23/07/2025
Every narcissist goes through 7 peculiar phases in life. In the first four or five, they believe they’re winning using, exploiting, and manipulating without remorse. They feel untouchable, building their empire on the backs of others. But once those phases fade, reality hits. And in phases six and seven, the punishment begins. That’s when karma finally shows up and it’s brutal.
Phase 1: The Entitled Seed Is Planted
The narcissist is blindly enabled by parents who put them above everyone—without effort, without merit. They’re taught hierarchy, not humility. They grow up feeling superior, expecting others to submit. They learn fake charm by watching their parents manipulate the world with smiles and lies. Whether overpraised or neglected, the message is the same—your true self is not enough, so become someone powerful.
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Phase 2: The Birth of the False Self
They start abandoning real emotions and replacing them with performance. Vulnerability is buried, and charm, arrogance, and control take its place. They become who the world wants, not who they are. The mask becomes their identity.
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Phase 3: The High of Validation
They discover how powerful attention feels. Romantic partners, friends, even teachers fall for their act. Admiration becomes a drug. Anyone who doesn’t feed their ego gets discarded. Connection is no longer the goal—control is.
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Phase 4: The Mirror Game
They stop seeing people as people and start using them as mirrors. If you reflect their greatness, you’re kept close. If you reflect their flaws, you’re shattered. You’re not loved—you’re used to support the fantasy.
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Phase 5: The Cracked Mask
Their lies and patterns catch up. People leave. Their charm stops working. Panic sets in. They scramble for new supply, but it doesn’t land the same. The mask slips, and they blame everyone but themselves for the fallout.
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Phase 6: The Isolated Shell
Friends disappear. Partners go no contact. Their public image fades, and their private life is filled with paranoia, bitterness, and silence. They spiral into emotional decay—surrounded by things, but completely unloved.
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Phase 7: The Miserable Ending
They age alone. No real relationships, no legacy of love. Just a string of broken people left behind. Even in their final days, they refuse accountability. And so they die angry, hollow, and still pretending it was never their fault.
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