin yung mga pattern na ayaw mong ulitin.
yung tono ng boses na parang sa magulang mo,

yung control na minsan ayaw mo pero napapasa mo rin.

You try to stay calm, pero minsan napapasigaw ka pa rin.

You try to understand, pero minsan nauuna pa rin yung galit.

And then you feel guilty, kasi alam mong yun yung same pain na gusto mong putulin.

Lumaki ka sa sigawan, sa away na halos araw-araw,
sa pakiramdam na kailangan mong sumunod para lang may peace sa bahay.

Kaya ngayon, habang ikaw na yung magulang,parang may inner battle
between the parent you knew and the parent you want to be.

Pero tandaan mo, hindi natin kasalanan kung paano tayo pinalaki,
pero responsibilidad nating baguhin kung paano tayo magmamahal ngayon.

Each time you choose to listen instead of shout,
to hug instead of blame,
to guide instead of punish you’re already breaking the cycle.

Hindi kailangang maging perfect na parent.
Just be the kind of parent you needed when you were a child.

06/11/2025

Maka touch kaayu nga picture no? Picture ni sa baha sa Cebu. Bisan unsa gyud kalisod dili gyud byaan sa Mama ang mga anak. Mao na atung dakung katungdanan sa mga anak nga gi salig sa Ginoo sa kanato..

Ngano ang uban tawo nga mama sayon ramn kaayu biyaan ilang mga anak? Ang uban ipang labay lang sa basurahan 😞😞

05/11/2025

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“Huwag mong ilihim sa anak mo kung ano talaga ang financial situation ninyo.”

Honesty is one of the most valuable lessons a parent can teach a child — especially when it comes to money. Huwag mong ilihim sa anak mo kung ano talaga ang financial situation ninyo. Because teaching them the truth about your finances is not about burdening them; it’s about preparing them for real life.

In many Filipino households, parents often try to protect their children from financial worries. Ayaw nilang maramdaman ng anak ang hirap, kaya’t madalas sinasabi nila, “Okay lang, may pera pa naman tayo.” But sometimes, shielding them too much prevents them from understanding value, gratitude, and responsibility.

Letting your child know the truth — gently and wisely — teaches empathy. It helps them appreciate every meal, every tuition payment, every little thing they receive. It teaches them that money is earned through hard work, and that sometimes, sacrifices have to be made.

A child raised with awareness grows up not entitled, but grounded, grateful, and wise.

Realizing this made me think about how important transparency is in families. Hindi kailangang iparamdam sa bata ang bigat ng problema, pero dapat alam nila kung paano magpahalaga sa mga bagay.

When children are aware, they become more understanding. Hindi sila magrereklamo agad kapag hindi natupad ang gusto nila, kasi alam nila kung bakit. They learn patience, humility, and appreciation — values that go beyond money.

Minsan, ang pagiging totoo ay mas mabuting proteksyon kaysa sa pagsisinungaling para “hindi masaktan.”

Para sa mga magulang:
Don’t be afraid to be honest with your kids — just speak with love and wisdom. Explain your financial situation in a way they can understand. Hindi mo kailangang ilahad lahat ng detalye; sapat na na malaman nila na ang bawat bagay ay pinaghihirapan.

Para sa mga anak:
If your parents open up about your financial situation, listen with compassion. Hindi nila sinasabi iyon para iparamdam na mahirap kayo, kundi para turuan kang maging responsable, marunong umintindi, at hindi maluho.

At para sa lahat:
Money shouldn’t be a taboo topic in families. Open conversations build trust, teamwork, and understanding. Remember, a child who grows up with truth becomes an adult who values effort — not luxury. 💛

05/11/2025

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05/11/2025

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10 Money Myths Na Hindi Mo Dapat Paniwalaan

1. “Mas malaki ang sahod, mas yayaman ka.”
Hindi automatic na yayaman ka kahit mataas ang income kung gastador ka pa rin. Marami ang malaki sahod pero baon pa rin sa utang.

2. “Kailangan ng malaking kapital bago makapag-business o investment.”
Hindi totoo. Pwede ka magsimula sa maliit muna at palaguin mo unti-unti. Ang importante consistency ka.

3. “Mag-iipon muna ako, saka na ako mag-i-invest pag malaki na ipon ko.”
Reality check: Kung laging “saka na,” baka maubos na oras at opportunities mo. Kahit maliit, pwede ka naman mag-start. Maraming paraan para makapag-invest kahit maliit lang muna.

4. “Safe sa bangko ang pera, doon ko na palalaguin.”
Safe nga, pero hindi lumalaki. Inflation ang kalaban ng pera mo sa bangko kasi unti-unting pinapababa nito ang value ng pera mo.

5. “Bata pa ako, hindi ko kailangan mag-ipon o mag-invest.”
Wrong mindset. Habang bata ka, mas malaki ang advantage mo dahil may time ka at kakampi mo ang compounding growth.

6. “Pag nagka-pera na ako, mawawala lahat ng problema.”
Hindi lahat ng problema naso-solve ng pera lalo na kung di ka marunong mag-manage nito. Kung walang financial literacy, kahit gaano karaming pera ang mapunta sa iyo. Mauubos pa rin ito.

7. “Utang lang ang way para makabili ng bahay, kotse, o gamit.”
Pwede naman planuhin at pag-ipunan. Hindi kailangan malubog sa utang at magbayad ng malaking interest para lang makuha ang gusto. Pwede mo rin gamitin ang utang pero dapat kaya mo itong bayaran.

8. “Swerte-swerte lang ang pagyaman.”
Hindi ito tungkol sa swerte. Disiplina, wise decisions, at consistency ang totoong sekreto ng pagyaman.

9. “Pagdating ng retirement, may SSS/GSIS naman.”
Hindi sapat ang pension. Kailangan mo pa rin ng sariling ipon at investments para secured ang future mo.

10. “Hindi para sa akin ang maging mayaman.”
Limiting belief lang yan. Kahit ordinaryong tao, pwedeng umasenso basta may tamang mindset at financial habits.